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Pregnant Again Just After Having a Baby?

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AshleyNeal

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Posted: 01-19-07 15:21pm


Well it came up negative again so I feel a little better.

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Posted: 01-19-07 15:24pm


That's good ashley. Give your body some time to recover. Do they know why you went into labour so early?

Melissa_20

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Posted: 01-19-07 15:24pm

rainfire1424 wrote:

first of all I found nothing wrong with what I just typed.

Secondly, I deleted the rude post.

Jesus.

sandra,not being an a$s but you *have* been mean lately

AshleyNeal

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Posted: 01-19-07 15:26pm


Rainfire1424 i'm done talking on here so you lay off me. I shouldn't have bother coming on here in the first place. I hope you have a good life and sometime learn how to be nice to people and stead of calling them uneducated. I wish you all the best goodbye

Sandbox Party

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Posted: 01-19-07 15:31pm

ashleyneal wrote:

rainfire1424

i'm done talking on here so you lay off me. I shouldn't have bother coming on here in the first place. I hope you have a good life and sometime learn how to be nice to people and stead of calling them uneducated. I wish you all the best

goodbye

bye bye!

melissa_20 wrote:

sandra,not being an a$s but you *have* been mean lately

mean as in, people just cant take it when im honest?

God forbid.

But its ok when everyone was atacking .Allie and saying rude things? No one was jumped on then.. Even mods were getting into it.

Whatever. Im out for now. Ya'll need to calm down and remember when you point the finger at somebody you have 3 more pointing at yourself.

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Posted: 01-19-07 15:35pm

rainfire1424 wrote:

ashleyneal wrote:

bye bye!

melissa_20 wrote:

sandra,not being an a$s but you *have* been mean lately

first of all not "mods" were jumping into the allie thing. I said 100 times, I wsn't getting into it. So if that's getting into it then so be it. A mod got into it.

You don't need to get snappy with everyone sandra. I will blame it on having 2 babies in diapers and being home with them all day. I'd be health forum too. But seriously some posts don't need to be replied to. Did you really have to say "bye bye!" ? No you could have let it go.

I'm telling you guys it's gonna get back to what it was a few months ago where we delete everything and not just cause of you, although you have been quite moody lately. Shocked

are you preggo again???? Shocked

Sandbox Party

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Posted: 01-19-07 15:41pm


To be perfectly honest, i've had questions about that since I havent had a period in almost 3 months. But actually.. I've had a lot of stress lately.. Not just little things with the kids.. Something fairly big and screwed up happened about 3 weeks ago and its made my life a living hell ever since. It doesnt help that .Rob never buys me flowers. (hard to explain.) anyway, sorry for being such a bitch.. It was never meant to hurt anyoen or be rude, ive just been snappy. Ya'll know im not normally like this and the few times I am theres always a good reason.

Melissa_20

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Posted: 01-19-07 15:42pm

rainfire1424 wrote:

ashleyneal wrote:

bye bye!

melissa_20 wrote:

sandra,not being an a$s but you *have* been mean lately

i'm not gona say i've never been mean bt damn snadra,this girls baby just died and all you got to say is she can't spell and maybe she should stop trying to procreate.I know i'm not perfect but damn. . .

Sandbox Party

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Posted: 01-19-07 15:43pm


sigh u guys are brutal. Give it up. I apologized. Find somebody else to pick on.

Melissa_20

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Posted: 01-19-07 15:44pm

rainfire1424 wrote:

to be perfectly honest, i've had questions about that since I havent had a period in almost 3 months.

But actually.. I've had a lot of stress lately.. Not just little things with the kids.. Something fairly big and screwed up happened about 3 weeks ago and its made my life a living hell ever since.

It doesnt help that .Rob never buys me flowers. (hard to explain.)

anyway, sorry for being such a bitch.. It was never meant to hurt anyoen or be rude, ive just been snappy. Ya'll know im not normally like this and the few times I am theres always a good reason.

it's cool,everyone goes through their own sh*t girl.Pregnant?!?!? I thought you were fixed?!?!?

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Posted: 01-19-07 15:44pm

melissa_20 wrote:

rainfire1424 wrote:

it's cool,everyone goes through their own sh*t girl.Pregnant?!?!? I thought you were fixed?!?!?

so did I but you tell me a reason I havent started my period yet.

:shrugs:

Melissa_20

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Posted: 01-19-07 15:46pm

rainfire1424 wrote:

*sigh*

u guys are brutal.

Give it up. I apologized. Find somebody else to pick on.

I wrote that before I saw your last post

rainfire1424 wrote:

melissa_20 wrote:

rainfire1424 wrote:

it's cool,everyone goes through their own sh*t girl.Pregnant?!?!? I thought you were fixed?!?!?

so did I but you tell me a reason I havent started my period yet.

:shrugs:

uh,stress. . .Maybe being fixed stopped it?

Whats up with the flowers thing?

