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Sandbox Party
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Joined: 25 Jul 2006 Posts: 7276
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Posted: 01-19-07 13:33pm
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| lil_blaze2004
wrote: | | good thing whit is only on
house arrest
too! |
seriously.
Melly .Shmelly, cant you just say she was
provoking .Whitney? So that she doesnt
get into any more trouble?
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Melissa_20
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Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
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Posted: 01-19-07 13:47pm
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| lil_blaze2004
wrote: | does she work? I'm sure
they have programs out there to help her
out and stuff. If people/animals are
going to be hurt, something needs to be
done.
I hope everything works out mel. Good
thing whit is only on house arrest
too! |
she is in a probram at
school right now and they go I think 3-4
times a week to wal-mart to work.Its not
for money its just for experience so it
helps them get jobs.I think she can get a
job at wally world after she graduates.I'm
nto sure about the housing thing.There is
this place called the rainbow home but I
think you have to complety know how to
take care of yourself and I don't think
she is mature enough for that,yet maybe
thats what she needs.
I've gotten into several fights with
her,yelling an physical through the
years.I know that sounds bad but she goes
off sometimes with calling people a
"stupid dumb b*tch","prostitute" and what
not and when I try to get her away from
whitney she goes off on me. I'm
protective of my dog so when she does that
i'm like "beth,if you ever kick my dog in
the throat again I wont stop her from
biting you".So she kicks me and whitney
freaks out again. . . .Ahhhhhhh.
| rainfire1424
wrote: | | lil_blaze2004
wrote: | | good thing whit is only on
house arrest
too! |
seriously.
Melly .Shmelly, cant you just say she was
provoking .Whitney? So that she doesnt
get into any more
trouble? |
when the guy called me thismorning I told
him she kicked her and she bit him.But I
also said it wasn't the first time she has
kicked her but that *is* the first time
whitney bit her.And I told him she barked
at her first so my sister had plenty of
time to know what the hell was gonna
happen.She wont get into any more trouble
I think.
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Sandbox Party
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Joined: 25 Jul 2006 Posts: 7276
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Posted: 01-19-07 14:22pm
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Did anyone else see it to back you up??
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Melissa_20
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Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
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Posted: 01-19-07 14:26pm
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| rainfire1424
wrote: | | did anyone else see it to
back you up?? |
only my whole family!
Lol my dad was all like "i can't take this
anymore,the dog has to go!" and my mom was
like "no! Why does she have to go?
Bethany provoked her?!" she aint goin no
wheeer. I'm gnona move asap tho cause I
can't deal with living in that house
anymore
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Sandbox Party
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Joined: 25 Jul 2006 Posts: 7276
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Posted: 01-19-07 14:37pm
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How old is your fool sister?
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Melissa_20
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Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
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Posted: 01-19-07 14:44pm
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| rainfire1424
wrote: | | how old is your fool
sister? |
19
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 01-19-07 14:47pm
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| melissa_20
wrote: | | rainfire1424
wrote: | | how old is your fool
sister? |
19 |
what is a 19 year old doing provoking a
dog??
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Emma2
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Posted: 01-19-07 14:50pm
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| rainfire1424
wrote: | | melissa_20
wrote: | | rainfire1424
wrote: | | how old is your fool
sister? |
19 |
what is a 19 year old doing provoking a
dog?? |
shes not well she has the mental capacity
of a 13 yrs old....You cant blame her or
the dog....When I was 13 I used to beat up
cats!
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Melissa_20
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Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
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Posted: 01-19-07 14:51pm
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| emma2
wrote: | | rainfire1424
wrote: | | melissa_20
wrote: | | rainfire1424
wrote: | | how old is your fool
sister? |
19 |
what is a 19 year old doing provoking a
dog?? |
shes not well she has the mental capacity
of a 13 yrs old....You cant blame her or
the dog....When I was 13 I used to beat up
cats! |
are you serious? Lmao!
