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Sandra112

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Oral Sex
Posted: 02-05-04 15:40pm

Hello guys, I have a question for you all since I know no one will know this better than a guy, me and my partner have been seeing eachother for a while now, but we dont see eachother as often he always talks about how good it would be for me to suck on his dick with out stoping even if he cumms, I have always sucked on his dick because I like it and he loves it, he has never cummed in my mouth because he knows im not okay with it yet, he is very respectful and caring to my needs or what I like and so on, we have really good sex together, and my question is if it really makes you guys feel good when a girl sucks on you even when you cum? Also can I get some tips on what you guys would like a girl to do to you guys, or what drives you crazy.....I like pleasing my man, and any advise will be very helpful...

Sandra
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bldunlap

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Posted: 02-15-04 22:17pm

Well, sandra...Something to remember is that every man and woman is different, so therefore with each partner you are with, both of you must work towards a compromise in your sexual habits. My partner and I have grown with each other tremendously, but that's not to say that I don't do or know something that would make her toes curl and her hair stand on end, and vice versa.

The fact that you are comfortable, and like, giving oral sex is a very good thing. It might seem stupid, but trust me, it is a good thing. What I would advise you to do is ask your sweetheart what kinds of things he likes or dislikes. When you are tasting him, ask him if he likes it a certain way. If he doesn't give an answer, or says "i don't know" and shrugs, then experiment a little. Chances are that he will like you to experiment, and you might even find a nice little spot on his body that he never knew could make him feel good at all.

A lot of guys fall into the bandwagon by saying "oh man, I would love to cum in my girl's mouth..." well....It's a mental thing. Yes, it turns me on to think that my girl would do that, but it's not because it feels any better for that to happen, but because, in my mind, for my girl to take it to the end with me is very appealing, and it turns me on.

As far as you being ready to taste him when he's coming, take your time. The worst thing to happen in a relationship is for something to be rushed, just so someone can get their rocks off. If it happens that way, a bunch of bad feelings will be harbored, and it could possibly ruin what great sex life you two have together already. Take it slow and easy....If he isn't alright with it, then he should find a way to get alright with it, eh? :d

when you are ready, i, for one, cannot cum simply by being tasted. Rather, I need a mass of stimulation. I loooooove my stomach to be kissed and for my nipples to be rubbed. Or alternate those two in between tasting me....That really turns me on and takes me over the edge quick Surprised

anyway, sorry for the long answer. Hopefully I have helped you a bit. I'm sure some other people have some other suggestions for you, perhaps some better! Good luck, and have fun =)

blake
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jago25_98

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Posted: 04-08-04 22:32pm

Try it beforehand, from condom to spoon to mouse perhaps.

Tastes alright but you might not like the gluey texture.
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2ferano

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Posted: 04-13-04 11:05am

That is disgusting Embarassed have you tasted it jago?
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BbyBlu0602

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Posted: 05-18-04 13:21pm

Omg that's f*ckin nasty dude!


Blu
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shawn0000

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Posted: 05-24-04 08:09am

My high school girl friend tasted mine after she gave me a hand job in shcool. She even played with my cum. 'Smile'
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BbyBlu0602

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Posted: 05-24-04 09:32am

Lol...Freaky deaky. Laughing
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2ferano

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Posted: 05-25-04 16:01pm

Ooh, gross, psycho.
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shawn0000

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Posted: 05-26-04 13:49pm

"ooh, gross, psycho." you mean me or my girlfriend
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2ferano

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Posted: 05-26-04 14:02pm

Both in my opinion, but that is just me.
To each his/her own. Some people are into that. I personally only have respect for men who would never ever cum in my mouth. My men respect me to much for that. But once again, that is just me. Some women and men like that. Not me, and not people I date.
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shawn0000

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Posted: 05-27-04 07:57am

Put it this way I did not let her give me hand jobs in school any more after that. I would not cum in a girls mouth either. I dont think it is right to do. Even if the girl wants it.
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2ferano

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Posted: 05-27-04 09:25am

Hand jobs in school? You lucky boy.
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CrazyBanana

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Posted: 05-27-04 12:34pm

Ultimately it's up to both parties. A lot of people think it's gross, or don't wish to do so, and a lot of people like it. I wouldn't write it off as being sick or wrong--unless one partner tries to force another to do something he/she doesn't want to happen.
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2ferano

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Posted: 05-27-04 15:31pm

That is why I said "it is my opinion that it is disgusting and disrespectful" just my opinion. To each his/her own.
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2ferano

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Posted: 05-31-04 19:04pm

Wonderful advice void!
Very, very true.
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shawn0000

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Posted: 06-01-04 00:07am

She even wanted to give me hand jobs every day. But the fact that a teacher saw it made realy bad so I did not let her do it again.
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Void

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Posted: 06-01-04 01:11am

Hey, well basically you shouldn;t do it just to please him you should do it if u feel comfortable and it feels right to do, and trust me it wil hapen naturally when it is right for u.
Yes men love to cum in a girls mouth, but u should build on the romantic loving side of your sexual relationship before u do saucy things :p
i personally do give my boyfreind a blowjob and let him cum in my mouth, but the 1st time I ever did it to a boyfreind it tasted gross and was weird, but a tip would be to try and take it as far in your mouth as poss (sorry to be gross) but the futher back it is the less u will taste it if u want him to cum.
And also I dont know how long u have been with ur guy or how well u know his sexual history but remember that std's can be transfered via oral sex, so pehaps a solution would be to use flavoured condoms? That way he could cum but u wont have to swallow. Smile
and my advice (i speak from experience) is you wil only get more sexually confident with the right partner, and no1 ever knows what to do I have had sexual disasters but with the right person u can laugh it off learn from it and hey practice makes perfect.
And finally I bloody hope he knows how to please u babe!
Hope I helped
xxxxxxxxx
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murphdog

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Love
Posted: 07-10-04 21:54pm

Love
Smile
i'm a guy that loves life take it the way it is handed
be togher when you decide to show your love to each other
and the flow of life will be felt
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PattyV

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What to Do With The......
Posted: 07-11-04 10:44am

Well,i am married and in a monogomous relationship...So....I do what most women will not......Gulp.It is too much to deal with,finding a tissue,washing a stiff towel.Oh,what the heck,it's not so bad,as long as hubby has't eaten a lot of greasy food or junk food.It can make a difference,you know.This is what works for me and I know most ladies frown upon this little thing(2-3 cc's).Do what ever you feel is right for you,but always do so in a safe manner.
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CrazyBanana

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Posted: 07-13-04 02:17am

I was under the impression that a lot of girls swallow. Most don't?? I know that some girls really can't stand the taste/texture (even though guys only ejaculate about 1--1/2 tsp each time). I'm curious--what is the difference between a girl ingesting a guy's erm...Fluids when she goes down on him, and a guy ingesting a girl's when he goes down on her, and how is the act of a girl swallowing more disrespectful towards her??
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