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SweetCheeks
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Mixed Emotions!!
Posted: 08-24-03 21:11pm
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Today I had a lot of emotions runnin
through me..Im takin a test tomorrow or
tuesday to see if im pregnant or not and
its been on my mind a lot and today I went
out with my boyfriend and his baby
brother..And im glad we did cuz I kinda
got a feel for takin care of a kid just
incase and I also got to see how good my
boyfriend is with the baby..It made me
really happy to see how much he lets
himself go when hes around him..Hes really
good with kids and I know that if we have
one of our own that he will make a
wonderful dad..I think that gives me more
comfort than anything. Im still scared
out of my mind though...Wish me luck!
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broadcastedlife
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Location: babenhausen, Germany
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Sweetcheeks
Posted: 08-25-03 01:45am
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Emotions are one of the biggest factors in
being pregnant. I am 14 and pregnant
and its horrifying how often they
change. One mintue I want the baby
more than anything.. The next I wish I
wasnt pregnant. He seems like a realy
wonderful guy. I hope you contine to
post .
I hope your test turns out the way you
want it to.
Amanduh .X
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 08-25-03 16:08pm
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Just be financially ready. Yes being
around your guy and kids is a plus but
whos going to pay for the 30 diapers a
week your baby will be using? Please take
care of yourself if you are pregnant. If
not, please please use protection or birth
control. You should be more happy if it
was your husband that is great with kids.
Not just a boyfriend. I wish you both
luck.
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broadcastedlife
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Location: babenhausen, Germany
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Posted: 08-25-03 17:18pm
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Its funny you say that . He makes
about $800 a week. I am not trying
to be health forum towards you or
anything.. Please dont take offense.
He is very responsible. We are
getting married lol. So he will be
my husband. I don't think im
pregnant. But sometimes it would be
good to be... But thanks for all
your advice.
Have a wonderful day <33
amanduh . X =d
Last edited by broadcastedlife on 08-25-03 17:24pm; edited 1 time in total
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broadcastedlife
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Posted: 08-25-03 17:23pm
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Ooh jeez im sorry.... I didnt relize I
was in this forum.... She wasnt talking
to me lol.
Amanduh .X
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SweetCheeks
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Positive
Posted: 08-25-03 18:27pm
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I took 2 prenancy tests and they both came
out to be positive...I dont really know
what to think right now...I dont really
even want to believe that its true..I
didnt think it would be possible and now
im really scared..
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broadcastedlife
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Posted: 08-25-03 18:30pm
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Don't be. I know its not easy. I took
one today and it said I wasn't. I
don't believe it. I want to take
another. Be stong and keep us posted.
If anything the baby will help you
threw all the hard stuff. Just think how
beautiful the baby will be, it will be
just like her mother. =d ..
Be stonrg and I always hope for the best
<33
we are here for you.
Amanduh .X
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SweetCheeks
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Amanduh
Posted: 08-25-03 18:32pm
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So u dont know if u are pregnant or not?
I thought u were? Were ur first tests
positive and now they arent??
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broadcastedlife
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Posted: 08-25-03 19:28pm
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Itsconfusing. No my first one wasnt.
But when you dont get your period and you
get alot of the pymtims and everything
is so positive.. It just works out that
way I guess. I don't think t he test is
right , but I dont know what to say...
Would you like to talk on aim?
Amanduh .X
i am think might be able to gvie a
bit of help
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SweetCheeks
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Amanduh
Posted: 08-25-03 20:16pm
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Sure if u think u can help??
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broadcastedlife
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tammyseyler
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Sweetcheeks
Posted: 08-25-03 23:19pm
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I'm sure you are going through a range of
emotions,i went through this with my
neice(also my best friend)it was hard at
first but what came of it was whole new
life.She was afraid and had considered
abortion,but changed her mind and i'm glad
she did.This one gal,broadcastedlife seems
to me like some who either wants to be
pregnant or just likes to lie alot,either
way....There are lots of people who have
useful information and would love to hear
the updates on how things are going with
you.For right now,main thing is healthy
pregnancy,but i'm sure you already knew
that.By the way,how old are you..Just
wondering.Good luck!!!!!
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HongKongChick
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Location: Oklahoma
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Posted: 08-25-03 23:22pm
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Sweetcheeks: now that ur preg tests came
out positive, it's time to sit down and
think about ur future.
It's not gonna be easy, but it's not all
that hard! Alot of us here have been thru
it, and we are a helping network for
you!
Just think about what you want to do.
Are you keeping it? Is the daddy gonna
help? What does he think about it? What
about finance?
These are only a few questions u might
wanna ask urself or discuss with family
and friends. But dont worry, I will try
to help u any way I can.
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SweetCheeks
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Thanks
Posted: 08-26-03 18:02pm
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Thanks everybody for the advice..It really
helps a lot, although I have not decided
what I am going to do yet. Someone asked
how old am i? Im 17..And me being so
young is playing a big factor in whether
to have this baby or not..So I do have
many questions on abortion and stuff, just
incase I decide not to keep it. So if
anyone can give me any info on it i'd
appreciate it. Thanks!
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 08-26-03 18:12pm
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You can think about how beautiful the baby
will be, and you might have money, but
that wont take care of all the crying you
will have to put up with, all the spitting
up, all the sicknesses and teething and
all the sleep you will lose. Then you
have to change the diapers at least 6
times a day, the clothes two times, the
bibs a million times! I should know, I
helped my 17 year old sister with her
baby. She had me, my mom, and herself and
it was still hard. You need to take a
test one to two weeks after you were due
for your period. Having a baby isnt easy
at all. Good luck to you both.
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HongKongChick
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Posted: 08-27-03 00:36am
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I am 100 behind nikki on this. Though
it's not easy to want or to have an
abortion, u might face lots of judgements
(we all should know?!  ) but if u are 100%
sure that u can put up with the feelings
after the abortion or the blame or the
shame u might get from others, and if u
are 100% sure that u cannot raise the
child even with help form the daddy, or ur
parents or ur friends, and after thinking
about it a whole lot, and still decide to,
then I think then u should have no regrets
once u've done it.
Be strong, talk to the daddy and ur family
and friends, to seek other opinions...Till
u find one that u find most comfortable
good luck
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