I Have a Crush On My Cousin Posted: 01-11-07 01:23am
Hi to all dating guests!
I guess i’ve got myself into big trouble
for I feel like I love my cousin. She is
a fantastic-looking girl, knockout
beautiful, and each time I see her heart
starts to race. I've got lots of the
photos of her and, you won't believe me, I
spend hours looking at them. I like the
way she dresses. Short snazzy gowns or
simple denim shorts... She looks awesome.
I don't know what to do, really. I
cannot get her out of my mind and i’m
afraid it's getting worse.
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hannah4
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Dec 2006 Posts: 5
Re:i Have a Crush On My Cousin Posted: 01-11-07 01:27am
Hey. How old are you? I am assuming
you are fairly young. This isn't totally
abnormal. Lot's of adolescents think
they are in love with a cousin or other
family member. Since I am assuming you
are around 13 or so, I am just going to
post this as if you were. You are just
starting to discover your sexuality and
that can be a scary thing. Going out and
meeting girls your age can be stressful
and scary. You never know what will
happen. The fear of rejection is scarier
then anything you've ever known. Falling
for a cousin seems safer. They are
family so you know they automatically love
you. It seems like a logical choice but
it is really that you are confused. My
suggestion would be to get rid of the
pictures of her and start crushing on a
girl in your class that reminds you of
your cousin. Find a girl with the same
fashion sense and beauty. It's the next
best thing to your first desire.
Eventually you can hope that you will
forget all about your cousin and you will
start to form lasting relationships with
girls other then family members. Just
take things one step at a time. You
already know that you have no chance with
getting with your cousin. You might as
well stop delaying the inevitable. Good
luck. I'm sure you will grow out of it
soon. Feelings change on a weekly (and
sometimes daily) basis.
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babydance143
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2007 Posts: 24
Posted: 02-05-07 23:05pm
Wait arent you the guy in love with a girl
from your school???I am confused..??? You
posted a previous posting about being
totally in love with this girl from your
school, who was in a long term
relationship, and you feel she has no time
for you?? Ok..This is weird! And your
21?? Wow.
