I have this friend we have been friends
for 5 yrs now and for awhile he had moved
out of state and I lost contact with
him.He has a girlfrend that he has been
with for 4 yrs now and he says he loves
her but consantly cheats on her.When I ask
why he cheats he says her insciuties push
him away.When I ask he he loves her he
says yes when I asks if he is in love with
her he gets quiet.She is 7 months pregnant
.Any advice on what I can do to help if I
can even help him. Or them I dont know
her all that well and she dosent like me
to begin with I care about him and just
want him to b happy. And hosently she is
a nice girl and I dont want hto see her
hurt eather.So and adive would be nice
plz.
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Spirit
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2006 Posts: 388 Location: Canada
Posted: 01-08-07 09:20am
Do nothing............................If
she has a brain cell
left.....................She already
suspects
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RedDelight
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Oct 2006 Posts: 131 Location: I'm a Yettie!
Re: Cheating Friend Posted: 01-18-07 15:09pm
pack_rat3333
wrote:
i have this friend we have
been friends for 5 yrs now and for awhile
he had moved out of state and I lost
contact with him.He has a girlfrend that
he has been with for 4 yrs now and he says
he loves her but consantly cheats on
her.When I ask why he cheats he says her
insciuties push him away.When I ask he he
loves her he says yes when I asks if he is
in love with her he gets quiet.She is 7
months pregnant .Any advice on what I can
do to help if I can even help him. Or
them I dont know her all that well and she
dosent like me to begin with I care about
him and just want him to b happy. And
hosently she is a nice girl and I dont
want hto see her hurt eather.So and adive
would be nice
plz.
.W.H.A...???????? You want to *help* a
friend that cheats on women???! Screw
that- he made his own bed- he can sleep in
it! Especially, when the girl he was and
is with currently is about to have his
child? I would tell her -discretly. Do
you have proof of this cheater? I'd try
to tell her- but not actually verbally say
it, if you catch my drift? Cause if you
decide to tell her.. And she doesn't like
you.. She is going to assume, that you
are trying to get her away from him.
Especially a pregant woman...She will be
prone to be madder with emotions.
Me... I would tell her. Short and
simple. Then walk away- and have them
figure out their situations. I would
offer the girl support, if she needed
someone to talk to- but I would leave it
at that. That guy is a loser.