Well she is slow but she does know what
she's doing. She just doesn't care
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Emma2
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Posted: 01-19-07 14:56pm
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| melissa_20
wrote: | | emma2
wrote: | | rainfire1424
wrote: | | melissa_20
wrote: | | rainfire1424
wrote: | | how old is your fool
sister? |
19 |
what is a 19 year old doing provoking a
dog?? |
shes not well she has the mental capacity
of a 13 yrs old....You cant blame her or
the dog....When I was 13 I used to beat up
cats! |
are you serious? Lmao!
Well she is slow but she does know what
she's doing. She just doesn't
care |
yeah I used to torcher little animals with
my brother...Yes she knows what shes doing
but thats the point when your 13 youra
child and you dont act accordingly becuase
your immature...
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Sandbox Party
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Joined: 25 Jul 2006 Posts: 7276
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Posted: 01-19-07 15:02pm
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My brother is 17 and has the mental
capacity of about a 12 or 13 year old..
He has always been horrible to animals.
He put my puppy in a freezer.. Poured
gasoline on my black lab.. Slammed his
foot onto my kitten and killed her.
But yeah they know what they are doing is
wrong.. Its all for attention. I just
think that they dont know the *extreme*
wrongness of it.. They sorta associate it
with like, cussing or something.
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Melissa_20
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Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
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Posted: 01-19-07 15:02pm
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| emma2
wrote: | | melissa_20
wrote: | | emma2
wrote: | | rainfire1424
wrote: | | melissa_20
wrote: | | rainfire1424
wrote: | | how old is your fool
sister? |
19 |
what is a 19 year old doing provoking a
dog?? |
shes not well she has the mental capacity
of a 13 yrs old....You cant blame her or
the dog....When I was 13 I used to beat up
cats! |
are you serious? Lmao!
Well she is slow but she does know what
she's doing. She just doesn't
care |
yeah I used to torcher little animals with
my brother...Yes she knows what shes doing
but thats the point when your 13 youra
child and you dont act accordingly becuase
your
immature... |
very true.Which is why
she couldn't live in a home yet.She isn't
old enough mentally
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Mommy35
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Joined: 23 Sep 2006 Posts: 3165 Location: Vacationland, USA,
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Posted: 01-19-07 18:50pm
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Isn't that what group homes are for?
Teaching and promoting positive behaviors?
I live in maine and that is what I do, I
oversee residential services for adults
with intellectual challenges (what used to
be called mental retardation) and mental
health issues. We have people that
reside in our homes that are high
functioning and can do most things without
assistance or with support only. Then we
have other clients that are profoundly
challenged and require 24/7 supervision.
I think it's too bad that your dog is
paying the price for your sister's temper.
I think sometimes people with such
challenges continue to do be abusive to
others (people and animals) because they
have never been held accountable for it.
I'm .N.O.T saying she should be put in
jail, but some kind of consequence
sometimes works for some people. If she
has the intelligence of a 13 year old, she
certainly does know the difference between
right and wrong.
I wouldn't give your sister another change
to make your dog the victim.
Unfortunately the animal most always lose
biting battles. Here a dog would be put
down for biting a person regardless of the
reason. It's too bad. Some people
deserve to be bit.
Good luck. What does house arrest entail
for a dog?
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michelle1981
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Posted: 01-19-07 19:36pm
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Aww, poor sweet .Whitney!
Is your sister seeing any therapist or
doctors? What kind of help are they
giving her?
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ThriftyGal
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Joined: 21 Apr 2006 Posts: 2982 Location: Ontario, Canada
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Posted: 01-20-07 09:45am
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That's doing it sick emma. At 13 I knew
the difference between right and wrong and
could never stand to watch another living
thing suffer.
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Melissa_20
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Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
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Posted: 01-22-07 11:10am
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| mommy35
wrote: | | isn't that what group homes
are for? Teaching and promoting
positive behaviors?
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yeah,but they would
*never* tolerate her,not in a mmiliion
years.I think though that sometimes she
would be better off,maybe she would act
like more of an adult since she would be
away form her paretnts ya know? I think
she's getting to that age and thats why
she's acting out so much
| mommy35
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good luck. What does house arrest
entail for a
dog? |
well,the guy said its
quarentine btu explained it like its 10
day house arrest for a dog. I am suppose
to be getting stuff in the mail and I have
to make an appointment for the vet on the
30th so he can sign her release papers so
she doesn't have to be on house arrest
anymore
| michelle1981
wrote: | aww, poor sweet .Whitney!
