Help Me...14 And Pregnant. Posted: 12-11-06 17:56pm
Well..Im really scared, im 14 and
pregnant.
My boy is 18, and you know I dont really
care about the age part,
i dont want an abortion at all
but thats what hes goin towards.
I couldnt do that
i really couldnt
and I jus dont know what to do I mean im
still a kid
but im going to have one,
i guess that im going to pay for my
mistakes though,
my mom told me if I ever got pregnant
anytime soon i;d have to get an abortion,
but its my choice not hers cuz I sign the
papers,
and you know im most likely going to get
kicked out,
all my close friends said that theyll be
there for me and youknow I could live with
them..
I dont know im just having trouble
help?
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SamanthaM
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Posted: 12-11-06 18:00pm
Well, like you said, no one can make you
have an abortion. There are other options
though. You could always put your child
up for adoption if you think you could do
that. I really don't think that your
close friends' parents would want you
living with them. It's good that your
friends with be there for you though. If
your mom loves you, she will not kick you
out. I'm sure she will freak, but you are
her daughter. You said yourself that you
are just a kid, so if you don't think you
are able to care for a child, you should
really look into adoption. Adoption is a
wonderful thing.
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sandyallen
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Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 12-11-06 18:16pm
Out of curiosity, what about the laws,
isn't he considered an adult and you a
minor, please, don't take me wrong, I do
wish you both the best but what does the
laws say? It does not sound like he will
be there for you.
Anyways, don't depend on your friends
because a lot of them completely disappear
when you can't do the things they do
anymore, and after the novelty of a new
baby wears off. I've had the same 3 best
friends for years and years and at first
they were all excited telling me how they
were going to be aunties and help me and
blah blah and point is their all gone now.
None of them are around anymore, they
got bored (and my baby isn't even here
yet), and these are people i've been so
close with since I was little. Your
friends might think babies are fun but
after a while they will realize going out
and partying is way more exciting. You
should look into adoption, i'm sure your
boyfriend would support the idea since he
wants you to have an abortion anyways.
You could get an open adoption where you
get pictures and letters and a visit once
in a while so you can see how happy and
great her life is. If you decide to keep
the baby your in for a really rough life.
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Bridget
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Posted: 12-11-06 19:05pm
tanyaface
wrote:
haha is your boyfriend
shittles by any
chance?
there tanya, I fixed it for you!
Is that a new pic tanya? You look just
like that girl from joan of arcadia!
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 12-11-06 19:07pm
You think so, .B? I thought she looked a
bit like .Michelle .Williams, from
.Dawson's .Creek.
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sandyallen
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Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 12-11-06 19:15pm
Yes, I like your new avatar, tanyaface,
and you said it well!
Is that a new pic tanya? You look just
like that girl from joan of
arcadia!
haha thanks, I didn't even noticed it got
changed.
No it's pretty old, a little more than a
year. I'm regretting cutting off all my
hair and bleaching it now, I want to look
like I did before. I don't see myself
looking like that joan of arcadia girl,
and I have no idea who .Michelle.Williams
is, but I will google images it right
away.
Does anyone remember that "steal my
sunshine song" by len?
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arcadia
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Posted: 12-11-06 19:49pm
I used to looooove that song!
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chrissy721
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Joined: 21 Jul 2005 Posts: 799 Location: Somewhere out there
Re: Help Me...14 And Pregnant. Posted: 12-12-06 07:26am
babygurl00
wrote:
well..Im really scared, im
14 and pregnant.
My boy is 18, and you know I dont really
care about the age part,
i dont want an abortion at all
but thats what hes goin towards.
I couldnt do that
i really couldnt
and I jus dont know what to do I mean im
still a kid
but im going to have one,
i guess that im going to pay for my
mistakes though,
my mom told me if I ever got pregnant
anytime soon i;d have to get an abortion,
but its my choice not hers cuz I sign the
papers,
and you know im most likely going to get
kicked out,
all my close friends said that theyll be
there for me and youknow I could live with
them..
I dont know im just having trouble
help?
did he want you to tell your parents, or
does he want you to get an abortion
without anyone's knowledge. Sounds like
you aren't worried about the age thing,
but he i.S., because he might get his butt
thrown in prison. In some states, if
your parents don't press charges, the
state will. Don't let him make you do
anything you don't want to do. You will
have to live with it for the rest of your
life, so please tell your parents and go
to the doctor.
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tigresacanela24
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Joined: 11 Nov 2005 Posts: 5261 Location: Treat your children well, eventually they'll choose your nursing home.
Posted: 12-12-06 07:59am
I honestly believe the best thing you can
do is tell your mother. I wouldn't worry
too much about her forcing you to have an
abortion, no one can make you do that.
Your body, your right and that works both
ways. About the baby, no one here can
tell you what choice is going to work best
for you. You need to gather information
on all of your options and then make an
informed decision. There is information
available about all of your choices
through your neighborhood planned
parenthood clinic.
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foxy
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Joined: 29 May 2006 Posts: 487 Location: Nassau, Bahamas
Posted: 12-12-06 08:25am
iheartmybostonterrier
wrote:
tanyaface
wrote:
haha is your boyfriend
shittles by any
chance?
there tanya, I fixed it for you!
Is that a new pic tanya? You look just
like that girl from joan of
arcadia!
yeah...Amber .Tamblin (sp) the
resemblence is striking.
For those who don't know who she is, she
was also in .The .Ring (one of the school
girls in the beginning), .The .Sisterhood
.Of .The .Travelling .Pants (she was the
one with the funny colored hair).....And
she was the first .Emily on .General
.Hospital
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