My partner and I have been dating for 7
months now. We started having actual
intercourse about 3 months ago. When we
start to engage in 4 play i'm all into it
but when the actual time comes for
intercourse I loose focus. I really do
like him but I can't seem to stay focus on
sex with him. He complains that i'm dry
within the first 5 minutes and he's right,
but I don't know why. We have tried
astroglide and ky jelly. He's frustrated
and yet he hasn't given up on me and i'm
totally frustrated and want to give up.
I'm trying to push him away, but he gets
mad at me for pushing him away, what do I
do? What's wrong with me?
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fiona05
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Posted: 01-14-07 21:33pm
Do you use condoms? Or are you on birth
control? Have you ever had this problem
with other partners?
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why me
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2007 Posts: 6 Location: Oregon
Posted: 01-15-07 01:09am
fiona05
wrote:
do you use condoms? Or
are you on birth control? Have you ever
had this problem with other
partners?
yes we use condoms and I got my tubes tied
last june after my second child and no I
haven't had this problem before.
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littlesqueaks
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 May 2006 Posts: 296 Location: Caldwell, Idaho
Posted: 01-15-07 01:18am
Are you on any other kinds of medications
if not to personal?
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why me
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2007 Posts: 6 Location: Oregon
Posted: 01-15-07 03:04am
heathercarl
wrote:
are you on any other kinds
of medications if not to
personal?
no. After my son was born last year and I
had my pap I was told I had cervical
cancer. Since my leap procedure was done
a few weeks after the diagnose I havn't
had any problems with the cancer.That
would be the only thing I could think of
they may have something to do with my
problem.
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orthogirl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Sep 2006 Posts: 69 Location: NC
Posted: 01-29-07 14:13pm
Certain condoms can dry a female out.
What kind does he use? You may want to
try to switch up and see if that helps.
