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prelude

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Just Needed to Tell Someone.. . .
Posted: 01-05-07 08:48am

I really dont know how to start as I cant tell anyone in real life. . . But here goes. .

So my fiance is 10 weeks pregnant now and we are both extremly happy.

The only problem is I have ed(erectile dysfunction) to quite an extent, thats why I orginally posted on this forum and have had it since I was around 19 yrs old. Yes I know its rare but it does happen. Im now 29, fiance 30. My ed seemingly getting worse gradually yr by yr.

Since finding out she was pregnant ive had no choice but to tell her my issues. So your wondering how ive been getting "it" up well, viagra of course. . . So if you can put it in anyway, this is a viagra baby Shocked

we"ve been together only 8 months but everything is going well.
She says I can satisfy her in other ways apart from genital penetration if I really cant get it up and hard enough for sex, but if that were the case id feel sorry for her that the fact the majority of her life shed have to be satisfied in other ways.
At the moment sex is still achievable. But what worries me is the future.

I really dont think I can get past my mid to late 30s being able to achieve sex. Id hate to imagine that she would ever cheat on me, but I really coudnt blame her. How can a lady in their 30"s live the rest of their lives without sex.

Anyway, thats my story. .


See you. Thanks for reading
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lil_blaze2004

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Posted: 01-05-07 08:51am

Ummmm ok. Hi. Are you worried this child may not be yours or soemthing. Sorry but i'm not too sure why you posted this here. Confused
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Bridget

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Posted: 01-05-07 08:52am

Ok... So why don't you just keep using the viagra?
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Becky

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Posted: 01-05-07 08:53am

I'm sorry to hear about that. A relative of mine is 45 and suffers frm the same problem but it is more his worry than his wifes. You can make up for it by lots of foreplay and oral. How about using a dildo/vibrator on her whilst stimulating her with your hands/tongue?

If she loves you it won't matter about the penetrative sex part. There are lots of other ways to satisfy eachother

good luck and congratulations on the pregnancy
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Melissa_20

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Posted: 01-05-07 08:58am

Congrats on the pregnancy! This is a pregnancy forum and this really sounds more of a male problem to me with the .E.D and all so you might want to try the sexual health men.I'm sure she'll love you no matter and having .E.D is no reason to cheat!
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Magical Logic

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Posted: 01-05-07 15:03pm

You could get that sugery where after u squeeze one of your ball sacks and your dick gets hard
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Emma2

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Posted: 01-05-07 15:13pm

I read somehwre that a great deal of men with ed have mental issues. I am not saying youre a menatl case all im saying is you might wanna consider therapy and consult a specialist .
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Kia

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Posted: 01-05-07 15:15pm

chase4 wrote:
u squeeze one of your ball sacks


ok i've been with a few guys and never seen one with ball sacks - only ever in the singular - sack Shocked
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Emma2

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Posted: 01-05-07 15:17pm

kia_breizzze wrote:
chase4 wrote:
u squeeze one of your ball sacks


ok i've been with a few guys and never seen one with ball sacks - only ever in the singular - sack Shocked


lol multiple sacks!! Now thats a real man!
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Magical Logic

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Posted: 01-05-07 15:19pm

Ok I meant sqeeze his scrotum
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Kia

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Posted: 01-05-07 15:19pm

Although millipedes (or is it centipedes?) do have two penises!
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Posted: 01-05-07 15:20pm

kia_breizzze wrote:
although millipedes (or is it centipedes?) do have two penises!


so do sharks!!!
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Sunflower_pie81

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Posted: 01-05-07 15:25pm

Lol I thought the same thing lol@ ball sacks......I think she ment one of your nuts......But I dunno.....

Congrats on your pregnancy....But if you can acheave an errection then would you really be too into satisfying your wife/gf? Would you really be in the frisky mood knowing that you can't get it up? That is what would worry me. If you could satisfy me without it then fine....But I see sex as something that tells me that you love me and want to be with me and satisfying me in anyway would tell me the same thing. I guess I wouldnt' cheat as long as you showec me that you love me and want to satisfy me. But I am a very sexual person....Maybe she isn't?!
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Melissa_20

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Posted: 01-05-07 15:26pm

Eeeeeeewwwww my gawd! I was watching friend 2 last night (against my will of course) and they brought out a horse in heat and omfg he had the biggest dlck i've ever seen! Shocked he mounted the ladt horse and instead of his penis going in her it went in a tube and of course the hourse ejaculated in it and I don't even wanna tell you what they did with it. . . Confused
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Posted: 01-05-07 15:27pm

melissa_20 wrote:
and I don't even wanna tell you what they did with it. . . Confused


but you will...Go on! Smile
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Sunflower_pie81

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Posted: 01-05-07 15:27pm

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Melissa_20

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Posted: 01-05-07 15:28pm

They. . . .Ack. . . .they drank it!
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Sunflower_pie81

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Posted: 01-05-07 15:30pm

I figured as much.......Lol yuck
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Melissa_20

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Posted: 01-05-07 15:31pm

One of them ate poop for $200
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Posted: 01-05-07 15:32pm

melissa_20 wrote:
one of them ate poop for $200

they dont call them jacka$$es for no reason !!!
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