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laura_friesen

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Posted: 01-17-07 16:01pm

Well sex is soo much better after having a baby I dont know why, for my hubby it is too he says its waaay tighter Shocked go figure becuz he was the first guy I ever had sex with so you would think it couldn't get any tighter than that lol but anyways, now when he goes in my all the way like as deep as he can he hits this thing inside me and I feel it too but it feels really good Wink and for him to but what the heck is it? He said it touches the end of his knob and I feel it but like, its only been there since after I had landon...Soooo weird..Anyone else have this after they had a baby?? Confused
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Posted: 01-17-07 16:07pm

I don't know about the thing you're both feeling.. But I know what you mean about sex being better. And I thought it was good before! Hehe

god knows how it's so good though.. I had a third degree tear only 8 weeks ago. I guess I should consider myself lucky.
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Posted: 01-17-07 17:47pm

I have that same thing you're talking about laura. I don't know what it is though Confused Maybe it's our g-spot! Lol
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Posted: 01-17-07 17:52pm

Bingoooo!!



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Posted: 01-17-07 19:14pm

Ohhhhhhhhhhhh!!!! But why couldn't I feel it b4 I had landon?
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Posted: 01-17-07 19:34pm

It probably moved abit... Im jelous thou! Shawn and I have tried having sex 2 times since reese so far it hurts.. Damn scaring.. Zanny, your lucky I had a 2 degree tear 2 months and a week ago and it hurts me, why can u have sex and not me Confused Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Crying
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Posted: 01-17-07 19:38pm

Sarah, it's probably because you haven't done it in so long. I would suggest using tons of lube and trying to keep going even though it hurts. It might get better once he gets going, if it still hurts after a couple minutes then stop.
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Posted: 01-17-07 19:42pm

iheartmybostonterrier wrote:
sarah, it's probably because you haven't done it in so long. I would suggest using tons of lube and trying to keep going even though it hurts. It might get better once he gets going, if it still hurts after a couple minutes then stop.



yeah thats what we did yesterday, except we didnt use lube we just had a condom on and then shawn was extra horny after words cause the tingle lube on it was bugging him, he said the lube made his head cold and it was arrousing Embarassed


edited because I cant spell except
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laura_friesen

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Posted: 01-17-07 21:36pm

oh_mommy wrote:
it probably moved abit... Im jelous thou! Shawn and I have tried having sex 2 times since reese so far it hurts.. Damn scaring.. Zanny, your lucky I had a 2 degree tear 2 months and a week ago and it hurts me, why can u have sex and not me Confused Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Crying
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sex kills for me in the missonary position..Like kills, cant even let him put it in all the way it burns, so I tried going on top and its totally fine...Weird eh?
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Posted: 01-18-07 00:01am

Laura,
i was the same way after my child. The doctor gave me an episotomy and then sewed me up. I think he went a little tight. My hubby was my first as well. I have the other same issues you do, too. It does get better with time.
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laura_friesen

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Posted: 01-18-07 01:06am

ladylee70 wrote:
laura,
i was the same way after my child. The doctor gave me an episotomy and then sewed me up. I think he went a little tight. My hubby was my first as well. I have the other same issues you do, too. It does get better with time.


oh awesome! Someone to relate to :d hehe, ya I got two stiches so thats probably why, and yay for the g spot! Lol thank you doctor man Smile
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Posted: 01-18-07 01:56am

ladylee70 wrote:
laura,
i was the same way after my child. The doctor gave me an episotomy and then sewed me up. I think he went a little tight. My hubby was my first as well. I have the other same issues you do, too. It does get better with time.


shawn was also my first, he said im about just as tight as I was when we first did it... Mayb a lil tighter..

Laura, misionary poistion hurts more too I unno y, I think its from the angle of his hoo haa hittin the back of the cooch where the scarring is... Being ontop I can go all the was down his hoo haa but it hurts!
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Re: Sex After Pregnancy...
Posted: 01-18-07 09:36am

laura_friesen wrote:
well sex is soo much better after having a baby I dont know why, for my hubby it is too he says its waaay tighter Shocked go figure becuz he was the first guy I ever had sex with so you would think it couldn't get any tighter than that lol but anyways, now when he goes in my all the way like as deep as he can he hits this thing inside me and I feel it too but it feels really good Wink and for him to but what the heck is it? He said it touches the end of his knob and I feel it but like, its only been there since after I had landon...Soooo weird..Anyone else have this after they had a baby?? Confused


its ur cervix hun there is nothing else in there but that.
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Posted: 01-18-07 09:41am

emma2 wrote:
its ur cervix hun there is nothing else in there but that.

correct.
Your cervix is bigger after a vaginal birth - a reason why ladies who use caps/diaphragms have to get fitted with new ones.
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Posted: 01-18-07 10:01am

My lumpy part is where sarah did the diagram of the g-spot. It seems to be more prominant now.

My boyfriend can find my g-spot easily and he stimulates that same area so maybe it is that Confused
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Posted: 01-18-07 11:34am

laura_friesen wrote:
sex kills for me in the missonary position..Like kills, cant even let him put it in all the way it burns, so I tried going on top and its totally fine...Weird eh?


i'm the total opposite, sex is amazing in the missionary position and less comfortable when i'm on top. Hehe I guess everyone's different!

iheartmybostonterrier wrote:
sarah, it's probably because you haven't done it in so long.


yep I agree.. My case is a bit extreme coz I had sex a week after the birth, but it did make it easier.
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Re: Sex After Pregnancy...
Posted: 01-18-07 11:41am

kia_breizzze wrote:
emma2 wrote:
its ur cervix hun there is nothing else in there but that.

correct.

Your cervix is bigger after a vaginal birth - a reason why ladies who use caps/diaphragms have to get fitted with new ones.


i thought this too...But I wasnt' sure.
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Posted: 01-18-07 14:42pm

zanyzanny wrote:

iheartmybostonterrier wrote:
sarah, it's probably because you haven't done it in so long.


yep I agree.. My case is a bit extreme coz I had sex a week after the birth, but it did make it easier.


you had 3rd degree tearing and had sex a week later? Eek!
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Posted: 01-18-07 14:44pm

iheartmybostonterrier wrote:
zanyzanny wrote:

iheartmybostonterrier wrote:
sarah, it's probably because you haven't done it in so long.


yep I agree.. My case is a bit extreme coz I had sex a week after the birth, but it did make it easier.


you had 3rd degree tearing and had sex a week later? Eek!


i know, I know.. But I hardly get to see .Jonny and before the birth I hadn't seen him since august.. So I was feeling a little hornaaay! Hehe
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