November_Mommy05
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Oct 2005 Posts: 67 Location: Hartford City, Indiana
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What Do You Think About...
Posted: 01-18-07 16:22pm
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A girl who is only 18 and already has a 1
year old daughter, and wants another baby?
I seriously am considering getting
pregnant within the next year, but I don't
want the toll it may take on my body -
after finally getting rid of all, yes all
my stretch marks, and getting my stomach
firmed back up. Most importantly, I love
my daughter, she is my life... But i'm
putting both the negative and postive
effects into consideration. I know I
want 1 or 2 more children, and I def.
Don't want my daughter's sibling(s) to be
so far apart in age that they don't have a
real close bond as they grow older. And
with a new baby, she won't have all my
attn. Anymore.. I think I need to just
wait a few years, she is so cute and
funny. I was barely able to type this..
B/c she kept pushing the keyboard in..
Lol. Kids... The greatest joy in life,
atleast mine :d
love, love-*
october 05' mommy
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oh_mommy
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Posted: 01-18-07 18:27pm
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I would say wait abit, you havnt hit the
terrible twos yet... Can u handle a
toddler and a baby at the same time? U
wont have much sleep because the toddler
wont let u nap during the day, so unless
uplan on putting her in daycare I would
say wait, plus do u want to be done having
kids at 19? 20?
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amethyst eyes
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Joined: 04 Nov 2006 Posts: 1339
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Posted: 01-18-07 19:49pm
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.You should definetly wait it out. .Me
an my brother are about 6 years apart and
we are extremely close and my boyfriend
and his brother are only 2 years apart and
never speak to each other. .Age is not
the main factor in determining closeness,
it is all in how you raise them and having
two young children can be very tough.
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young_mama2be
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Joined: 17 Jan 2007 Posts: 15 Location: Ohio
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Posted: 01-18-07 20:58pm
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I would wait abit if I were you hun.
Enjoy your daughter all you can without
gettin pregnant again. Plus, and toddler
and newborn at the same time, I would be
pulling my hair out.
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Emma2
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Posted: 01-18-07 21:50pm
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Whats the rush? Arent you the one who
has intimacy issues currently? Youre so
so young and you have so much time to have
another...I think you should work on being
the best you can be ..Hell, I just had my
1st baby and i'm 30yrs old!
By the way do you have a secret formula on
getting rid of stretch marks cause they
never go away permanentely they just turn
silvery white...Whats the secret?
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MikeG907
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Posted: 01-18-07 23:32pm
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I would proly say wait a lil bit because
if you have 1 child already thats alot of
responsibility...And you need to give it
your full attention...But if you get
another one after one year then you'll go
through the 9 months with it in ur stomach
and it will be more stressful becuase the
one you have now needs attention...I would
say wait a lil bit so it wont be as
stressful....But what ever you decide I
wish you the best..Take care
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November_Mommy05
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Oct 2005 Posts: 67 Location: Hartford City, Indiana
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Posted: 01-19-07 11:43am
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| emma2
wrote: | whats the rush? Arent
you the one who has intimacy issues
currently? Youre so so young and you
have so much time to have another...I
think you should work on being the best
you can be ..Hell, I just had my 1st baby
and i'm 30yrs old!
By the way do you have a secret formula on
getting rid of stretch marks cause they
never go away permanentely they just turn
silvery white...Whats the
secret? |
it's
lotion that cost about $150 to $200, my
fiance bought it for me. I think it's
called stri-vectin. Don't quote me on
that though, i'm in class right now..
I'll be sure of myself when I get home.
& yes, it works.. Mine are completely
gone, now! I was very determined to find
something, and my baby helped me. I feel
so much better about myself, now.
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Melissa_20
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Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
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Posted: 01-19-07 11:46am
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| november_mommy05
wrote: | | emma2
wrote: | whats the rush? Arent
you the one who has intimacy issues
currently? Youre so so young and you
have so much time to have another...I
think you should work on being the best
you can be ..Hell, I just had my 1st baby
and i'm 30yrs old!
By the way do you have a secret formula on
getting rid of stretch marks cause they
never go away permanentely they just turn
silvery white...Whats the
secret? |
it's
lotion that cost about $150 to $200, my
fiance bought it for me. I think it's
called stri-vectin. Don't quote me on
that though, i'm in class right now..
I'll be sure of myself when I get home.
& yes, it works.. Mine are
completely gone, now! I was very
determined to find something, and my baby
helped me. I feel so much better about
myself, now. |
uh,you must have *some*
marks on you. . They don't just go
away.Its stretches in your skin. . .
