Was reading a profile on a very nice young
lady tonight... It was nicely written,
and described her quite well. And the
more I read, the more I became
intrigued... Point after point after
point, she was hitting on all my
interests! Just amazing... As good a
match as i've found. So I tried to send
her an email... And was blocked. She's
48, i'm 51... But she had her age filter
set to 49, and the system punted me right
out of the playing field.
Any legal way around this?
I suppose I could create a fake user from
another ip address and ask her to check
out my profile... But that seems so
cheesy. Probably a violation of the user
agreements as well, although I haven't
checked. Anyway, I choose not to go down
that road.
Is there a solution, or should I just suck
it up and soldier on?
Thanks
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hannah4
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Dec 2006 Posts: 5
Is This Fixable? Posted: 12-14-06 12:46pm
As redneckhippy said - no "legal" way
around it. You can go temporarily edit
your profile and change your age down two
years. I'm not sure i'd do that myself -
if this woman is 48 and has set her upper
limit at 49, sounds to me like she's
looking for a younger man. But your
decision - temporarily changing your
birthdates on your profile would allow you
to send her an email. The more I think
about it, the more I think I wouldn't -
but if I did, i'd explain in the note to
her what you did and why, and instantly
after I sent the email i'd go change the
profile back to the real birthdates, so
when she reads your profile it has your
correct age and doesn't appear you're
trying to lie about your age - as some
obviously do here.
Edit
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cayden
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Dec 2006 Posts: 9
Is This Fixable? Posted: 12-14-06 12:48pm
As redneckhippy said - no "legal" way
around it. You can go temporarily edit
your profile and change your age down two
years. I'm not sure i'd do that myself -
if this woman is 48 and has set her upper
limit at 49, sounds to me like she's
looking for a younger man. But your
decision - temporarily changing your
birthdates on your profile would allow you
to send her an email. The more I think
about it, the more I think I wouldn't -
but if I did, i'd explain in the note to
her what you did and why, and instantly
after I sent the email i'd go change the
profile back to the real birthdates, so
when she reads your profile it has your
correct age and doesn't appear you're
trying to lie about your age - as some
obviously do here.
Edit
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cayden
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Dec 2006 Posts: 9
Is This Fixable? Posted: 12-14-06 12:49pm
What a terrible dilemma. Personally, I
wouldn't try to get around it. She must
have some reason for it. What was the
lower limit, 18? The age range should
lend a clue to her wants. And if you do
work around it to email her, she might get
all angry and turn you in for stalking or
something. Maybe you could get a friend
to email her, but then she'd probably end
up dating him. Scratch that.
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ricky776
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jan 2007 Posts: 7 Location: uk
Hi Posted: 01-08-07 20:32pm
Hiya
just an idea maybe you should make a new
user and get talking to her but once you
get talking ask her how do you change your
name on here coz your older I understande
its cheesy but worth it
if your ment to be its worth doing a
little work maybe it was a test to see if
you would get of your backside
any ways all the best and good look
let me know how you get on if you fail
move on to the next lol I wish it was that
easy lol
