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love_for_kids

New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Feb 2004
Posts: 12
I'm Freaking Out
Posted: 02-05-04 12:21pm

Ok heres my story... Me and my boyfriend decided we were going to wait until we were married to have sex but on jan 31 things went a little to far and now I don't know what to do. The thing is he only went in 1 time and then pulled right out since we were/are going to wait until we are married. The other thing is I have'nt had my period since the first week of nov. It never comes every month or the same days and I hate that. My mom does'nt want me on birth control because she says hers is the same way. I guess the only symptoms I have are my breast are sore and I feel some cramping. I guess my question is, is there anyway I can be pregnant even though he didnt cum inside me and he was only in there 1 time for a few sec? Please help me out.
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mum

New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Feb 2004
Posts: 3
Location: Ohio
Freaking Out
Posted: 02-07-04 00:15am

To answer your question directly ... Yes, you can get pregnant without the man ejaculating. It is possible for a man to leak sperm in the females body even before he has an orgasm. I have gotten pregnant this very same way! But I am not writing to make you more freaked out. There's a very good probability that you are not pregnant.

If this happened jan. 31, it would probably be too early for you to have any pregnancy symptoms. Maybe the breast tenderness and cramping just means your period is coming. If your period doesn't come in 2 or 3 more weeks, than you might want to think about seeing a doctor for a pregnancy test, or to find out why you haven't had a period since november. If you and your boyfriend want children in the future, its a good idea to keep good care of your female health.

Good luck to you and your boyfriend!

Mum
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love_for_kids

New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Feb 2004
Posts: 12
Good News
Posted: 02-14-04 14:56pm

I took a test today and it is negative!!!!! Me and my boyfriend are so relieved. Thank you for all of your help and words of wisdom. You guys are the best!!!
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ciao77

Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Feb 2004
Posts: 77
Good!
Posted: 02-18-04 02:02am

I'm glad that your pregnancy test came out negative. Actually, on the 7th of february, I had sex but the condom broke. I took the morning after pill and started bleeding and spotting. I also got cramps..Maybe i'm being paranoid. But your discussion really made me realize that it's probably all in my head. I'll take a pregnancy test to make sure...Oh, how long after sex do you have to wait to take a pregnancy test??
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