I am a 25 year old female and my
girlfriend that is 22 broke up with me 3
1/2 months ago after 6 years.The last year
and 1/2 have been rocky.We both have
issues.One day back in september a guy
from her work called her and we got in a
big fight over it , she told me he was
just a friend but I told her to pack her
stuff and go to her moms so she did.This
wasent the first time he called her and
come to find out he really liked her
alot.So she stayed with her mom for about
a week and she has been living with
him.This guy is such a loser and seems
like he is going no where in life.He works
at a pizza shop , has no car, smokes pot
all day , lives in a hotel room and has
drug charges against him.I have owned my
own business for 4 years now I bought my
house when I was 21 and I am financially
stable. I got my caca straight.Everytime
I try to call her he answers the phone and
will not let me talk to her.So I called
her at work about 2 weeks ago and she told
me that she still loves me and missed me
and thinks about me constantly .She also
told me she does not want me to stop
calling her.Since we broke up I have been
seeing a coucler weekly.I have really
worked on alot of my issues and changed
alot .I really love this woman and dont
know what to doi feel like I shouldnt give
up on us and our love.I know she loves me
its like she is just blocking me out.I
know it has nothing to do with being gay
or not becuase she told me.We were
engagged and we even had our childrens
names picked out.She just keeps telling me
it will never work out between us.I dont
know how to make her see that things would
be differant.
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Posted: 12-14-06 14:19pm
Save yourself any more pain and cut all
contact with her.I know thats not what you
want but its the oly way you will heal
from it,trust me,i've been there.When my
ex and I brokw up we continued to talk
every once in a while but in all reality
it just mae the wound deeper.Trust me,if
she really wanted to be with you she
wouldn't be with that loser.
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littlesqueaks
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 May 2006 Posts: 296 Location: Caldwell, Idaho
Posted: 12-30-06 00:46am
I really don't undertand how she can say
she misses you, loves you and does not
want to stop talking to you but yet turns
around and says it is not going to work
out between you two. Has she explained
why it would not work out for you two?
Your post is a few weeks old but if your
still wanting advice or to talk ,reply if
you want to
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