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MiracleIn2004
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004
Posts: 203
Location: Louisiana
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Question About Stupid Boyfriend
Posted: 02-04-04 17:25pm
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I just wanted some advice. Me and my
boyfriend have been together for a while
but lately its been so different. He
lives with his mom and 2 sisters..Well
sunday night we were on the phone and his
doorbell rang at like 11:00 and he said he
would call me back and never did.  . Then
monday night he didnt't call me at all!
Yesterday, I went to his job which also
happens to be the same place I worked,
well when he saw me he was acting like
nothing was wrong, and then when I left he
called me and told me he loved me. Then
today we were on the pnone and his
doorbell rang again and he said he would
call me back....Never called back yet.
That was like 3 hrs ago. I called him to
tell him something and he said he was
talking to his people he was gonna call me
back..Still no word from him. Does that
sound like he is cheating on me or what?
It's like he doesn't have time for me
anymore. I'm pregnant!!! I need
attention! Lol. Anyway does that sound
like he is cheating?
Whitney
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krista57
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2003
Posts: 190
Location: ga
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Hi!
Posted: 02-04-04 17:32pm
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I wouldnt jump to any conclusions just
yet. One night go to his house and tell
him you are not leavin till you get some
answer and that you need answers b/c this
is stressing you out and everyone knows
stress is not good 4 the baby.And who know
maybe the doorbell will ring while your
there. 
anyways good luck and dont stress!
Krista
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MiracleIn2004
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004
Posts: 203
Location: Louisiana
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Posted: 02-04-04 17:33pm
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I would have been at his house today but I
dont have any transportation 
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CrombieChic16
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Joined: 10 Oct 2003
Posts: 745
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Posted: 02-04-04 17:39pm
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Whitney,
if I were you I wouldn't tell him you
suspect anything right now, because
honestly, he'll deny it and you'll never
know the truth...The next time that
happens, and he says he'll call you
back....Agree and as soon as you hang up
the phone get dressed and go over to his
house to see who exactly keeps ringing his
doorbell and taking his attention from
you...I've dealt with a pretty good con
artist, manipulator, liar, cheater, so
i've tried just about every little trick
in the book, and let me tell you, they all
worked! I don't want to upset you or lead
you to believe something's wrong, but if
that were my guy, you better believe i'd
be doing some investigating!
Here if you need me hun!
Vanessa & peanut
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krista57
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2003
Posts: 190
Location: ga
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Posted: 02-04-04 17:40pm
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Im sorry! Dont worry you will find out!
If it wasnt so far I would take you my
self!
Keep smiling!
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JillMarie
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Joined: 24 Dec 2003
Posts: 3022
Location: Iowa
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Posted: 02-04-04 19:02pm
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I think if your feeling so bad you should
really talk to him caue you dont want to
get too stressed out since your pregnant.
Good luck! 
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honeycoco
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2003
Posts: 375
Location: georgia
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Posted: 02-04-04 19:48pm
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If I was you I would be a little nervous.
You should have trust in your man but why
everytime his doorbell rings does he have
to call you back it just seems a little
fishy to my but I am always paronoid. I
would go over his house unannouced. I
have done that before and you can learn
and found out alot. Lol
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hearenbaby8504
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004
Posts: 197
Location: Cinn. Ohio
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Fishy Fishy Fishy
Posted: 02-04-04 20:23pm
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Hey hun, my name is heather and I have
read all your replies from everyone and
they are right, I also read that you said
you had no transportation. I have an
idea, but I don't know how good it will
work. How bout when the doorbell rings
and he hangs up with you, call back but
block your number and change your voice.
Ask to talk to one of his sisters and see
who alls there. Tell her you were
thinking about coming over and say who
alls there? If she tells you not to come
over, then I think it would be time to get
worried and start asking him questions.
Your right, he should be giving you
attention. Your pregnant and you need
it. I think we all need it hehehe.
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smith8500
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 02-04-04 21:57pm
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Good idea! I'd try and play him. See who
it is. Guys are wierd. It could just be
"his boyz" and he gets preoccupied, but
then again, ya neva know!
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MiracleIn2004
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004
Posts: 203
Location: Louisiana
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Posted: 02-05-04 02:49am
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Ugh I dunno what to think, one day I could
kill him and one
day, like today I love him soooo much.
When I saw him today he had my chain on
with my picture on it, I didnt think he
still wore it  , and when we got
off the phone he said "you know I love you
with all me heart right?" I was like
"really?"..Lol..I was just being
girlie..Lol..But then he was like yea I
love the both of you he
never said that before..Omg that made me
feel so good. I love him so much, bt as
far as me liking him all the
time..Lol..Not. But when he said that,
that was the icing on the cake.
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Mesmerizeu15
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Joined: 11 Aug 2003
Posts: 2729
Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 02-05-04 08:48am
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Yeah but are you sure he isnt saying that
to cover up. When he says someone is at
the door, I would march my ass over
there..Seriously..I have done it, walked 5
miles 9 months pregnant!!
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MiracleIn2004
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004
Posts: 203
Location: Louisiana
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Posted: 02-05-04 12:28pm
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I am going to see if it happens again, if
it does, I will be over there!
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JillMarie
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Joined: 24 Dec 2003
Posts: 3022
Location: Iowa
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Posted: 02-05-04 12:32pm
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You go girl!! 
:p
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Jaydensmommy
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 28 Jan 2004
Posts: 1701
Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 02-05-04 13:17pm
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I knwo you dont wanna hear this, but to me
is sounds suspicous. And I also think
that him wearing the chain and saying all
those things are his way of covering up.
He may think you are catching on and that
he needs to show you hes not cheating.
Just beware! Good luck...And for the
record..I hope its nothing and hes not
cheating! Im here if you need someone to
talk to!
~sara~
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insurancegirl
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Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 02-05-04 14:48pm
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-06-04 08:58am; edited 1 time in total
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havingababy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Dec 2003
Posts: 127
Location: new jeruz (nj)
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Posted: 02-05-04 17:04pm
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Well I had a boyfriend that did that
constantly it was not wen someone was at
the door but wen his "cousin" was over wen
his "cousin" called wen he was going out,
oh and I could never get a hold off him on
saturdays, it was just all the time 
. I just got used to it he would say i'll
call u back and I would say uh huh and he
knew it pissed me off so he would say I
promise and that would only make things
worse. But anyway we ended up breaking up
but since we were friends b 4 we got
together we still talk but he hasnt
changed hes just a big party person(flirt)
and doesnt like to be locked down.
But about you I dont know if he could be
cheating and I dont like to input on other
peoples relationships but I will say keep
your eyes open and try to talk to him
about it.
Lana (sorry 4 talking so much)
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