Help! I’m Completely In Love And Very Depressed Posted: 01-06-07 01:54am
Hi, i’m 23, I had a boring life, then
all of a sudden this girl asks me out,
things happen we go out another 2 times
and I fall completely in love, everything
in her is perfect.
We haven't gone out since (1 month) at
first I thought she hadn't the same
interest, but as I got to know here it
looks like she is a very busy person,
cause she shows concern for me.
We are friends now, I told her I like her
and she told me she likes me too but as
she just broke a very long relationship
isn't ready to have a boyfriend, plus she
says she can't promise anything but that I
have a chance.
In school she is always surrounded by
friends and she is like always into
something, it's impossible to get her
alone.
I initially thought she didn't care for me
anymore, but she calls me and we speak on
the phone sometimes 3 times a week, so I
guess she likes me.
The thing is, it looks like it's going to
be some time till she want to be with
someone, in the meantime I ask her out as
a friend but she is always busy, im
confused, I know she likes me but doesn't
show the same interest, i’ve asked her
if ill ever kiss her again and she says
probably yes.
I can't stand it, I think of her all day,
i’d like to at least be her friend, but
I don't know, the pain in my heart becomes
unbearable at times, I wish it would just
end, last time I was like this it lasted
like 2 years, I don’t want 2 years of
living hell, help please!!
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cayden
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Dec 2006 Posts: 9
Re:help! I’m Completely In Love And Very Depressed Posted: 01-06-07 04:44am
I had the same problem before. I liked a
guy but I was much undecided also cusp he
was very different from me. He was like
u I think...Calm, obedient. And suddenly
he didn't ask me if he can kiss me. He
just did it, and he didn't ask me if we
can go out...He just came and pick me up.
And it worked cuz I fall crazy in love 4
him. Maybe u should try be more self
confident and risk it more...What you've
got to loose? Maybe u will win in
fact...Her heart.
Edit
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RedDelight
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Oct 2006 Posts: 131 Location: I'm a Yettie!
Re:help! I’m Completely In Love And Very Depressed Posted: 01-18-07 15:02pm
[i agree with ^^^]
it's nice that she is upfront with you-
and tells it how it is. Although, taking
a chance, to show her how much fun she'll
have and how great of a person you are-
might just reel her in without knowing
it.
I know- most women love spontaneous
things- ideas. I do! It's fun- puts
sparks in the air! I agree- i'd try it.
See how she reacts. If it's a smile-
then great- if she doesn't look too
happy..Then don't waste your time! You
are young- and trust me- there are alot
more single people out there than you
realize.
Good luck and have fun!
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babydance143
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2007 Posts: 24
Posted: 02-05-07 19:42pm
Hello sorry that you are experiencing
this,
one thing with woman, when we have been
hurt before, we need time to heal our
wounds, and its hard to fully let someone
in all the way, afraid that someone wil
hurt again! And if you havent been
through it before than you wont
understand! Its a wonderful thing that
she is upfront with you, and told you what
she was about.! I would suggest, just
giving it time, and move slow. You never
know she may be falling in love with you,
and just needs some time, to make sure
this is real! Dont give up I would say,
because trust me its hard to get back up
once someone have hurt you before, be
patient with her, if you reallly like her,
all good things take time right?? You
will be fine! Good luck, keep us posted
on the outcome, and dont be so fast to
just give up.
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critical
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 10 Apr 2007 Posts: 26
Posted: 05-21-07 07:56am
what are you doing in school with your 23
years.
there is also another post of you claiming
that you are 25 year old educated man?!?!
Maybe you should write in mental health
forums and ask for help over there. But in
second thought I think that you're just
some 12-13 year old bored kid.
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Makoto
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jul 2006 Posts: 263 Location: Japan
Posted: 05-21-07 08:14am
Yeah, if you do check all 7 of this guys
posts there are some inconsistencies.
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