Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 18 Location: California
Oral Sex Posted: 02-05-04 15:40pm
Hello guys, I have a question for you all
since I know no one will know this better
than a guy, me and my partner have been
seeing eachother for a while now, but we
dont see eachother as often he always
talks about how good it would be for me to
suck on his dick with out stoping even if
he cumms, I have always sucked on his dick
because I like it and he loves it, he has
never cummed in my mouth because he knows
im not okay with it yet, he is very
respectful and caring to my needs or what
I like and so on, we have really good sex
together, and my question is if it really
makes you guys feel good when a girl sucks
on you even when you cum? Also can I get
some tips on what you guys would like a
girl to do to you guys, or what drives you
crazy.....I like pleasing my man, and any
advise will be very helpful...
Sandra
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bldunlap
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Joined: 15 Feb 2004 Posts: 1
Posted: 02-15-04 22:17pm
Well, sandra...Something to remember is
that every man and woman is different, so
therefore with each partner you are with,
both of you must work towards a compromise
in your sexual habits. My partner and I
have grown with each other tremendously,
but that's not to say that I don't do or
know something that would make her toes
curl and her hair stand on end, and vice
versa.
The fact that you are comfortable, and
like, giving oral sex is a very good
thing. It might seem stupid, but trust
me, it is a good thing. What I would
advise you to do is ask your sweetheart
what kinds of things he likes or dislikes.
When you are tasting him, ask him if he
likes it a certain way. If he doesn't
give an answer, or says "i don't know" and
shrugs, then experiment a little.
Chances are that he will like you to
experiment, and you might even find a nice
little spot on his body that he never knew
could make him feel good at all.
A lot of guys fall into the bandwagon by
saying "oh man, I would love to cum in my
girl's mouth..." well....It's a mental
thing. Yes, it turns me on to think that
my girl would do that, but it's not
because it feels any better for that to
happen, but because, in my mind, for my
girl to take it to the end with me is very
appealing, and it turns me on.
As far as you being ready to taste him
when he's coming, take your time. The
worst thing to happen in a relationship is
for something to be rushed, just so
someone can get their rocks off. If it
happens that way, a bunch of bad feelings
will be harbored, and it could possibly
ruin what great sex life you two have
together already. Take it slow and
easy....If he isn't alright with it, then
he should find a way to get alright with
it, eh? :d
when you are ready, i, for one, cannot cum
simply by being tasted. Rather, I need a
mass of stimulation. I loooooove my
stomach to be kissed and for my nipples to
be rubbed. Or alternate those two in
between tasting me....That really turns me
on and takes me over the edge quick
anyway, sorry for the long answer.
Hopefully I have helped you a bit. I'm
sure some other people have some other
suggestions for you, perhaps some better!
Good luck, and have fun =)
blake
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jago25_98
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Joined: 08 Apr 2004 Posts: 18 Location: uk
Posted: 04-08-04 22:32pm
Try it beforehand, from condom to spoon to
mouse perhaps.
Tastes alright but you might not like the
gluey texture.
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2ferano
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Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 04-13-04 11:05am
That is disgusting
have you tasted it jago?
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BbyBlu0602
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Joined: 10 Feb 2004 Posts: 822 Location: Virginia
Posted: 05-18-04 13:21pm
Omg that's f*ckin nasty dude!
Blu
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shawn0000
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Joined: 18 May 2004 Posts: 27 Location: Minnesota
Posted: 05-24-04 08:09am
My high school girl friend tasted mine
after she gave me a hand job in shcool.
She even played with my cum. ''
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BbyBlu0602
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Joined: 10 Feb 2004 Posts: 822 Location: Virginia
Posted: 05-24-04 09:32am
Lol...Freaky deaky.
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2ferano
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Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 05-25-04 16:01pm
Ooh, gross, psycho.
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shawn0000
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Joined: 18 May 2004 Posts: 27 Location: Minnesota
Posted: 05-26-04 13:49pm
"ooh, gross, psycho." you mean me or my
girlfriend
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2ferano
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Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 05-26-04 14:02pm
Both in my opinion, but that is just me.
