My depression is not near as bad as some
of the other members on here but I just
cannot stop feeling depressed. I am a 30
year old married man with 2 boys that I
love dearly. Recently my wife told me she
does not have the same feeling toward me
and left me with my 2 boys. Personally I
would not want it any other way because
there is no way she is taking them from
me. However, I have been married for 9
years and I still love my wife. I just am
not sure how to function without her. It
also hurts because it was so easy for her
to walk away. We have had our problems
but I thought we loved each other. I am a
good husband and father so right now I
feel lost and alone. I know time heals
all, but I just would like to talk to
anyone with advice on this.
Thanks
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tannerz_rja
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2007 Posts: 13
Even Though Im a Minor I Have Some Sence... Posted: 01-20-07 03:17am
Im a 15 year old freshman in high school.I
might not know what its like to be married
and kids and suff,but uhhh, it sounds to
me like there needs to be change. Big
change.Try to talk things over with her,
and if you have already, oops! I mean
yeah about your 2 kids, in some way this
must take a toll on them depending on
there age...Because when my parents got
seperated when I was like 5 I thought it
was my fault.And I always told people my
family was brokedid =(....I dont know if I
helped or not but I tryed.C ya round!
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littlesqueaks
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 May 2006 Posts: 296 Location: Caldwell, Idaho
Posted: 01-20-07 03:27am
I am a single mom with two boys as well.
The first part of a seperation, no matter
mutal, anger, or what ever the case may
have been is always difficult. I had
kicked my ex out after 7 years of marriage
because the last two years of our marriage
he had chose the bottle over marrige and
being a father. I gave him plenty of
chances to straighten up but he chose not
to. For 2 months before the divorce
became final I had begged for him to make
this a time for change so that we could
work it out and he said he could not do
that that he wanted the divorce. I was
devestated but yet I finally was able to
get past the fact that I was in love with
him and realized not only for me but for
my boys we are better off. It has been 4
years since my divorce we are still
friends for the kids sake. He still
drinks alot but that is his choice. I
have a new man in my life and the pain is
behind me you just need to give yourself
some time and things will get easier.
