Please Im New.. And Im Afraid. Posted: 01-16-07 22:27pm
Im 16 yrs old. Turning 17 in a couple
months.. Im a junior in highschool...
Ive been on birth control for a while
now.. And I missed one day. I took both
pills the next day when I noticed it..
Stupidly I had sex the day after-
unprotected. Ive been with my boyfriend
since ninth grade and we are having an
anniversary on this saturday.... Anywayz.
Im on the green section of my pills.
Which is when im supposed to have my
period.. Im already more than half way
done with that section and I have yet to
get my period...... Im so afraid that im
pregnant....
My first question is if I am pregnant...
Can my mom make me get an abortion.. I
really dont want to.. No matter what
anyone says... Even though im not sure if
I am, I am completely attached to this
baby.. I cry just thinking about me
getting one... My mom is so stricked..
She would hate me for this... She always
tells me she would make me get an
abortion...... I cant.. I just cant...
I would rather kill myself than to kill
this baby..... (if I am pregnant that
is..)
please help me..
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Mabel
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Posted: 01-16-07 22:42pm
I doubt you are pregnant. Please use a
condom as back up protection. A baby is
not a good idea. If you would contemplate
suicide or pregnancy - you are not stable
enough to have a child.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 01-17-07 11:07am
No one can force you to have an abortion.
She can threaten to kick you out if you
don't have one, but she can't force you to
get one.
If you're pregnant and commit suicide, you
will be killing your child as
well as yourself. It's not worth it.
Be more careful in the future, and use
condoms. Every time you consider not
using one, think about the anxiety you're
feeling right now.