Joined: 23 Oct 2006 Posts: 3742 Location: South East, England
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the Family.... Posted: 01-16-07 07:34am
All know now. My aunties were good about
it not thrilled but who could expect them
to be. My grandma was her usual self, she
offered to pay for me to have an abortion
privatly because apparently it's 'for the
best' so I told her where to shove her
money and opinion and if I wanted an
abortion I would of had one already and
then I left her with the choice of either
to accept me as I am or don't see me.
She'll calm down she just needs the threat
to make her realise that she won't get her
own way. She likes to believe she is
essential to the entire family and
everything revolves around her
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Becky
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Posted: 01-16-07 11:31am
Lol. Aren't all grandma's like that? It
must feel better now that everything is
out in the open. With my second pregnancy
I was so scared to tell anyone (because it
was so soon after the first) I didn't tell
anyone until I was 5 months
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neighbours
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Joined: 01 Nov 2006 Posts: 363 Location: London
Posted: 01-16-07 11:58am
Aw shame about your grandma but at least
you have your aunts' support you'll be great
danni
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onmyway_0x
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Joined: 12 Jan 2007 Posts: 759 Location: Canada
Posted: 01-16-07 13:48pm
The first thing out of my grandmother's
mouth was "how could you do this to me" my
other grandmother insisted my parents make
me take care of it, as in have an abortion
, and we all just laughed.
Both grandmothers are very self involved ,
and like yours dannzi, feel they are the
essential core to our whole family, the
glue that holds us together. I think
they're just bitter they are going to be
great grandmothers. Pfft.
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 01-16-07 14:38pm
It does feel so great to have everyone
knowing because in some way it made me
feel asthough I mush be ashamed of my
baby for not telling them even though I
wasn't. Next step everyone at school!
All the teachers know just no one in my
classes apart from one friend although I
know the rumour will start soon because
how long can I hold a bag infront of
myself for! I just wish I could wake up
everyone will know and I don't have the
bullsh*t rumours
Just start talking about like everyone
already knows. If anyone says anything
just be like "oh I thought it was
obvious". Don't act ashamed or
embarrassed. As stupid as it sounds, a
lot of girls will probably be jealous of
you. 1/2 will be mean as hell and the
other half will be nice as hell. The
mean as hell half are just jealous.
This is a stupid comparrison, but do you
remember being young and someone would be
on crutches or something and a lot of
people would get all jealous, it's the
same thing. It's a stupid thing to be
jealous over, but you'll be the one
getting all the attention, good or bad.
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oh_mommy
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Joined: 04 Sep 2005 Posts: 3689 Location: vancouver island, bc canada
Posted: 01-16-07 19:33pm
Y do u have to telll ur class mates I
didnt I told my friends and family thats
it..... Im sorry ur grandma took it bad,
hopefully she'll come around, my grandma
barely talked to me when she found out the
other just gave me looks that made me feel
that she was ashamed, but they came around
and are very proud of there great grandson
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you'll be great
danni 