To each his/her own. Some people are
into that. I personally only have
respect for men who would never ever cum
in my mouth. My men respect me to much
for that. But once again, that is just
me. Some women and men like that. Not
me, and not people I date.
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shawn0000
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Joined: 18 May 2004 Posts: 27 Location: Minnesota
Posted: 05-27-04 07:57am
Put it this way I did not let her give me
hand jobs in school any more after that.
I would not cum in a girls mouth either.
I dont think it is right to do. Even if
the girl wants it.
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2ferano
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Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 05-27-04 09:25am
Hand jobs in school? You lucky boy.
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CrazyBanana
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Joined: 17 Apr 2004 Posts: 48 Location: So Cal
Posted: 05-27-04 12:34pm
Ultimately it's up to both parties. A
lot of people think it's gross, or don't
wish to do so, and a lot of people like
it. I wouldn't write it off as being
sick or wrong--unless one partner tries to
force another to do something he/she
doesn't want to happen.
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2ferano
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Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 05-27-04 15:31pm
That is why I said "it is my opinion that
it is disgusting and disrespectful" just
my opinion. To each his/her own.
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2ferano
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Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 05-31-04 19:04pm
Wonderful advice void!
Very, very true.
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shawn0000
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Joined: 18 May 2004 Posts: 27 Location: Minnesota
Posted: 06-01-04 00:07am
She even wanted to give me hand jobs every
day. But the fact that a teacher saw it
made realy bad so I did not let her do it
again.
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Void
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Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 18
Posted: 06-01-04 01:11am
Hey, well basically you shouldn;t do it
just to please him you should do it if u
feel comfortable and it feels right to do,
and trust me it wil hapen naturally when
it is right for u.
Yes men love to cum in a girls mouth, but
u should build on the romantic loving side
of your sexual relationship before u do
saucy things :p
i personally do give my boyfreind a
blowjob and let him cum in my mouth, but
the 1st time I ever did it to a boyfreind
it tasted gross and was weird, but a tip
would be to try and take it as far in your
mouth as poss (sorry to be gross) but the
futher back it is the less u will taste it
if u want him to cum.
And also I dont know how long u have been
with ur guy or how well u know his sexual
history but remember that std's can be
transfered via oral sex, so pehaps a
solution would be to use flavoured
condoms? That way he could cum but u wont
have to swallow.
and my advice (i speak from experience) is
you wil only get more sexually confident
with the right partner, and no1 ever knows
what to do I have had sexual disasters but
with the right person u can laugh it off
learn from it and hey practice makes
perfect.
And finally I bloody hope he knows how to
please u babe!
Hope I helped
xxxxxxxxx
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murphdog
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Joined: 16 Jan 2004 Posts: 8 Location: usa
Love Posted: 07-10-04 21:54pm
Love
i'm a guy that loves life take it the
way it is handed
be togher when you decide to show your
love to each other
and the flow of life will be felt
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PattyV
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Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
What to Do With The...... Posted: 07-11-04 10:44am
Well,i am married and in a monogomous
relationship...So....I do what most women
will not......Gulp.It is too much to deal
with,finding a tissue,washing a stiff
towel.Oh,what the heck,it's not so bad,as
long as hubby has't eaten a lot of greasy
food or junk food.It can make a
difference,you know.This is what works for
me and I know most ladies frown upon this
little thing(2-3 cc's).Do what ever you
feel is right for you,but always do so in
a safe manner.
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CrazyBanana
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Joined: 17 Apr 2004 Posts: 48 Location: So Cal
Posted: 07-13-04 02:17am
I was under the impression that a lot of
girls swallow. Most don't?? I know
that some girls really can't stand the
taste/texture (even though guys only
ejaculate about 1--1/2 tsp each time).
I'm curious--what is the difference
between a girl ingesting a guy's
erm...Fluids when she goes down on him,
and a guy ingesting a girl's when he goes
down on her, and how is the act of a girl
swallowing more disrespectful towards
her??