Wife Just Decided to Divorce And Take the Baby With Her Posted: 12-30-06 23:09pm
Wife just decided to divorce and take the
baby with her back to our home country.
Lately our marriage has gone some rough
times. My wife believes that my parents
caused this. The truth is that my
parents are thousand miles away. She
comes from a well off family and I come
from a very low middle class family. Our
marriage was never blessed by my in laws.
My wife is an md back in our country of
origin. However due to personal issues,
she never passed the license exam in the
us. As for me, I worked hard and studied
hard and made it as a popular and somehow
successful professional. Now she feels
like I basically has never been good
enough for her. We decided to have a
child one year ago, actually thinking it
would help our relationship (what a
selfish move).
Few days ago she was mad because I was
sending a modest gift to my parents
(around $300). Note that we both make
good money. We exchange insults and as
usual in our relationship, I gave in. Yet
she is filing a divorce and is taking my
child with her.
Guess, I can't do much about it because
she told me if I didn't let her, she would
hurt me or my parents. No details on this
because I know she can do this and she has
the means to do this.
I really love this woman but I love my 6
mths old more. There is not much I can
do except cry and beg her to stay.
Any advice, I am very desperate, I can't
really think properly.....
Thank you.
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littlesqueaks
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 May 2006 Posts: 296 Location: Caldwell, Idaho
Posted: 12-30-06 23:20pm
It sounds as if she has her mind set on
the divorce and has threats against you if
you don't let her go through wiht it. The
only problem is you are the father of the
child and you do have the right to see
your child and make choices in the custody
of the child. I understand that your love
is strong for your estranged wife but
sometimes things don't work out and from
just the little bit that you wrote I don't
think she had intentions of trying to make
things work and found a quick out. You do
have the right to put up a good fight also
if she is going to make it difficult for
you to see your child and you should look
quickly into what your rights are. I am
sorry for your heartbreak and I hope that
things will go well for you.
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nelda
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Oct 2005 Posts: 33 Location: canada
Posted: 01-06-07 00:00am
Aren't there laws that would stop her from
leaving the country with your child?I know
of a couple who lived in the states and
the wife wanted to leave and bring her
child back to canada with her but she
wasn't aloud to because the child had been
born in america and she couldn't take the
child out of the country without the
father's agreement. Maybe you should look
into this.
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Spirit
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2006 Posts: 387 Location: Canada
Posted: 01-08-07 09:17am
There are somethings worth risking your
life
for.................................And
your own flesh and blood is at the top of
the list
