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aat08

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Too Early Ejaculation Problem! My Gf Might Leave Me Plz Help
Posted: 12-11-06 17:59pm

I have a problem with my sex situations.
My girlfriend always gets pissed because I cannot hold my ejaculation and our sex times never did last more than 5minutes.
I try to take control of my penis and slow things up durign sex but no solution. Another thing I tried is thinking of something completly different from the situation I am in at the moment..Still no result.
Please advise in how to make my ejaculation last much longer
thank you
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The Tao Of Bill

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Re: Too Early Ejaculation Problem! My Gf Might Leave Me Plz
Posted: 12-14-06 14:00pm

aat08 wrote:
i have a problem with my sex situations.
My girlfriend always gets pissed because I cannot hold my ejaculation and our sex times never did last more than 5minutes.

I try to take control of my penis and slow things up durign sex but no solution. Another thing I tried is thinking of something completly different from the situation I am in at the moment..Still no result.

Please advise in how to make my ejaculation last much longer
thank you
I got the same problem...Its pretty tough to live with...Sometimes your condom choice helps though. I've found that if I use condoms advertised as long lasting it adds at least 20 minutes to my performance. Where I might last 5 minutes with a regular condom if im lucky. I've even been known to last less then a minute before. But those long lasting condoms work wonders for me. I lasted longer then my girlfriend using them one time. It made me feel like I was on top of the world and I gained a lot of confidence during sex. So I strongly recomend trying that. I think the brand I use is lifestyles. Could be trojans though. Not sure. Also the funny thing is after you gain confidence with them you just last longer in general. My girlfriend randomly switched the long lasting one with a regular one without me knowing just to see how well i'd do and I did just as well as I did with the long lasting one. So I think a lot of it is in your head. Especially when you are freaked out about losing your girlfriend because you can't last long.

Another thing is some positions make me cum faster then others. Missionary doesn't last long for me. It has something to do with where the pressure is. I last longer either when she is on top of we are side to side.

And if after trying all that you still can't seem to last long then I suggest getting better at other things like oral sex or fingering. That way you can still satisfy her sexually even if you don't last long. There are a lot of websites with good advice on how to get good at those.
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