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lacoste2
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Symptoms of Miscarriage?? Please Help Me
Posted: 01-01-07 19:35pm
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Today is monday 1/1/07. On saturday I had
sex, unprotected, and I am now on my 17th
day after my last period. He came inside
of me. Later that night I had gotten
drunk really bad to the point where I
passed out. I woke up on sunday afternoon
with a horrible abdominal pain. It still
hurts today monday afternoon, and even on
my lower back. I read on the internet
that you get abdominal pain and lower back
pain if you had a miscarriage. It really
hurts, and im thinking that if I dont stop
hurting and start bleeding im going to go
to the doctor. Im scared because I
already have enough problems with my
parents for the drunk day. Please someone
help me as soon as posible, and tell me
some information about miscarriages. I
will appreciate it a lot. Thanks 
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Bridget
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Posted: 01-01-07 19:40pm
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If you had sex on saturday you wouldn't be
pregnant yet. You're not miscarrying.
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 01-01-07 19:41pm
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Ditto.
I'm also moving this to the miscarriage
forum.
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lacoste2
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Posted: 01-01-07 19:42pm
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Would that mean that the alcohol didnt
affect me at all?
I really cant stand the pain..
When would I know?
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lacoste2
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Posted: 01-01-07 19:44pm
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| lil_blaze2004
wrote: | ditto.
I'm also moving this to the miscarriage
forum. |
thank you... I really had no idea about
this part.. I was looking for it.. Since
I just saw "pregnancy" I just posted it.
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Kia
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Posted: 01-01-07 19:47pm
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You need to be pregnant to have a
misacrriage.
If you had sex on saturday and were
ovulating then it is possible that the egg
has been fertilised but you can not yet
have implanted - that takes around 10 days
after fertilistation to happen.
Until the fertilised egg has implanted you
are not yet pregnant.
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lacoste2
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Posted: 01-01-07 19:51pm
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Ohh 4 suuree.. U guys are makin me feel
so much better ,, =)
i really dont know anything about
pregnancy. Im only 17, and I dont wanna
be pregnant at this time of my life. I
just got scared since everything happened
so quick.. And im still in pain. S0 in
other words, no matter what, theres no
possible way that im pregnant and that I
cant get pregnant either after having that
drunk night?????? ** hoping to hear the
no's**
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nadia19
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Posted: 01-01-07 20:10pm
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If you're so scared to be pregnant, use
some kinda birth control. Then you won't
have to worry as much.
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lacoste2
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Posted: 01-01-07 21:19pm
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Can I get birth control pills without my
mom knowing????
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nadia19
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Posted: 01-01-07 23:09pm
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Yes you can. I'm not sure where you live,
but I live in canada and we have plenty of
sexual health centres that give you birth
control pills (at a failry low price)
following a consultation. I believe it's
called planned parenthood or something..In
the states.
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Bridget
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Posted: 01-02-07 09:42am
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| lacoste2
wrote: | | s0 in other words, no
matter what, theres no possible way that
im pregnant and that I cant get pregnant
either after having that drunk night??????
** hoping to hear the
no's** |
i don't think you understand what we've
told you. Yes, you could still be
pregnant. You had unprotected sex during
your fertile time. We were saying that if
you are pregnant, the fertilized egg would
not have implanted yet so you wouldn't be
feeling the effects of a miscarriage or
any other pregnancy symptoms. You'll have
to wait until your period is due to see if
you're pregnant. If you miss your period
take a test first thing in the morning.
If it's negative get on birth control and
use condoms. If it's positive... Well,
let's just hope it's not and that you've
learned from your mistake.
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lacoste2
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Posted: 01-02-07 11:54am
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Okk so I have a little update on things..
Yes I do get it now. Yesterday was a
horrible day.. I was still feeling sick
for all the alcohol poinson I had and
wasnt really understanding things. First
thing in the morning I did today was take
a pregnancy test, which came out negative.
