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bryant

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I Don’t Want to Lose the Love of My Life..plz Help..
Posted: 01-18-07 00:58am

I have known this girl for about a year now, and about two weeks ago I asked her to the prom and we started dating, but it only lasted a week. During that week though she gave me a note that said, quote "john, you make me smile when I don't want to. I am glad i'm yours and you're mine".
I only saw her like twice on monday and tuesday of that week, and called her twice. I had a feeling by the way she sounded on the phone that something was wrong. When I saw her on tuesday the following week, I could tell that something was definitely wrong I could tell she wasn't happy and she didn't see why she should give me her cell number when I asked for it. So that thursday I was doing some raking with her and a friend for a neighbor, and I asked her what was wrong. I asked her "would you still be dating me if I didn't ask you to the prom?" she said she didn't know...Then I said "well it seems like you have lost interest in this relationship." she said, she thinks she did too. She told me that she had a lot of her own things going on in her life and that a boyfriend right now was probably not the right thing. And that we really didn’t know each other as well as we should of. So I respected that and we are now separated.
The night after that happened I called her to see how she was doing and she said ok...I had asked her if she saw anything that I needed to work on before she gave me another chance. She said I smothered her and that I could act immature at times. I asked how I smothered her she and she said...That I tried to hard to make her smile when she didn't want to. I really don't see this as a bad thing. I asked her if that’s part off the reason why she wanted to separate for now and she said yea. She only mentioned to me once that I was smothering her and I told her I would stop and I did...When I called her the other night I asked her if she was really planning to give me another chance...And I told her to tell me the truth and not say what I wanted to hear,.....She said yes...But I can' stop thinking about her. It’s hard for me to sleep and I can't bear to think about losing her. She said once wee get to know each other better we will try again.
The problem is, that I don't want to call her too often and lose that chance because she's annoyed, but if I don't i'm afraid that I will lose her to someone else. What do I do ! I love this girl with all my heart...And I can tell her that I really care for her and like her...But how many times do u think the average female hears that...The only problem is i'm telling the truth.....Hhhheeeelllpppp!!
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santiago

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I Don’t Want to Lose the Love of My Life..plz Help..
Posted: 01-18-07 07:36am

But the only problem is that I think she doesn’t like me...Or ever did...Like I said we have been friends for about a year....But I mean we never like hung out a lot. When we started dating...The 1st 2 nights I was with her we had sex almost 12 times....Sometimes I wonder if that’s all she was interested in....What do you think? Share your feeling with friends.

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RedDelight

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Re: I Don’t Want to Lose the Love of My Life..plz Help..
Posted: 01-19-07 10:51am

You are cramping her!

You call all the time.. Back off with that! It would tick me off- I had that probelm. What is going to change, in less than 12 hours from the last time you spoke to her? You seem too eager.. And sometimes, to women- that's a turn off. Almost desperate.

I know it's hard to stop thinking about her.. But you have to be able to function. What if it doesn't work out? Are you going to stop living your life? You can't ..Get into a hobby..Show her that she isn't everything you revolve around..

Good luck...

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RedDelight

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Re: I Don’t Want to Lose the Love of My Life..plz Help..
Posted: 01-19-07 10:52am

santiago wrote:
but the only problem is that I think she doesn’t like me...Or ever did...Like I said we have been friends for about a year....But I mean we never like hung out a lot. When we started dating...The 1st 2 nights I was with her we had sex almost 12 times....Sometimes I wonder if that’s all she was interested in....What do you think? Share your feeling with friends.


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is this the same person??!

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Melissa_20

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Re: I Don’t Want to Lose the Love of My Life..plz Help..
Posted: 01-19-07 15:23pm

santiago wrote:
but the only problem is that I think she doesn’t like me...Or ever did...Like I said we have been friends for about a year....But I mean we never like hung out a lot. When we started dating...The 1st 2 nights I was with her we had sex almost 12 times....Sometimes I wonder if that’s all she was interested in....What do you think? Share your feeling with friends.


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she could have lost interest.Having sex so soon doesn't exactly hold the chemistry.You can't lose something you don't have. If you tink she wasn't interseted in you in the first place and she's acting lik ethat now,forget about her.Girls are a dime a dozen just like guys. . .
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