Jolie_3110
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Joined: 04 Dec 2005 Posts: 1755 Location: Essex, England
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Posted: 01-09-07 15:01pm
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Sandra stop picking on me *squeal*
hey I dont want to stress about
this....Its not good for me!  lol!!
Enoughs enough this mama say no more!!!
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AlliE_18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Dec 2005 Posts: 2129 Location: uk
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Posted: 01-09-07 15:03pm
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I agree with that gen! Those are the
kinds of things you should really
sacrifice doing once you have a child.
Not saying you should never go out or have
fun without your kid but not as often as
you used to. If you're not ready to give
some stuff up then you shouldnt plan a
baby imo. You cant have it both
ways....Well you can but living that way
isnt fair on the child.
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diamondsz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Oct 2005 Posts: 3333 Location: , Candyland-Canada
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Posted: 01-09-07 15:03pm
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| rainfire1424
wrote: | | jolie_3110
wrote: | | but you cant protect your
baby from every illness going and if you
think of all the places that germs and
dirt are then you'll never go
anywhere. |
sure you can.
Its our duty as a mother to protect our
children from things that can harm them at
all costs, no matter the sacrifice.
If taking your child somewhere unnecessary
(i.E., the movies) can be avoided then we
dont go.
There are things we must give up when we
become parents for our childrens sake.
Either find a babysitter or wait til the
child is considerably older and not so
susceptible to infection.
Its time to start thinking of your
childrens well-being and not your personal
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sandra kids are going to get sick and the
best thing we can do as a mother is
introduce our kid to a wild virus so that
their bodies can fight if ever the get it
again.
Look at cam he got rsv from his cousin, I
never brought him out and since then he
got sick again gastro but the thing is we
can never shelter our kids from a virus
their airborn you open your door you just
let it in~
you have to understand kids need to get it
its both healthy for the mother and kids,
if that wasnt the case there wouldnt be
playgroups.
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Sunflower_pie81
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jan 2006 Posts: 5041 Location: to hell with this crap
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Posted: 01-09-07 15:05pm
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| rainfire1424
wrote: | | sunflower_pie81
wrote: | | rainfire1424
wrote: | | jolie_3110
wrote: | | but you cant protect your
baby from every illness going and if you
think of all the places that germs and
dirt are then you'll never go
anywhere. |
sure you can.
Its our duty as a mother to protect our
children from things that can harm them at
all costs, no matter the sacrifice.
If taking your child somewhere unnecessary
(i.E., the movies) can be avoided then we
dont go.
there are
things we must give up when we become
parents for our childrens sake. Either
find a babysitter or wait til the child is
considerably older and not so susceptible
to infection.
Its time to start thinking of your
childrens well-being and not your personal
entertainment. |
that is what I was trying to say.
thank
you |
no problem, .Gen
i was starting to get totally frustrated.
It seems like there are a lot of people
who's priorities are totally messed up.
You should come hang out with .Mel and I
this weekend! |
i so would....But this week is a tight
week for me because I had to pay for some
extra stuff this week.....Do you know what
a radiatior belt is??? Well for some
reason my car has one and needed a new
one. Lol not too pretty....Catch me
next time.....Oh and mybaby isnt' feeling
too well wouldnt' want her to make
caty/jacob sick.
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AyaMiyaki
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Joined: 01 Jun 2006 Posts: 8535 Location: Floating on a cloud, United States
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Posted: 01-09-07 15:09pm
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I still don't see how theater speakers
could be okay for a young baby's sensitive
ears. Having a loud home doesn't really
compare to that. But yeah, .I've said
that already.
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Jules
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Joined: 19 Aug 2006 Posts: 3840 Location: Merrie Englande, UK
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Posted: 01-09-07 15:10pm
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| ayamiyaki
wrote: | | i still don't see how
theater speakers could be okay for a young
baby's sensitive ears. Having a loud
home doesn't really compare to that. But
yeah, .I've said that
already. |
i totally agree!
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Sunflower_pie81
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jan 2006 Posts: 5041 Location: to hell with this crap
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Posted: 01-09-07 15:13pm
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Ok well I am just going to say this and I
am done.
Ok well I guess I need to get amelia in a
group with the chicken pox....And then the
mumps, how about scarlett fever....Oh and
then small pox....Then the flu, african
trypanosomiasis, cholera, measles,
poliomyelitis, lyme disease, encephalitis,
yellow fever, typhoid fever, salmonella,
tuberculosis just in case she gets them
again she could fight them better a
second time around.
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Jules
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Joined: 19 Aug 2006 Posts: 3840 Location: Merrie Englande, UK
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Posted: 01-09-07 15:17pm
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| sunflower_pie81
wrote: | ok well I am just going to
say this and I am done.
