Hi,
how do you stop fancying someone you
shouldnt.
I,m having problems with it as I look
forward to seeing her every week when she
visits and I like her a lot. The feeling
isnt mutual tho.
So how do I stop having feelings for her?
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RedDelight
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Oct 2006 Posts: 131 Location: I'm a Yettie!
Re: How to Stop Posted: 01-18-07 15:32pm
ttomko
wrote:
hi,
how do you stop fancying someone you
shouldnt.
I,m having problems with it as I look
forward to seeing her every week when she
visits and I like her a lot. The feeling
isnt mutual tho.
So how do I stop having feelings for
her?
hum... I don't know... Look elsewhere?
You cannot force someone to feel like you
do- although, you can find someone with
mutual feelings! Wish you would give
more info on your situation.. Like your
age- why she comes over every week..Etc.
Think of her like a sister- you will find
something else that catches your eye..
Good luck
-=red=-
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paul995
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Apr 2007 Posts: 140 Location: ,
Posted: 05-01-07 18:09pm
cease to feel romantically involved but
don't stop liking her as a friend. It's as
simple as that. If the feeling isn't
mutual, then I don't see any reason why
you should continue such feeling. . .
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Ivo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2007 Posts: 8 Location: Holland
Posted: 05-03-07 13:25pm
I had it too and it sucks yeah.
How did I got over it? Well, just
expierence several times it isn't mutual
and you will slowly give up hope and stop
fancying her. It took for me half a year.
It was pretty painfull to experience,
again and again, it wasn't mutual but now
I see her as a friend and that's it.
I wish you the best!
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paul995
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Apr 2007 Posts: 140 Location: ,
Posted: 05-28-07 17:29pm
decide not to have feelings for her. It's
pretty hard but it's a conscious-effort.
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nightangel73
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2005 Posts: 2328 Location: North Carolina
Thanks: 7
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Posted: 05-28-07 17:35pm
Go and date other people. That way you
will find someone else and forget the
other one.
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dineshsingh
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Mar 2008 Posts: 30
brother dont worry Posted: 04-02-08 06:25am
i will tell you one try to busy yourself
in work i think automatically u will
forget her and find out some other
girl.This is the best solution according
to me.
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