Joined: 28 Jul 2006 Posts: 249 Location: Port Charlotte, FL USA
I Caught Him And He Lied Posted: 12-13-06 11:04am
Yesterday I log onto my myspace and i've
got a message from my boyfriends ex..
Whom I despise! The message says "hey did
you know jon has another myspace and he
has no pics of you and, says he single
and, added me as a friend?" I read this
and thought whatever she's just trying to
break us up. But I looked at my history
on my computer and yes, he did make a new
profile and yes he did add her as his only
friend. When I asked him about this
yesterday he flipped out got pissed at me
for even suggesting it.. Even though I
showed him that I logged into it with his
e-mail using his password that he uses for
everything. I told him to get his things
that it was over. He left and didn't seem
devestated by it. I lost it and had to
beg him to take me back. At this point I
didn't have the proof. I only had the
myspace account with his password and
a-mail that he claimed wasn't his. So
this morning I went and checked and sure
enough he's talking to her behind me
back.. Saying he's single and lying to me
about it. I'm so hurt right now that i'm
physically sick.. I don't know what's
going to happen when I confront him (he's
at work) I love him and want to be with
him but I can't trust him.. I don't know
what to do =(
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nadia19
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Dec 2006 Posts: 170
Posted: 12-13-06 11:28am
Sigh...Honestly....
He lied right to your face. You don't
deserve that. No one does. What's worse
is that *he* made *you* feel bad about it.
Don't take that from him. I'm sorry but
this might hurt...If he really wants you
back *he's* the one who has to make the
effort and prove to you that you can trust
him..Otherwise don't give in. You're
better than that. He's a liar. I know
it's hard at the beginning, trust me, i've
been through a similar situation, but
you're gonna heal and you're gonna get
better. Just don't give in. You need to
find someone who loves you and would never
lie to you. You need to find someone who,
if he does hurt you, will do everything in
his power to fix things and change, and
try to get you back. That's what you
deserve.
Sweetie, you shouldn't be begging him to
take you back, it should be the other way
around! Don't lower yourself for no man!
Give him his space, and if it's meant to
be, it'll be!
Good luck!
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ricky776
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jan 2007 Posts: 7 Location: uk
Babes Posted: 01-08-07 20:54pm
Hiya hows you
babes what are you thinking get out while
you can
leave him what a d**k dont ever beg some
one who lied babes leave him while you can
coz if you had kids it will be harder
just cut him lose
take care and good luck
rick
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DPantelones
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Joined: 11 Jan 2007 Posts: 141 Location: ,
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Posted: 02-28-07 15:56pm
nadia19
wrote:
Sigh...Honestly....
He lied right to your face. You don't
deserve that. No one does. What's worse
is that *he* made *you* feel bad about it.
Don't take that from him. I'm sorry but
this might hurt...If he really wants you
back *he's* the one who has to make the
effort and prove to you that you can trust
him..Otherwise don't give in. You're
better than that. He's a liar. I know
it's hard at the beginning, trust me, i've
been through a similar situation, but
you're gonna heal and you're gonna get
better. Just don't give in. You need to
find someone who loves you and would never
lie to you. You need to find someone who,
if he does hurt you, will do everything in
his power to fix things and change, and
try to get you back. That's what you
deserve.
Good luck
you're gonna be
okay
I love this advice, it's not her fault,
it's HIS! She should be the cool one, not
getting excited and let that creep come
begging. Come on honey, be strong, don't
be a doormat.
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babybowser
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Feb 2007 Posts: 7 Location: san jose
Posted: 03-01-07 04:01am
i know this may be incredibly difficult,
but you should try to act like you dont
care. the more you beg the more you tell
him you want him back he'll start seeing
that he has control of the relationship
and will start to think that he can do
whatever he wants. this myspace thing
could just be a small thing compared to
what he could really do. you say you love
him, but he sounds like a complete jerk
for not even caring that he was wrong and
that you want to break up with him. i say
you should keep with the break up and wait
for him to come crawling back to you. if
he doesnt, it shows how much he cared, and
you dont need him. be strong. the hurt
will eventually go away, but the first few
days are the hardest.
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cinderellaaa
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Feb 2007 Posts: 40 Location: LA
Posted: 04-24-07 00:49am
My dear, dont u ever beg him 2 come back,
he,s n,t worthy, he hurts u and now he
should pay 4 that.. think about ur dignity
..
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DPantelones
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Joined: 11 Jan 2007 Posts: 141 Location: ,
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Posted: 04-24-07 10:05am
cinderellaaa
wrote:
My dear, dont u ever beg him
2 come back, he,s n,t worthy, he hurts u
and now he should pay 4 that.. think about
ur dignity ..
Amen Cinderellaaa! Never beg, esp to a
CHEATER! That's as low as you can go
right there and they will NEVER respect
you! Move on....
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Hart74
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Joined: 06 Apr 2007 Posts: 521 Location: Woodlands (not like there are woods anywhere near) Garden City ,
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to the Original Poster Posted: 04-24-07 20:36pm
DON'T EVER BEG TO A LIAR/CHEATER! That
will only increase is ego! Be strong and
confident, you'll get better guys than
him.
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pumpkine0011
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Dec 2006 Posts: 135 Location: CO
Hey Posted: 04-24-07 20:58pm
Dont forgive, it will just make it alot
wosre. And dont take him back. Just find
someone else.
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what is love
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Apr 2007 Posts: 4 Location: Michigan
Posted: 04-24-07 23:07pm
In my experience with my ex girl friends
that did lie to me in a similar situations
you can never fully regain the trust back.
Once it is gone it’s gone.
Honestly can anyone love someone that is
like that creep. That is not love girl!
Of course it hurts but do your self a
favor and move on and don’t waste your
time and health on someone that is not
worthy of your love and commitment you
have for a special someone. He doesn’t
deserve it and he needs to grow up.
Unfortunately some never do and never
learn how to be in love with a person and
what that means.
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