Should I Still Feel Angry About This? Posted: 12-10-06 21:28pm
I was in a relationship a few years back
there is an incident that happened that
has always confused me. I was playing
around one day with my ex boyfriend and
well somehow it ended up where he had me
sort of pinned down. My boyfriend seemed
to be constantly pressuring me that I
should feel comfortable taking off my top
in front of him and I always said no to
him. This time however he started bugging
me again and then trying to take it off of
me and I said no to him and pushed his
hands away. I have often thought perhaps
I made a big deal about this but what
happened next is that he sort of grabbed
both of my hands and sort of pinned them
in back of my head and started lifting my
top and taking off my bra and basically
fondling me. In this situation I started
to become very frightened at him he began
to tell me how I never let him do this and
that I didnt tell him I liked it. Nothing
else ever happened with him but I have
been angry about this incident and never
told anyone. I never really told anyone
cause I was ashamed about getting me
myself in that situation.
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RedDelight
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Re: Should I Still Feel Angry About This? Posted: 12-29-06 11:09am
First off- hell to the no!
If you are uncomfertable with something..
And he doesn't respect you enough to
listen to you.. *especially* that- then
cut him loose. It's your body- yours and
not his! That was disrespectful- what he
did. Forcing himself on you?
I would talk to him about this.. If you
truely believe he will listen. If you
think he will respect you enough to. But
please do not be surprised if he does not
listen to you again- it could be worse.
That is an abusive circle I don't want you
or anyone for that matter to be in.
If you need someone to encourage you-
please feel free to pm me.
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