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nanbram
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How Do I Know Who the Father Is?
Posted: 01-14-07 12:35pm
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Can someone help me? I had unprotected
sex with my boyfriend dec 10, 2006, to
completion (meaning he ejaculated). It
was a day after my period ended, the
beginning of which was the 5th of
december.
My boyfriend and I broke up, and I met
someone new, who I had unprotected sex
with on dec. 29, 2006. After 5 minutes,
I told him to stop. No ejaculation, but
of course there's pre-ejaculation...
I am pregnant. My period was due around
the 2nd or 3rd day of january. I took a
home pregnancy test on the 7th, which was
positive. Then on the 8th, I went to the
doctor and had a beta done. It was
positive, with the number 5257h. I have
no idea what this means. Then on the
10th of january, I had an ultrasound,
transvaginal, and regular. It confirmed
I was pregnant, the report saying "less
than 5 weeks pregnant."
it was almost 3 weeks between the two, but
could it be either of these men?
I am desperate. I don't want to
terminate, but I need to know who the
father is...
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Kia
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Posted: 01-14-07 13:11pm
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It's a miracle baby.
Based on information provided:...
Lmp 5/12
nmp 2/01
approx 28 day cycle
expected ovulation date approx 19/12.
Sperm can live upto 5days in a fertile
woman
the egg is viable for approx 36 hours
after ovulatuion.
Puts your high fertility window at 14/12 -
21/12
sex on 29/12 is too late to get pregnant
(even with late ovulation) and get a
positive test with such a high beta on
7/01 so that rules the new man out.
However, sex on 10/12 is too early in all
liklihood.
Are you sure you didn't have sex again
with your ex again after 10/12?
If you're sure then it looks like you are
an early ovulator, in which case it's your
ex's - the beta would indicate this to be
the most likely outcome also.
If by some chance you were a late ovulator
with a short luteal phase, then I would
have expected a beta in the region of less
than 500...
Either man is unlikely but your new man is
very improbable.
Based on your info given and
typical/likely cycles i'd have to say it
is your ex's baby - i'd be very very
shocked to learn otherwise.
Last edited by Kia on 01-14-07 13:13pm; edited 1 time in total
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 01-14-07 13:14pm
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Kia where do you find all your ifo from
because any question thats asked you
answer with a 100% amazing answer
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Kia
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Posted: 01-14-07 13:16pm
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Nope, it's just that the human
reproductive system has a very special
interest to me - hence the reason why I am
back in college so I can go on to study in
gynaecology, specialising in mullerian
anomalies and reproductive endocrinology
that's twice in 3 days some called me
smart 
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Kia
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Posted: 01-14-07 13:17pm
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| dannzibelle
wrote: | | kia where do you find all
your ifo from because any question thats
asked you answer with a 100% amazing
answer |
lol thanks
it's my specialist subject.
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Bridget
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Posted: 01-14-07 13:24pm
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I think you're one of the smartest people
I "know". You should get your butt over
to my babycenter birth club and knock some
sense into all the women having pregnancy
scares 6-8 weeks pp.
"how is it possible to get pregnant so
soon after giving birth? I haven't even
had my period yet!"
it drives me insane!
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Nataliachick7
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Posted: 01-14-07 13:58pm
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| iheartmybostonterrier
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"how is it possible to get pregnant so
soon after giving birth? I haven't even
had my period yet!"
it drives me
insane! |
god people are idiots! I thought everyone
had sex ed class in school at some point?
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Bridget
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Posted: 01-14-07 14:05pm
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| nataliachick7
wrote: | | iheartmybostonterrier
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"how is it possible to get pregnant so
soon after giving birth? I haven't even
had my period yet!"
it drives me
insane! |
god people are idiots! I thought
everyone had sex ed class in school at
some point? |
it gets worse, that's just the most
common. Some say stuff like "my doctor
told me that I won't ovulate for at least
8 weeks so we're not using protection
yet". Or "my doctor said some women
actually ovulate before getting their
first pp period, so now i'm scared".
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Kia
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 01-14-07 15:02pm
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Oh I love you kia I don't know how I would
have coped without you it's just the
little things you worry about or arn't
sure of that eat away at you the most so
i'm so glad you've been able to reassure
me.
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Kia
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Posted: 01-14-07 15:11pm
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Hahaha i'm the boring ol' fart on here lol
more bothered about the science of crap
then the feelings involved
i ought ligten up but hey this is me love
me or don't 
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 01-14-07 15:13pm
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Well I love you! Sometimes thats what you
need though you don't just want a sugar
coated it will be ok you want to know the
facts
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Becky
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Posted: 01-14-07 19:01pm
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Kia you know I love ya!
How are you going on to study gynaecology?
What course are you studying?
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Kia
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Posted: 01-15-07 02:50am
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Right now I am doing a-levels because I
didn't do them the first time around.
So now i'm doing biology, chemistry,
physics (with medical option) and maths
(because you have to do as-level maths to
do any science above a-level).
Then I will discuss my options with an
advisor based on my as-level grades and
apply for a course auth'd by the royal
college of gynaecologists.
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Becky
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Posted: 01-15-07 04:07am
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Oooh... Sounds like good fun! I have an
interview on 8th feb at 9.15am for
midwifery. Hopefully i'll get in
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