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November_Mommy05
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Oct 2005 Posts: 67 Location: Hartford City, Indiana
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Posted: 01-19-07 11:49am
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I'm pretty sure, i've already made up my
mind... I'm going to wait. I believe my
daughter deserves all my attn. & i'm
going to begin college in the fall to
hopefully someday become a crime scene
investigator. That in itself is going to
take a lot a attn. Away from her, and
another baby? Wow, I wouldn't even be
able to go to school. Anyways, thanks a
lot... I can't do that yet, not to my
daughter... Or myself.
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November_Mommy05
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Oct 2005 Posts: 67 Location: Hartford City, Indiana
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Posted: 01-19-07 11:55am
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| melissa_20
wrote: | | november_mommy05
wrote: | | emma2
wrote: | whats the rush? Arent
you the one who has intimacy issues
currently? Youre so so young and you
have so much time to have another...I
think you should work on being the best
you can be ..Hell, I just had my 1st baby
and i'm 30yrs old!
By the way do you have a secret formula on
getting rid of stretch marks cause they
never go away permanentely they just turn
silvery white...Whats the
secret? |
it's
lotion that cost about $150 to $200, my
fiance bought it for me. I think it's
called stri-vectin. Don't quote me on
that though, i'm in class right now..
I'll be sure of myself when I get home.
& yes, it works.. Mine are
completely gone, now! I was very
determined to find something, and my baby
helped me. I feel so much better about
myself, now. |
uh,you must have *some*
marks on you. . They don't just go
away.Its stretches in your skin. .
. |
i don't know how the stuf works, I just
know that it says on the bottle that 97%
of all people have success rates, and it
can get rid of or greatly reduce your
stretch marks no matter what; color,
depth, ect. My stretch marks weren't too
bad to begin with, but now their gone!
**swear**
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Sandbox Party
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jul 2006 Posts: 7276
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Posted: 01-19-07 12:03pm
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Omg girl you need to wait! Trust me! I
have an 18 month old and a 2 month old..
Both in diapers... Both still
screaming.
Its insane, and I wanna punch myself in
the face everyday. I love my kids more
than anything dont get me wrong, but its a
lot of work.
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
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Posted: 01-19-07 12:06pm
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| november_mommy05
wrote: | | melissa_20
wrote: | | november_mommy05
wrote: | | emma2
wrote: | whats the rush? Arent
you the one who has intimacy issues
currently? Youre so so young and
you have so much time to have another...I
think you should work on being the best
you can be ..Hell, I just had my 1st baby
and i'm 30yrs old!
By the way do you have a secret formula on
getting rid of stretch marks cause they
never go away permanentely they just turn
silvery white...Whats the
secret? |
it's
lotion that cost about $150 to $200, my
fiance bought it for me. I think it's
called stri-vectin. Don't quote me on
that though, i'm in class right now..
I'll be sure of myself when I get home.
& yes, it works.. Mine are
completely gone, now! I was very
determined to find something, and my baby
helped me. I feel so much better
about myself,
now. |
uh,you must have *some*
marks on you. . They don't just go
away.Its stretches in your skin. .
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i don't know how the stuf works, I just
know that it says on the bottle that 97%
of all people have success rates, and it
can get rid of or greatly reduce your
stretch marks no matter what; color,
depth, ect. My stretch marks weren't
too bad to begin with, but now their gone!
**swear** |
well sh*t man,tell me
what it is so when I have kids I can buy
it!
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Emma2
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Joined: 09 May 2006 Posts: 4406 Location: Montreal, Canada
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Posted: 01-19-07 12:14pm
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| melissa_20
wrote: | | november_mommy05
wrote: | | melissa_20
wrote: | | november_mommy05
wrote: | | emma2
wrote: | whats the rush?
Arent you the one who has intimacy issues
currently? Youre so so young and
you have so much time to have another...I
think you should work on being the best
you can be ..Hell, I just had my 1st baby
and i'm 30yrs old!
By the way do you have a secret formula on
getting rid of stretch marks cause they
never go away permanentely they just turn
silvery white...Whats the
secret? |
it's
lotion that cost about $150 to $200, my
fiance bought it for me. I think it's
called stri-vectin. Don't quote me on
that though, i'm in class right now..
I'll be sure of myself when I get home.
& yes, it works.. Mine are
completely gone, now! I was very
determined to find something, and my baby
helped me. I feel so much better
about myself,
now. |
uh,you must have *some*
marks on you. . They don't just go
away.Its stretches in your skin. .
. |
i don't know how the stuf works, I just
know that it says on the bottle that 97%
of all people have success rates, and it
can get rid of or greatly reduce your
stretch marks no matter what; color,
depth, ect. My stretch marks weren't
too bad to begin with, but now their gone!