Is your sister seeing any therapist or
doctors? What kind of help are they
giving her? |
she's not getting any
help.No doctor no therapist.She just needs
to be out and do her own thing and make
her own money.I think thats what she
wants,but she's trying to get attention
the wrong way .Is not cool
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Mommy35
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Joined: 23 Sep 2006 Posts: 3165 Location: Vacationland, USA,
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Posted: 01-22-07 12:48pm
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Melissa,
w.O.W!!! Florida must be very different
than here. We have people that live in
our homes that can be downright mean.
They bite, hit, kick, spit, and are a
verbal nightmare, but that is what we do.
I can't tell you how many times I had to
pull a 300 pound adolescent boy off a peer
when I worked with kids. It's a little
better with adults, but not much.
I think you are right, it she got out and
away from your parents, who without a
doubt baby her (enable) she would probably
be a different girl.
Still too bad about the dog. 
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Sunflower_pie81
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Joined: 17 Jan 2006 Posts: 5041 Location: to hell with this crap
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Posted: 01-22-07 12:56pm
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| melissa_20
wrote: | | rainfire1424
wrote: | | huney I think your sister
needs to be
institutionalized. |
I think she needs
to go to a group home.She is just too much
for my family to handle and it getting
rediculous. I think it's the fact that
she wants to be on her own ad make her own
money but she can't right now so she's
throwing an adult
tantrum |
my brother was in a group home, and they
gave him jobs to do and made him work and
stuff and they paid him. He is slow and
has major anger problems....But he is also
handycapped too. And i'd have to say
about 19 is when they put him in a
home....
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Melissa_20
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Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
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Posted: 01-22-07 14:05pm
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| mommy35
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i think you are right, it she got out and
away from your parents, who without a
doubt baby her (enable) she would probably
be a different girl.
Still too bad about the dog.  |
oh no! My parents do not
baby her.They treat her as normal as
possible.The only people that *do* baby
her,are new people who don't know her.I
think she kinda takes advantage of that
| sunflower_pie81
wrote: | | melissa_20
wrote: | | rainfire1424
wrote: | | huney I think your sister
needs to be
institutionalized. |
I think she needs
to go to a group home.She is just too much
for my family to handle and it getting
rediculous. I think it's the fact that
she wants to be on her own ad make her own
money but she can't right now so she's
throwing an adult
tantrum |
my brother was in a group home, and they
gave him jobs to do and made him work and
stuff and they paid him. He is slow and
has major anger problems....But he is also
handycapped too. And i'd have to say
about 19 is when they put him in a
home.... |
what group home did he go
to?Where was it located?
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 01-22-07 14:09pm
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| melissa_20
wrote: | | mommy35
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i think you are right, it she got out and
away from your parents, who without a
doubt baby her (enable) she would probably
be a different girl.
Still too bad about the dog.  |
oh no! My parents do
not baby her.They treat her as normal as
possible.The only people that *do* baby
her,are new people who don't know her.I
think she kinda takes advantage of that
| sunflower_pie81
wrote: | | melissa_20
wrote: | | rainfire1424
wrote: | | huney I think your sister
needs to be
institutionalized. |
I think she needs
to go to a group home.She is just too much
for my family to handle and it getting
rediculous. I think it's the fact that
she wants to be on her own ad make her own
money but she can't right now so she's
throwing an adult
tantrum |
my brother was in a group home, and they
gave him jobs to do and made him work and
stuff and they paid him. He is slow and
has major anger problems....But he is also
handycapped too. And i'd have to say
about 19 is when they put him in a
home.... |
what group home did he go
to?Where was it
located? |
it was a home that placed the people in 4
person homes in a nice community. It was
really lovely.....But then when he got
sick he is back with his mother. He is
in a weelchair....Now. And doesn't
really bother too many people.
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