Sex hurts like hell and so does fingering
also incapable of
even inserting a tampon. I have a new
partner now and last night I bled during
sex
Spent the entire night trying to convince
him I was't a virgin to start with. Its
so embarassing and putting me off sex, I
don't know what to do
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Kgirl16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Nov 2005 Posts: 133 Location: Canada
Posted: 01-01-07 21:23pm
Same thing happened to me but you have to
tell us first if it ever hurt until now?
Also does it hurt internally or outside
and around the area?
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Sereena
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jan 2006 Posts: 30
Posted: 01-09-07 23:40pm
Sex often hurts for me, even fingering
when I haven't had stimulation for a
while, so you may just need to keep trying
and see if that loosens it up. But the
fact that you can't insert a tampon is
concerning. Like kgirl said- has it
always been this way or do you think you
have a medical problem? The problem could
be in your head... Being stressed out or
tense causes the muscles in your vagina to
tighten. If you don't think this is the
problem, it could be a condition where
your muscles can't loosen up enough.
Either way you should get checked out by a
gyno to make sure nothing is physically
wrong with you.