It is just so hard! I am really trying
not to call him or cry anymore but then he
goes and does things that give me hope and
I take those things as signs that he does
want to be with me and it starts all over
again. Yesterday he calls me to ask me
what I wanted him to do with some movies
we had rented last week. It's obvious he
needs to return those, right? I didn't
cry while on the phone with him, we hang
up and then he sends me a text. He tells
me, "see you seem fine already, you don't
sound upset at all, that's great, I told
you ud move on right away" so I ask him,
if he wants me to be crying all the time,
I tell him that I wish it was that easy,
but I am hurting. He tells me well we
will see what happens ok. Get some sleep
and we will see what happens... I wanted
to give him some space so he can really
think about what he wants to do but he's
the one that keeps texting me...And if I
don't reply...He gets upset. What am I
suppose to do, what am I suppose to
think? I wish this whole thing was just a
terrible nightmare!
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 12-08-06 13:39pm
First it sounded like he was trying to let
you down easy by saying we will see what
happens.Second,with him texting you and
getting mad that you don't text him
back,he's playing mind games with you.He
knows he can have you so he's gonna act
like that.Don't call,don't answer the
phone,erase all his text and don't answer
them back.Tell him he wanted it to be over
so don't contact you.It sounds harsh but
its the truth and by you thinking
everything is a sign (which its not) is
just allowing him to drag it on.Trust me,i
wish I wuold have listened when people
were telling me what I needed to hear.
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lore03
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Posted: 12-08-06 19:20pm
Hi melissa,
thank you for posting, it helps! If he
keeps texting or calling I will have to
find the courage (as much as it hurts) to
tell him to stop doing so 'cause he is
only confusing me,he is the one that ended
things so it has to stop. Ur probably
right, when you say he is only playing
games (with my mind) but when you want it
to be all good, you turn things around to
make them work the way you would want them
to. I keep thinking, he's calling me so
he really doesn't want to break up with me
but the truth is, he probably is trying to
take the guilt from him. I guess I just
need to let it go as sad as this is and
see what happens...Plus, if we are meant
to be, then sooner or later it will
happen, right? Thanks again.
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