I Don’t Want to Lose the Love of My Life..plz Help.. Posted: 01-18-07 00:58am
I have known this girl for about a year
now, and about two weeks ago I asked her
to the prom and we started dating, but it
only lasted a week. During that week
though she gave me a note that said, quote
"john, you make me smile when I don't want
to. I am glad i'm yours and you're mine".
I only saw her like twice on monday and
tuesday of that week, and called her
twice. I had a feeling by the way she
sounded on the phone that something was
wrong. When I saw her on tuesday the
following week, I could tell that
something was definitely wrong I could
tell she wasn't happy and she didn't see
why she should give me her cell number
when I asked for it. So that thursday I
was doing some raking with her and a
friend for a neighbor, and I asked her
what was wrong. I asked her "would you
still be dating me if I didn't ask you to
the prom?" she said she didn't know...Then
I said "well it seems like you have lost
interest in this relationship." she said,
she thinks she did too. She told me that
she had a lot of her own things going on
in her life and that a boyfriend right now
was probably not the right thing. And
that we really didn’t know each other as
well as we should of. So I respected that
and we are now separated.
The night after that happened I called her
to see how she was doing and she said
ok...I had asked her if she saw anything
that I needed to work on before she gave
me another chance. She said I smothered
her and that I could act immature at
times. I asked how I smothered her she
and she said...That I tried to hard to
make her smile when she didn't want to. I
really don't see this as a bad thing. I
asked her if that’s part off the reason
why she wanted to separate for now and she
said yea. She only mentioned to me once
that I was smothering her and I told her I
would stop and I did...When I called her
the other night I asked her if she was
really planning to give me another
chance...And I told her to tell me the
truth and not say what I wanted to
hear,.....She said yes...But I can' stop
thinking about her. It’s hard for me to
sleep and I can't bear to think about
losing her. She said once wee get to know
each other better we will try again.
The problem is, that I don't want to call
her too often and lose that chance because
she's annoyed, but if I don't i'm afraid
that I will lose her to someone else.
What do I do ! I love this girl with
all my heart...And I can tell her that I
really care for her and like her...But how
many times do u think the average female
hears that...The only problem is i'm
telling the truth.....Hhhheeeelllpppp!!
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santiago
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Dec 2006 Posts: 8
I Don’t Want to Lose the Love of My Life..plz Help.. Posted: 01-18-07 07:36am
But the only problem is that I think she
doesn’t like me...Or ever did...Like I
said we have been friends for about a
year....But I mean we never like hung out
a lot. When we started dating...The 1st
2 nights I was with her we had sex almost
12 times....Sometimes I wonder if that’s
all she was interested in....What do you
think? Share your feeling with
friends.
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RedDelight
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Oct 2006 Posts: 131 Location: I'm a Yettie!
Re: I Don’t Want to Lose the Love of My Life..plz Help.. Posted: 01-19-07 10:51am
You are cramping her!
You call all the time.. Back off with
that! It would tick me off- I had that
probelm. What is going to change, in
less than 12 hours from the last time you
spoke to her? You seem too eager.. And
sometimes, to women- that's a turn off.
Almost desperate.
I know it's hard to stop thinking about
her.. But you have to be able to
function. What if it doesn't work out?
Are you going to stop living your life?
You can't ..Get into a hobby..Show her
that she isn't everything you revolve
around..
Good luck...
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RedDelight
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Oct 2006 Posts: 131 Location: I'm a Yettie!
Re: I Don’t Want to Lose the Love of My Life..plz Help.. Posted: 01-19-07 10:52am
santiago
wrote:
but the only problem is that
I think she doesn’t like me...Or ever
did...Like I said we have been friends for
about a year....But I mean we never like
hung out a lot. When we started
dating...The 1st 2 nights I was with her
we had sex almost 12 times....Sometimes I
wonder if that’s all she was interested
in....What do you think? Share your
feeling with friends.
Edit
is this the same person??!
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Melissa_20
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Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Re: I Don’t Want to Lose the Love of My Life..plz Help.. Posted: 01-19-07 15:23pm
santiago
wrote:
but the only problem is that
I think she doesn’t like me...Or ever
did...Like I said we have been friends for
about a year....But I mean we never like
hung out a lot. When we started
dating...The 1st 2 nights I was with her
we had sex almost 12 times....Sometimes I
wonder if that’s all she was interested
in....What do you think? Share your
feeling with friends.
Edit
she could have lost
interest.Having sex so soon doesn't
exactly hold the chemistry.You can't lose
something you don't have. If you tink she
wasn't interseted in you in the first
place and she's acting lik ethat
now,forget about her.Girls are a dime a
dozen just like guys. . .
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