I did that today, because my mom is
taking me to the doctor today for a blood
test on everything. Im really scared..
My horrible cramps did not go away
completely, I still have them a little.**
I just remembered that a week ago from
yesterday, I did have sex unprotected. He
didnt come inside of me, and yes I do know
about the precum**(would this affect me?
Its been a week.. =/ ). I live in
miami, and its deffenately not like
canada. I wish it was. I deff learned my
lesson, and yes thank you all for your
comments.. It did help me understand a
lot more about this subject.. That truly
I didnt want to know for another couple of
years.. But I know.. Mistakes happen to
everybody when you least expect them.
Ahhhh ... =/ believe me.. Im never
getting into this whole sex thing again..
=( im a lesbian anyways.. But the guy
thing was a huge mistake, thats why ive
been so desperate. =(
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Bridget
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Posted: 01-02-07 15:43pm
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A test won't be accurate until at least 2
weeks after unprotected sex.
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lacoste2
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Posted: 01-04-07 17:51pm
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Ok.. This has nothing to do with
pregnancy.. I just need some feed back
with this:
-remember I talked about my lower
abdominal pain?? Well.. Today is
thursday and it still doesnt go away.. =(
its really bad.. I can take the pain even
though it really hurts, but at night is
the worst part. I cant go in any
position, and its really hard to fall
asleep. Now the pain [today] it went to
the left side.. Its really low where it
hurts, and it also hurts in my lower back.
Its just scaring me .. I know.. I
know.. It has nothing to do with
pregnancy, but I thought you could help me
on what could it be.. ??
Thanks..
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Kia
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Posted: 01-04-07 17:57pm
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You're missing the point.
You could be in the process of becoming
pregnant.
You wouldn't be pregnant the very next day
- it takes 7-10 days for the fertilised
egg to implant.
A pregnancy test is not accurate until the
day your period is due.
Yes you can get birth control without your
mom knowing in most cases.
If you don't want her to know are you
really ready to be fooling around with
sex?
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lacoste2
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Posted: 01-04-07 18:19pm
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| kia_breizzze
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you could be in the process of becoming
pregnant.
You wouldn't be pregnant the very next day
- it takes 7-10 days for the fertilised
egg to implant.
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but when the egg fertilizes you get these
pains??????????
I just want to know something about the
pain..
Unless it really has to do with
pregnancy.. Which I doubt..
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Posted: 01-04-07 18:47pm
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| lacoste2
wrote: | | kia_breizzze
wrote: |
you could be in the process of becoming
pregnant.
You wouldn't be pregnant the very next day
- it takes 7-10 days for the fertilised
egg to implant.
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but when the egg fertilizes you get these
pains??????????
I just want to know something about the
pain..
Unless it really has to do with
pregnancy.. Which I
doubt.. |
go to the doctor. No one can diagnose you
on the internet.
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lacoste2
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Posted: 01-13-07 09:45am
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Hi everybody.. So I want to give you some
updates. Today is saturday..Exactly 2
weeks since I had sex for the last time.
And 3 weeks from before the last time. I
had talked about the really bad pains..
Well its gone. It doesnt hurt anymore
like that. The problem is that ive missed
2 days of my period. Im still waiting for
it anxiously.. Ive even dreamed about
it.. Lol. I keep checking myself, and
nothing. I dont have anymore abdominal
pain, except for some little ones that I
get rearly sometimes. Yesterday I thought
I was going to have, because thurs night,
I checked myself, and I had some pinkish
light brown stains.. And it did smell
like blood. I was really convinced I was
gonna get it during the night. I didnt.
Ive been having really weird cravings..
And a lot of more things.. I just wanted
to know if this has ever happened to any
of you, right before you got your period..
If I dont get it, ofcourse im going to
take the pregnancy test.. I just hope I
wont have to at all.. Can you share some
experiences with me?? Thankz!
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