**swear** |
well sh*t man,tell me
what it is so when I have kids I can buy
it! |
i didnt get none...Not one stretch mark
..I was just curious
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
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Posted: 01-19-07 12:17pm
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| emma2
wrote: | | melissa_20
wrote: | | november_mommy05
wrote: | | melissa_20
wrote: | | november_mommy05
wrote: | | emma2
wrote: | whats the rush?
Arent you the one who has intimacy issues
currently? Youre so so young and
you have so much time to have another...I
think you should work on being the best
you can be ..Hell, I just had my 1st baby
and i'm 30yrs old!
By the way do you have a secret formula on
getting rid of stretch marks cause they
never go away permanentely they just turn
silvery white...Whats the
secret? |
it's
lotion that cost about $150 to $200, my
fiance bought it for me. I think
it's called stri-vectin. Don't quote
me on that though, i'm in class right
now.. I'll be sure of myself when I
get home. & yes, it works..
Mine are completely gone, now! I
was very determined to find something, and
my baby helped me. I feel so much
better about myself,
now. |
uh,you must have *some*
marks on you. . They don't just
go away.Its stretches in your skin. .
. |
i don't know how the stuf works, I just
know that it says on the bottle that 97%
of all people have success rates, and it
can get rid of or greatly reduce your
stretch marks no matter what; color,
depth, ect. My stretch marks weren't
too bad to begin with, but now their gone!
**swear** |
well sh*t man,tell me
what it is so when I have kids I can buy
it! |
i didnt get none...Not one stretch mark
..I was just
curious |
*gasp* are you serious! Woman,i think
when I get pregnant i'm gonna hate you!
Lol I *know* i'm gonna get them casue both
my sisters got them *bad*
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November_Mommy05
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Joined: 13 Oct 2005 Posts: 67 Location: Hartford City, Indiana
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Posted: 01-24-07 11:41am
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Yea, umm... ok! 
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Jules
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Posted: 01-24-07 12:23pm
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| november_mommy05
wrote: | yea, umm... ok!
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did I miss something? 
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debb222
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Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 3 Location: Liverpool
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Posted: 01-25-07 18:10pm
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I don't know how the stuf works, I just
know that it says on the bottle that 97%
of all people have success rates, and it
can get rid of or greatly reduce your
stretch marks no matter what; color,
depth, ect. My stretch marks weren't
too bad to begin with, but now their gone!
**swear**[/quote]
good on you girl (and good on the sharks
who persuaded you to part with $200).
Fact is, there is no treatment for stretch
marks. Stretch marks are a break in the
collagen connective tissue in the skin,
applying anything cannot re-connect it.
If you have true stretch marks the best
you can do is mask them. That is a fact.
If I manage to find this brilliant factual
site I discovered recently I will post the
link here.
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Nataliachick7
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Joined: 02 Apr 2006 Posts: 1535 Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 01-25-07 18:34pm
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| debb222
wrote: | | i don't know how the stuf
works, I just know that it says on the
bottle that 97% of all people have success
rates, and it can get rid of or greatly
reduce your stretch marks no matter what;
color, depth, ect. My stretch marks
weren't too bad to begin with, but now
their gone!
**swear** |
good on you girl (and good on the sharks
who persuaded you to part with $200).
Fact is, there is no treatment for stretch
marks. Stretch marks are a break in the
collagen connective tissue in the skin,
applying anything cannot re-connect it.
If you have true stretch marks the best
you can do is mask them. That is a fact.
If I manage to find this brilliant
factual site I discovered recently I will
post the link here.[/quote]
actually my aunt had bad stretch marks and
I got her some stri vectin from my work (i
used to work at the lancome makeup counter
at marshall fields) and they are all gone.
The stuff is that expensive for a reason.
It works.
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Kia
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Posted: 01-25-07 18:45pm
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Oh dear.
You can not get rid of stretch marks.
They can be significantly faded and shrunk
but you can not get rid of them.
They are a break down in your skins
elastic tissues - it is permanent and can
not be fixed.
Just like split ends - they can not be
fixed.
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Idony
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Posted: 01-25-07 18:47pm
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| kia_breizzze
wrote: | oh dear.
You can not get rid of stretch marks.
They can be significantly faded and shrunk
but you can not get rid of them.
They are a break down in your skins
elastic tissues - it is permanent and can
not be fixed.
Just like split ends - they can not be
fixed. |
nah uh, split ends can be fixed....Just
shave your head lol
(fyi that was sarcasm, just incase anyone
takes that wrong)
~alicia~
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