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Untimely Blessings
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2004
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Need Help Badly
Posted: 02-04-04 23:01pm
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Ok I got a call from my best friend
tonight at work, she was crying and told
me that he house had just been broken into
and she had an altercation with the
intruder, so I left work immediatly and
went to her apartment to get her. When I
got there she was beaten up pretty badly
and she said that he raped her, so I took
her to the emergency room but when we got
there she refused to let the doctor exam
her, they only thing she let him do was
give her an ultrasound to make sure the
baby is ok. I have her over here right
now and she is sleeping, but I don't know
what to do, does anyone have an idea as to
what I can do to help? Should I hug her
or stay at arms length, I am just so hurt
for her. Please help me!
Kelly
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Alexandra_O
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Joined: 31 Jan 2004
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Location: Canada
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Posted: 02-04-04 23:09pm
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My god i'm so sorry. Has she alerted the
police? I don't know what to say just do
whatever you feel is right considering the
way your friend is acting. If it appears
that she doesnt want to be touched just
let her be but otherwise I would try to
comfort her...I have no idea
honestly...I've never been in that
situation. Keep her safe and hope her and
her baby and you and yours are ok.
~love
alex
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Mesmerizeu15
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Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Untimely Blessings
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Mesmerizeu15
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Untimely Blessings
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posted: 02-04-04 23:15pm
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I can go on my sis' account cheerydla124
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Mesmerizeu15
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Posted: 02-04-04 23:17pm
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Ok I am signed on as micheb21...My aunts
sn..We can talk on it this time, but never
again. I have some things to say..
Stacie
sign on
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Untimely Blessings
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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smith8500
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Location: Louisiana
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Kelly
Posted: 02-04-04 23:21pm
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We talked on-line. You know my advice.
And since you can't make this all go away
for her. Just be there for her. This is
a very horrible expierence for anyone to
go through and just being there for her
will help a lot!
Love,
chanda
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Untimely Blessings
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posted: 02-04-04 23:22pm
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Thanks again chanda, your a huge help!
Kel
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Mesmerizeu15
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Posted: 02-04-04 23:22pm
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Not seeing you online, send me a
message...Micheb21
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Mesmerizeu15
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Posted: 02-04-04 23:26pm
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Common im getting ready for bed...
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havingababy
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Location: new jeruz (nj)
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Posted: 02-04-04 23:26pm
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Omg thats soo frightening I could never
imagine going through that oh my god. Did
she talk to the police?? Oh my god i'm
like in shock I cant belive it its horible
that we have to live in a world where
people r that ludacris and just have no
feelings at all twards other people. I'm
truly sorry that happened to your friend
she is in my prayers and all I can say for
you to do is just be there for her being
raped is a very emotional thing to go
through I had a friend who was raped and
she had some real issues not only did she
have to go through that but he gave her an
std that she cant get rid of and could
pass on to her children. Again i'm so
sorry
lana
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Untimely Blessings
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posted: 02-04-04 23:26pm
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I sent you a message girl! Lol
kel
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Mesmerizeu15
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Posted: 02-05-04 08:02am
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Kel- what ended up happening? Did I help
at all? Is she still there?How is she
today? Lemme know..
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Untimely Blessings
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posted: 02-05-04 10:31am
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Hey, last night when I was talking to
jeni, she woke up crying and wanted to
talk. So we sat in my room and talked for
about 3 hours about what happened. Turns
out she did know the guy, it is her baby's
daddy's best friend. So he even knew that
she was 22 1/2 weeks pregnant and he just
didn't care. We went back to the hospital
at 2:30 this morning and she let the doc
examine her and even though she had taken
a shower, there was still a little bit of
evidence. She filed a poilice report as
well. I stayed here at my house with her
today, we are going to just hang out. The
doctor said the baby was fine and that she
was going to be fine, but that her cheek
bone was broken and that she had a cracked
rib, which is why it hurts when the baby
kicks her. But she is going to be fine,
we are gonna talk more later and watch
movies and stuff, I am trying to make her
feel better, but she is so scared, which I
completely understand. Thank you very
very very much for all of your help girls
especially stacie, chanda and jen!
Kelly
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Mesmerizeu15
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Posted: 02-05-04 11:07am
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Wow her baby daddys best friend. Is she
still with her baby daddy? I think that
she should tell him what happened if she
hasnt already , if they are still
together. Did she tell the police that
she knew who it was. Just keep her calm
and safe, and warm. I am sure that she is
feeling 20 different emotions right now.
I am here for you always and forever you
know that!! Good luck darling, im here!!
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Untimely Blessings
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posted: 02-05-04 11:10am
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No she hasn't told her baby's daddy, they
are still together, off and on, but she
did tell the police. Thank you again
sweetie, I sent you a pm by the way.
Kel
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JillMarie
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Posted: 02-05-04 11:49am
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Omg that is terrible. I wish I had some
advice for you. I'm glad she let them
examine her! He needs to pay for what he
did!
Last edited by JillMarie on 02-05-04 12:06pm; edited 1 time in total
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
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Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 02-05-04 11:54am
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Kel,
i am really glad she went back and finled
a report and such. I hope he gets put
away for a long time! What a horrible
thing to do!
Love,
chanda
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