tigresacanela24
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Grrr!!
Posted: 01-16-07 10:44am
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Okay i'm having a problem which is kind of
the same problem that I had before. I
really, really, really want to get it on
but I don't want to get it on with miguel.
We're not very compatible in that way.
He sees no problem with that aspect of our
relationship even though i've told him
again and again that i
don't enjoy it. It's really starting to
tick me off! He kept bugging me
yesterday and I kept saying no until
finally I blew up at him. It's sincerely
a waste of my time. I'll put in all
kinds of effort and energy and come away
from it sadly disappointed. I have no
idea how to deal with this, i've never had
a problem like this before... Any
suggestions?
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Becky
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Posted: 01-16-07 10:47am
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Teach him some new ideas. Buy a sex tape
for men aimed at how to please a woman and
make a big deal out of it like it's a
great thing for him to improve his
technique.
I usually just say what I do and don't
like in the bedroom at the time. If he's
doing something I didn't like (frequent
with neil not so much with robbie) i'll
say 'can you do "this" instead please?'
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 01-16-07 10:49am
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Well don't let sandra see this post,she'll
tell ou your obsessive! Lol 
girl I just don't know what to say.Has
*anything* at all changed since the last
time you posted about it? I know you said
you talked to him and he was doing a
little more house work but has anything
else changed? You really need to get to
the root of the problem,think hard.And if
anything,maybe your just not attracted to
him anymore.Do you still love him?
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posted: 01-16-07 10:51am
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Girlll..You need to tell him to make you
bust a nut!!! He gets *no* punani until
you orgasm!!!
Period!!!
Sarah
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 01-16-07 10:57am
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Becks, I tell him what I like and don't
like all the time. It's like he's
retarded or something. I told him that
he could be a little rougher with me
sometimes so then he was too rough. I
tried to show him how rough to be without
freaking killing me so then he was so
gentle it tickled me (which irritated me).
I try to show him things I like and it's
like he takes everything to the extreme.
He's just really bad in bed.  The
only thing he's good at is going down but
then I have to return the favor and I
don't want to because he takes too long.
Aaarrrggghhh!
Mel, we're past that issue now. Now it's
completely sexual. I don't feel like i'm
attracted to him at all. I still love
the blockhead but I don't want him
touching me in that way. It annoys me
because I start thinking that he'll want
to have sex and i'll have to lay there and
waste all that time. I don't know...
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 01-16-07 11:00am
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Is there a such thing as a sex
therapist?
Maybe tell him this.If he doesn't get you
off,he has to go down on you and you
*don't* have to return the favor.Why
should he get 2 nuts?
Last edited by Melissa_20 on 01-16-07 11:02am; edited 2 times in total
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 01-16-07 11:02am
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Yeah, we might need one. Only thing is,
we sure as heck can't afford one unless
it's free...
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Bridget
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Posted: 01-16-07 11:29am
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If he goes down on you why do you have to
return the favor? You'll get off from
that and he'll get off from the sex.
Seems fair to me!
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 01-16-07 11:32am
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| tigresacanela24
wrote: | | yeah, we might need one.
Only thing is, we sure as heck can't
afford one unless it's
free... |
i'll do it for free.....Hehehe or well you
can come down here and i'll take care of
you...Then it won't be so bad when your
with him.
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 01-16-07 11:34am
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I don't know why...
Especially since I hate doing that for
him....Besides who wants head all the
time? If he doesn't shape up we're going
to have to talk about having an open
marriage. I can't live like this. I
used to love sex and going down but now I
hate it all and I keep thinking that if I
wasn't with him it wouldn't be that way...
But I don't think I want to leave
him...Yet... 
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 01-16-07 11:36am
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| sunflower_pie81
wrote: | | tigresacanela24
wrote: | | yeah, we might need one.
Only thing is, we sure as heck can't
afford one unless it's
free... |
i'll do it for free.....Hehehe or well you
can come down here and i'll take care of
you...Then it won't be so bad when your
with him. |
gah, I miss those days!!! Days when I
did exactly what I wanted! He hates
anything that he doesn't consider normal
vanilla sex sucks. I might let you take
care of me gen...Should I call you
mistress?
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Zanny
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Posted: 01-16-07 11:39am
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| melissa_20
wrote: | | is there a such thing as a
sex
therapist? |
i'm working towards being one!
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 01-16-07 11:42am
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| tigresacanela24
wrote: | | sunflower_pie81
wrote: | | tigresacanela24
wrote: | | yeah, we might need one.
Only thing is, we sure as heck can't
afford one unless it's
free... |
i'll do it for free.....Hehehe or well you
can come down here and i'll take care of
you...Then it won't be so bad when your
with him. |
gah, I miss those days!!! Days when I
did exactly what I wanted! He hates
anything that he doesn't consider normal
vanilla sex sucks. I might let you take
care of me gen...Should I call you
mistress? |
i like mistress....So sure love. But i'd
do you right. Did anyone watch the class
last nigh on cbs? Lol it was funny just
kinda about this. Lol anyway. Kay I
dont' really knwo what to tell
you.....It's kinda like you out grow
eachother or one out grows one and then it
gets difficult. Do youknow that sex is
the reason most marriges fail. (well
that and money.) if he isnt' willing to
learn...Its hard...It makes having sex a
chore and by god sex shouldn't be a chore.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 01-16-07 11:44am
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| sunflower_pie81
wrote: | | it makes having sex a chore
and by god sex shouldn't be a
chore. |
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 01-16-07 11:46am
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| melissa_20
wrote: | | sunflower_pie81
wrote: | | it makes having sex a chore
and by god sex shouldn't be a
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mel is a half an hour girl. Lol
good lord girl....Most wemon would love to
go that long....Most of them wish for
that.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 01-16-07 11:48am
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| sunflower_pie81
wrote: | | melissa_20
wrote: | | sunflower_pie81
wrote: | | it makes having sex a chore
and by god sex shouldn't be a
chore. |
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mel is a half an hour girl. Lol
good lord girl....Most wemon would love to
go that long....Most of them wish for
that. |
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 01-16-07 11:49am
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They can have miguel, he goes on and on
too. It's like freaking hours and you
get to the point where you really just
want to punch him in the face and roll him
off you onto the floor....Hard!
That's the same way with him mel, it's
like "aren't you done yet?" then it's
impossible to stay wet that long, it's
like you get numb or something there is no
type of arousal going on and you can't get
it back. Breaks would be nice...
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 01-16-07 11:54am
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| tigresacanela24
wrote: | they can have miguel, he
goes on and on too. It's like freaking
hours and you get to the point where you
really just want to punch him in the face
and roll him off you onto the
floor....Hard!
That's the same way with him mel, it's
like "aren't you done yet?" then it's
impossible to stay wet that long, it's
like you get numb or something there is no
type of arousal going on and you can't get
it back. Breaks would be
nice... |
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 01-16-07 11:57am
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See, you know what i'm talking about then!
Gah, you start to dread it!
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 01-16-07 12:00pm
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| tigresacanela24
wrote: | | see, you know what i'm
talking about then! Gah, you start to
dread it! |
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