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hottchickaa143
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Location: CT
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Heres the Deal, Mamadrama,drama In General,jail Help
Posted: 02-05-04 18:47pm
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Ok heres the story y im so stressed , I
meet this guy a week before my 18
birthday, and we have been goin out since,
so come to find out he's 11 yrs older than
me, he has 1 daughter but is not in her
life becuz the babymama doesn't want him
to see her cuz he just recently got out of
jail. (2 months before he meet me) he a
really good guy , he respects me and
everything. We have had sex, we have used
a condoms when he medical answer me the
"proper" way (figures) but when we have
intercoarse threw the "back" (ass) he
doesn't use protection, so he cums and now
for some reason I think im pregnant. Ive
been feelin dizzy, I want to throw up, and
one moment I think he so good to me and
then the next moment im cryin becuz of
somethin he said or did that I didn't
like. Or I feel hes cheatin, and im not
the first one ever to cry over a guy. Im
really confused and stressed o yah one
more thing my mom don't know caca all she
knows is that he suposibly "23" I think I
have major issue to resolve help please,
p.S does it really matter that im polish
and my mom want me to date a polish guy,
but my boyfriend is puerto rican (help
help) 
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smith8500
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Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 02-05-04 19:22pm
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Well,
i really can't tell you much, all I can
say is once nikki read this she is totally
gonna think of me! I know how hard it is
to go through this.
Love,
chanda
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SiLvErTeArDrOpS03
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Posted: 02-05-04 20:08pm
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Hey hottchickaa, what's your name by the
way? How old are you and how old is your
boyfriend?
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KariM18
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Posted: 02-05-04 21:35pm
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Wow.. Why was he in jail??... 11 years
older is alot older and he has a child..
I would just be careful with this one..
Specially sense he was in jail depending
on why and stuff. It just doesnt sound
like a good situation to be in. And if u
worry about bein preg. When u do it
anally then he should just use condoms all
the time.. Or r u on birth control??
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Alexandra_O
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Posted: 02-05-04 21:36pm
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You should use condoms for anal sex not
only for protection from std's but also
because the rectal area is not a "clean"
place. It's filled with bacteria and your
bf's penis could get infections
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ERICA1121
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Joined: 06 Jan 2004
Posts: 252
Location: DETROIT
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Gone
Posted: 02-05-04 21:41pm
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KariM18
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Posted: 02-05-04 21:46pm
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Wow erica11.. That was way outve line..
I agree maybe anal sex isnt the
best..And the age difference isnt either,
I dont agree either.. But its not fair
for u to tell people to keep their legs
shut and not have sex etc.... Ur just
being a health forum how u put that.. U
just said it way too rudely! And if
this isnt the real erica then who is
it???? And also, I dont know how old this
girl is, but not everyone here is a
''little girl''...
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Alexandra_O
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Posted: 02-05-04 21:47pm
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Thats what I was wondering kari....While
this girl may not be making the best
choices you have no right to call her a
hoe and judge her like that. I found that
incredibly insulting and rude
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ERICA1121
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Also Gone
Posted: 02-05-04 21:49pm
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KariM18
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Posted: 02-05-04 21:57pm
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I guess but for all u know , this could be
the only person shes slept with! And if
thats the case, hows that a promiscuous
person?!
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ERICA1121
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Posted: 02-05-04 22:14pm
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Ok look you can all relax, "i" "erica" did
not post those 2. My man did. I read the
post and left the window open and waited
to reply because my sister called and
while I was on the phone with her, my man
went on the computer and when I got off
the phone, he told and showed me what he
did. So I apologize for him. I am here
to give help and as well as recieve help.
I get along with everyone here just fine.
Just drop it and get over it already.
Hottchickaa I apologize to you about my
mans post. Men can be suckers and he was
acting like one. I did not know what he
did until it was done. I told him if he
wanted to post to use his own name and not
to use mine . ~ erica.
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Untimely Blessings
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Posted: 02-05-04 23:38pm
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Erica do me a huge favor, go in edit those
posts and just leave them blank those are
very offensive hun!
Kel
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ERICA1121
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Posted: 02-05-04 23:42pm
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I didn't post them !!!!!!!! And how do I
edit them?
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Untimely Blessings
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Posted: 02-05-04 23:43pm
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I know you didn't sweetie, go up and click
edit, and then type delete or something,
so that it is off the boards. Thanks
kel
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hottchickaa143
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Well Ok Good And Negative Feedback
Posted: 02-06-04 10:53am
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So my name is venessa, im 18, my boyfriend
is 29 and hes been in jail for conspericy
and a "to commit homicide" , hes been in
jail for 10 yrs, and I truely think he
changed and the most important thing is
that he treat me with respect, he want to
know everything I think when were together
yes ive had alot of boyfriends in the past
but this one is diff, no im not on birth
control and no im not a promiscuous
person. Did u know when u type in
homicide the website states_ to commit a
not good act. Type in homicide and click
preview it will say (to commit a not good
act ) people must think im crazy, he had
gotten into a fight in jail and almost
killed someone so they gave him 7 more yrs
he was only suppose to be in for 3 yrs
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KariM18
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Posted: 02-06-04 10:58am
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Ok well why dont u get on birth control!?
. .. Did u mean rape by the
way? Im pretty sure thats what u
meant.. And my god.. If it is that
is terrible!! ! I know someone whos
been raped.. How u can ever date
someone who u know has done this is just
sick. Im sorry, but it is. I dont
believe someone who can rape somebody,
ever changes, and if they do, they still
should never be able to live a normal
happy life because theyve ruined someone
elses. And how can u say u think hes a
good guy now? Someone who gets out of
jail for rape , then goes to date someone
11 years younger, is not a good guy! No
offense but it sounds like u need to open
ur eyes.. Now it doesnt surprise me why
he likes it anally after bein in jail for
10 years! I know u will hate me now for
posting this, and it may be rude, but I
cant have respect for someone who can date
someone who has raped an innocent girl of
god knows what age!
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Untimely Blessings
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Posted: 02-06-04 11:05am
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I am going to be nice and not even post
what I am thinking at this moment, just
to tell you my best friend since 4th grade
was raped and beaten 2 days ago, anyone
that can degrade a woman let alone a
pregnant woman doesn't deserve a life of
freedom.
Kel
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hottchickaa143
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Wait a Minuit You Got This Thing So Wrong
Posted: 02-06-04 11:13am
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He didn't go to jail for rape he went to
jail for conspericy and attempt to kill .
He has a daughter for crist sake I
wouldn't be with a guy if he raped someone
im not stupid, thats just sick, im sorry
if I have written the post in a way for
everyone to think it was rape it wasn't,
so if I sent the wrong message then im
truely sorry.
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KariM18
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Posted: 02-06-04 11:16am
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U said not a nice act.. Then u said
''rap''.. R u sure ur not just tryin to
cover it up cuz u saw how edgy it made
people? Cuz what else could u have meant
by ''rap''??? Also.. Like attempt to
kill is any better????? I just think ur
fallen for a plan hes made. .He gets out
of jail then goes to date a teenager???
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hottchickaa143
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Posted: 02-06-04 11:25am
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I knew people would think im coverin it
up, people just don't understand I no for
a fact he didn't get a rapp for rape. And
people do do mistakes he had a attempt to
kill he did his time and hes out, the only
reason he went to jail in the first place
was conspericy for druds, not to kill he
got that when he was in jail , if it made
people edgy then I can't do nothin bout
that,
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