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Posted: 01-20-07 13:36pm


To the original poster, i am very sorry to hear about your loss. I lost my baby at 22 weeks so I know what you are going through. My daughter didn't die beacuse of the hospital though she was just too little to survive. I get pangs where I wish to be pregnant again. Sometimes they are stronger than other times but I just try to ignore them. I know I am not emotionally ready for another child and I don't think I will be for a long time. I am not trying to replace my daughter I just feel that I should of had 3 babies and now I don't. I know everyone says things happen for a reason and at first I got angry at that but now i'm starting to think it may be true. I have to accept that for whatever reason my little girl wasn't meant for this earth. my advice to you would be to wait a few months and see how you feel. It's been just over 4 months since my daughter passed away and my pain is still very raw and i'm sure my hormones are still all over the place making me crave another baby. I made a deal with myself to wait for a year and if I still feel the same then consider it. You need time to grieve for yourself and your baby.

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Posted: 01-20-07 13:40pm

melissa_20 wrote:

rainfire1424 wrote:

ashleyneal wrote:

bye bye!

melissa_20 wrote:

sandra,not being an a$s but you *have* been mean lately

exactly! That was way out of order sandra. If you are going to say nasty things to someone who has just lost their baby then maybe you should step away from the post and ignore it.

You know I get on with you usually but Shocked

also, as for your lack of periods it is probably something to do with getting fixed. I'm not an expert on the subject but you may want to mention it to your doctor.

Have you took a test?

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Posted: 01-20-07 13:54pm

rainfire1424 wrote:

but its ok when everyone was atacking .Allie

no-one was attacking allie.
I asked allie a few simple questions ffs, and she failed to answer even one of them - because there were no answers.

lil_blaze2004 wrote:

a mod got into it.

got into it??? Hahahaha
a mod - this mod asked some questions (simple questions) of a user who had an iffy story and the user was unable to answer those simple questions.

And no matter what your education there is no reason to spell pergnant wrongly.
First off it is all over these forums and second there is a spell checker for people who have spelling difficulties.

Eyes Wide Shut

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Posted: 01-20-07 14:17pm

rainfire1424 wrote:

so did I but you tell me a reason I havent started my period yet.
:shrugs:

prob the same reason I haven't started mine!! ........No cluuuueee! Lol...I have nooo clue why my period hasn't been here!!

Def. Ask your ob/gyn if that's normal! Maybe you *can* have another baba!! Smile

sarah

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Posted: 01-20-07 14:34pm


To the original poster: i got this poem in an email a few days after I miscarried..I hope it helps a little bit. I'm sorry for your loss. I thought of you and closed my eyes and prayed to god today. I asked what makes a mother and I know I heard him say; a mother has a baby, this we know is true. But, god, can you be a mother when your baby is not with you? Yes, you can, he replied with confidence in his voice. I give many women babies and when they leave is not their choice. Some I send for a lifetime and others just for a day. And some I send to feel your womb but there's no need to stay. I just don't understand this god, I want my baby here. He took a breath and cleared his throat and then I saw a tear. I wish I could show you what your child is doing today. If you could see your child smile with other children and say; "we go on earth to learn our lessons of love and life and fear. My mommy loved me oh! So much that I got to come straight here. I feel so lucky to have a mom who has so much love for me. I learned my lessons very quickly, my mommy set me free. I miss my mommy oh! So much, but I visit every day. When she goes to sleep on her pillow is where I lay. I stroke her hair and kiss her cheek and whisper in her ear, mommy don't be sad today i'm your baby and i'm here." so you see my dear sweet one, your children are not blue. Your babies are here in my home and they'll be at heaven's gate waiting for you. So now you see what makes a mother and it's the feeling in your heart. It's the love you had so much of right from the very start. Though some on earth may not realize you a mother until their time is done; they'll be up here with me one day and they'll know you were the best one!

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Posted: 01-20-07 14:38pm

babymajic0506 wrote:

rainfire1424 wrote:

so did I but you tell me a reason I havent started my period yet.

:shrugs:

sarah

i know lots of women who have late or absent periods from december/january.

I'm guessing it's lunar in cause.

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Posted: 01-20-07 15:52pm

kia_breizzze wrote:

rainfire1424 wrote:

but its ok when everyone was atacking .Allie

no-one was attacking allie.

I asked allie a few simple questions ffs, and she failed to answer even one of them - because there were no answers.

lil_blaze2004 wrote:

a mod got into it.

got into it??? Hahahaha
a mod - this mod asked some questions (simple questions) of a user who had an iffy story and the user was unable to answer those simple questions.

And no matter what your education there is no reason to spell pergnant wrongly.

First off it is all over these forums and second there is a spell checker for people who have spelling difficulties.

nice kia.

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Posted: 01-20-07 16:24pm


To ashley neal - i'm so sorry about your loss. I hope you are able to find the support you need in 'the real world'. There are lots of support groups out there where you can talk with women who will understand your pain and feelings (and who will not pick on your spelling ). I wish you all the best.