4 Month Old And Pregnant Again????!?!?!?? Posted: 12-17-06 01:27am
Help my son is only 4 months old and I
recently found out that I am pregnant
again his father and I are married but I
am only 18 and trying to graduate no money
for abortion and we dont have any family
with the money I had a c section will this
pregnancy mess my body up please any
advice welcome!!!!
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Jules
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Posted: 12-17-06 01:41am
I didn't have a c-section personally so
i'm not able to help a huge amount on that
topic. However, I do know that there are
a couple of ladies here who got pregnant
soon after having a c-section and they
were monitored more closely in the second
pregnancy because of the risk of (i think)
uterine rupture. While it's not
generally advised for a woman to get
pregnant so soon after a c-section (or a
vaginal birth for that matter), plenty of
women find themselves in your situation
and i'm sure that as long as you ensure
you are receiving proper medical care then
you can have a safe pregnancy.
You really need to go and speak to your
doctor so he/she can run through the risks
with you. Try not to panic - you can do
this if you want to!
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Sail Away
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Joined: 16 Oct 2006 Posts: 1170 Location: Missouri
Posted: 12-17-06 01:45am
Maybe you should of been more careful, and
you wouldnt have this problem right now.
Anyone who has an abortion because of
their own faults should be punished,
painfully...
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ANGELOS MAMA
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Joined: 26 Jul 2006 Posts: 1128 Location: , San Diego,California
Posted: 12-17-06 03:41am
dalicialovesyou
wrote:
maybe you should of been
more careful, and you wouldnt have this
problem right now.
Anyone who has an abortion because of
their own faults should be punished,
painfully...
i agree with dalicia.Well,all you can do
is accept it.I have a 7 month old baby
boy,and I thought I was in that same
situation months ago.Thankfully it wasn't
true.Its really hard raising at child at
this age.And im on 16.Are you on birth
control or anything?
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El
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Joined: 31 Mar 2005 Posts: 476 Location: Melbourne, Australia
Posted: 12-27-06 23:37pm
In terms of your body, I can't imagine it
being a huge danger to you- you'll have to
check with your doctor of course, but i'm
thinking probably the worst thing that
would happen would be they'd want you to
go c-section again.
There's alot to be said for having kids
close together.
Keep in mind, if you are just finding out
you are pregnant now, it'll be the best
part of a year before you actually have
two children.
Sure, it'll be hard, but one's hard
anyway!
The second child is not as expensive as
the first either, because you already have
most of the stuff you'll need- the big
things at least.
Besides, the'll both be in school in about
5 years time. Think about that- you'll be
free to work more hours or do more study
then, instead of having one in school, and
still needing to arrange care, or be home
for another little one.
Plus- unless of course you have more-
you'll be finished with "baby stuff"
(nappies, feeds, night wakings, toilet
training) in probably 4 years, instead of
having it all done with one, and going
"back there" for another.
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Kia
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Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 12-28-06 07:12am
I looked for this post to make sure it was
locked, but couldn't find it last night.
Anyways, i'm not explaining it all
again.
But yeah, locked for the 3rd time.
