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Vivica

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Please Im New.. And Im Afraid.
Posted: 01-16-07 22:27pm

Im 16 yrs old. Turning 17 in a couple months.. Im a junior in highschool... Ive been on birth control for a while now.. And I missed one day. I took both pills the next day when I noticed it.. Stupidly I had sex the day after- unprotected. Ive been with my boyfriend since ninth grade and we are having an anniversary on this saturday.... Anywayz. Im on the green section of my pills. Which is when im supposed to have my period.. Im already more than half way done with that section and I have yet to get my period...... Im so afraid that im pregnant....

My first question is if I am pregnant... Can my mom make me get an abortion.. I really dont want to.. No matter what anyone says... Even though im not sure if I am, I am completely attached to this baby.. I cry just thinking about me getting one... My mom is so stricked.. She would hate me for this... She always tells me she would make me get an abortion...... I cant.. I just cant... I would rather kill myself than to kill this baby..... (if I am pregnant that is..)

please help me..
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Mabel

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Posted: 01-16-07 22:42pm

I doubt you are pregnant. Please use a condom as back up protection. A baby is not a good idea. If you would contemplate suicide or pregnancy - you are not stable enough to have a child.
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AyaMiyaki

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Posted: 01-17-07 11:07am

No one can force you to have an abortion. She can threaten to kick you out if you don't have one, but she can't force you to get one.

If you're pregnant and commit suicide, you will be killing your child as well as yourself. It's not worth it.

Be more careful in the future, and use condoms. Every time you consider not using one, think about the anxiety you're feeling right now.
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