please_help
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Stress
Posted: 01-16-07 01:06am
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I've been under alot of stress and
cramping alot lately. I'm scared I might
lose the baby. What can I do? Can stress
cause miscarriages? Would prenatal
vitamins help? One of my friends
suggested that.
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arcadia
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Posted: 01-16-07 01:09am
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How far along are you? If you're
cramping, that's usually ok.. But if
you're bleeding at all, that's when you
need to get to the doctor asap. Taking
prenatals is definitely a good idea.. Not
just for stress. Those are vitamins your
baby needs, anyway. If you're worried,
call your doctor.
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please_help
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Location: Texas
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Posted: 01-16-07 01:23am
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I'm like two months pregnant I think.
There's no bleeding just really bad
cramping and since i've never done this
before I wasn't sure I thats normal. And
I can't go see our family doctor cuz as
soon as I do my mom with find out and more
then likely i'll be kicked out. But my bf
said he'd get me an appointment with his
so hopefully that happens soon.
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sara**
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Advice
Posted: 01-22-07 22:40pm
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Hey girl I know how you feel actualy I
dont but thats just shitty I feel so bad
for you .But do you have oldr sis older
brothers no not older bro. But maybe
anuts or even uncles , maybe if you try to
be a little close to your mother .You know
no mater what bad thing a child does the
mothers heart always forgivess. Or you
can see your Dr. And eneter just you and
talk to your docter about it . It the
patiens right that a docter keeps secrets
but that not the problem you know she
goning to find out any way your going to
have changes in you . Try to sit you and
your mother one day and you know shead a
little tear or something and her heart
maybe will forgive . Good luck my girl
but for now try to keep your mother from
seeing your boyfriend good luck
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oh_mommy
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Re: Advice
Posted: 01-23-07 01:31am
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| sara**
wrote: | | hey girl I know how you
feel actualy I dont but thats just health
questionty I feel so bad for you .But do
you have oldr sis older brothers no not
older bro. But maybe anuts or even
uncles , maybe if you try to be a little
close to your mother .You know no mater
what bad thing a child does the mothers
heart always forgivess. Or you can see
your Dr. And eneter just you and talk to
your docter about it . It the patiens
right that a docter keeps secrets but that
not the problem you know she goning to
find out any way your going to have
changes in you . Try to sit you and your
mother one day and you know shead a little
tear or something and her heart maybe will
forgive . Good luck my girl but for now
try to keep your mother from seeing your
boyfriend good
luck |
y make her mother not see her bf? When I
told my mom I took my bf with me, and I
believe thats the best way because then
the mother knows that the guy is being
responsible.
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ANGELOS MAMA
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Kia
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Posted: 01-23-07 07:31am
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| please_help
wrote: | | and I can't go see our
family doctor cuz as soon as I do my mom
with find out |
That is illegal - patient/doctor
confidentiallity protects you from him
telling your parents.
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Mabel
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Posted: 01-23-07 11:29am
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| kia_breizzze
wrote: | | please_help
wrote: | | and I can't go see our
family doctor cuz as soon as I do my mom
with find out |
That is illegal - patient/doctor
confidentiallity protects you from him
telling your
parents. |
yes, it does. But the bill probably goes
to the parents. I think that is what she
is concerned about.
To the original poster: you need to get
medical care. Waiting doesn't make sense
- besides, your mom is eventually going to
find out. You cannot hide pregnancy.
Good luck!
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Bridget
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Posted: 01-23-07 11:50am
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| please_help
wrote: | | but my bf said he'd get me
an appointment with his so hopefully that
happens soon. |
is your boyfriend's doctor an obgyn?
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please_help
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Location: Texas
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Posted: 01-24-07 20:37pm
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My mom has kicked me out of the house
before and then reported me as a runway
because I didn't come back the next day, I
went to hang out with a friend for the
weekend instead. She also kicked my sis
out at 18 cuz she was spending to much
time with our dad. She's a psycho. And
I know she'll figure out eventually so i'm
looking for alternative places to live
when she does. I'm not prepared to move
out just yet so i'm not going to tell her
just yet.
As for just not stressing. Its not
really intentional or something I can
help. I have alot of stuff going on
right now thats very stressful.
But we did go to his doctor and he
referred us to an obgyn who said
everything looked normal and prescribed me
some prenate vitamins. I've been feeling
better since but that might be just
because i'm no longer stressing that
something might be wrong. Thanks for
the advice 
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bel_bel
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Posted: 01-25-07 00:21am
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Good to know that you're fine ... Good
luck with the baby! Have your doctor
schedule a scan(ultrasound) for you?
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Mabel
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Posted: 01-25-07 11:17am
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Wow! Ob's work really fast in your area.
I have never been able to get an
appointment with mine for an early
pregnancy for weeks.
Glad to hear you are feeling better. Good
luck with your mom.
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sara**
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Location: US,Michigan
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Posted: 01-25-07 12:41pm
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Wow I hope everything goes good for you .
I really do prey that you get past this
okay, and your mother changes and like
some kind of mirical comes down on her.
Good luck
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