Ok well I guess I need to get amelia in a
group with the chicken pox....And then the
mumps, how about scarlett fever....Oh and
then small pox....Then the flu, african
trypanosomiasis, cholera, measles,
poliomyelitis, lyme disease, encephalitis,
yellow fever, typhoid fever, salmonella,
tuberculosis just in case she gets them
again she could fight them better a
second time
around. |
well hopefully your little girl has been
immunised against most of those anyway...
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Bridget
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Joined: 27 Jan 2006 Posts: 10834 Location: ,
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Posted: 01-09-07 15:20pm
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I think you guys are being a little
dramatic. She wants to take her to the
movies, not the hospital. She's not going
to be putting ava on the floor or letting
her lick the seats (lol, laura). People
take their babies on planes and subways
and city buses all the time, I think those
are far most disgusting germ-wise.
The only problem I see with it is the
volume and the fact that people pay an arm
and a leg these days to see a movie, they
might not be too happy to see a baby
there.
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Jolie_3110
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Dec 2005 Posts: 1755 Location: Essex, England
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Posted: 01-09-07 15:22pm
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| iheartmybostonterrier
wrote: | i think you guys are being a
little dramatic. She wants to take her
to the movies, not the hospital. She's
not going to be putting ava on the floor
or letting her lick the seats (lol,
laura). People take their babies on
planes and subways and city buses all the
time, I think those are far most
disgusting germ-wise.
The only problem I see with it is the
volume and the fact that people pay an arm
and a leg these days to see a movie, they
might not be too happy to see a baby
there. |
exactly what I wanted to say but I didnt
say it quite so well 
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Kia
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Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
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Posted: 01-09-07 15:27pm
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Children to the movies - yes, that's why
they show kids movies and have child price
tickets.
Babies - no.
Unless it is a mother/baby session, then
no-one is going to appreciate it.
I'm all for kids learning to behave out in
public.
I was taken to restaurants and stuff as a
child, but not before I could sit at the
table and behave properly during dinner at
home.
I was taken to the movies but not before I
could sit and behave to watch a movie at
home.
People go to the movies to chill and
relax.
As a parent you give up the ability to do
what you want when you want.
Go rent a movie and buy some popcorn - at
least you can pause the movie is she gets
upset and not miss any.
Be thankful your mother will babysit for
you on occassion and take those
opportunities to go to the movies.
Wait until your kid can enjoy the movies
instead of just dragging baby in "because
you can".
I'd actually be suprised if the cinema
would let you take a baby into an evening
showing.
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mommao3
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Oct 2006 Posts: 40
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Posted: 01-09-07 17:19pm
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This time of year I would be a little
worried about germs. Rsv, etc., but I
wouldn't say that I would never take a
baby. I took my babies during the summer
matinees when they were small infants and
they did fine.
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Eyes Wide Shut
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 7892 Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
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Posted: 01-09-07 17:47pm
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I think that sheltering your kids is
normal. As we all want to protect and
hellp our children out of harms way.
As infants, we're at our most protective.
But as baba's get bigger and more
independant, it's inevitable. You're
going to come across germs and illness.
But while you can prevent it, hell why
not?!
As for the "poorly parties", I have heard
of them. But in the states, all baba's
*must* get vaccinated for these illnesses.
I tried to refuse the .Chick .Pox
vaccine, but did research and it's
*manditory*, so a poorly party won't be
happnening any time soon around here.
Being over protected to the extreeme can
cause problems with babies *detatching*
from their mother. I.E, doesn't want to
play without mommy, can't venture off,
without mommy, etc.
I have to agree with 99% of yall with the
comment of:"to each their own"
sarah
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jessesgirl
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Posted: 01-09-07 22:03pm
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 lol
my goodness!
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jessesgirl
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Posted: 01-09-07 22:34pm
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Some of these responses are soooo
ridiculous. I have so much to say, but
i'm speechless. I rather not respond b/c
i'd just wind more people up and those
people seem to live for that. I rather
not humor you anymore. Goodnight!

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Sandbox Party
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jul 2006 Posts: 7276
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Posted: 01-10-07 18:59pm
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| kia_breizzze
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as a parent you give up the ability to
do what you want when you want.
go rent a movie and buy some popcorn - at
least you can pause the movie if she gets
upset and not miss any.
Wait until your kid can enjoy the movies
instead of just dragging baby in "because
you can".
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**exasperated sigh**
thank you.
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michelle1981
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Posted: 01-10-07 19:24pm
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I don't think this should be a big issue.
Jessesgirl(sorry, I don't think I know
your real name  ), personally I
wouldn't bring a baby to the movies for 2
reasons 1. It's way too loud for a baby,
and 2. When I go to the movies, I go to
enjoy it. It may not be possible with a
baby?
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