I have been married for 16 years. I have
my fantasies while havig sex but there is
no way I would ever voice them outloud.
The reason is they are my fantasies and
not his. Voicing them outloud would
defeat the whole purpous for me cause it
wouldn't excite me.
Obviously part of his fantasy is being
verbal about it cause being verbal excites
him and is part of his fantasy. You
understand what I am saying?
If he wants you to tell him yours during
sex or anytime , make up something that
you know he'd like to hear that would not
insult his ego or threaten him in anyway.
I suggest making him the main character in
your fantasy.
i'm like you, I can't talk during sex I am
too busy trying not to see the dust on the
ceiling fan.
I
have to silently fantisize or else I can't
concentrate on my own self enough to
climax.
Remenber men are visual and verbal. Women
are not. Fact!
Good luck!!
Debby
