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roxy06
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Sep 2003
Posts: 22
Location: Orlando, FL
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My Story..kinda
Posted: 02-05-04 22:07pm
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Well hey I know I dont really know you
guys, but it feels like I do, I always
read ya'lls posts and everything and I
feel like I know you guys but yet ya'll
dont know me..I know what a creep, lol but
I never really had anything to talk to you
guys about before. But here's my story,
alright well me and my boyfriend had sex
jan. 21 and 22 without a condom and he
came inside me, and my period was due feb.
2. I mean I want a baby he wants the
baby, thats not a problem, I want to be
pregnant, but the thing is I went to the
doctors a few weeks ago and had a pap
smear and they called about the results
today and it turns out that I have an std
and so if im to ever get pregnant and have
a baby I can't, due to the std, give birth
to the baby naturally, i'd have to have a
c-section, which really upsets me because
I want the full experience of a baby. So
yeah, I just wanted to let ya'll know my
story now that I might be pregnant. 
-carley-
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smith8500
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6624
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 02-05-04 22:12pm
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Well chica,
i am sorry you have an std. That must be
so scary. Good luck on being preggy.
Possibly the std is curable?
Always,
chanda
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PregnaJordan
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Joined: 18 Oct 2003
Posts: 2908
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Posted: 02-05-04 22:13pm
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Yea which one is it? Not to b too
personal, but some are curable during
pregnancy and u can have a natural
birthing expierence? So did u take a
pregnancy test now or what?
Jordan and jaydyn
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allusivepond
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003
Posts: 452
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Posted: 02-05-04 22:24pm
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Thats my question as well not to b to
personal as well but wot sort of an std is
it. And depending on the type have u
wondered where u got it, hope I didnt
offend u or anything and how old r u.
From someone who cant wait to have a jelly
bean all of their own
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ERICA1121
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2004
Posts: 252
Location: DETROIT
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Posted: 02-05-04 22:38pm
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What type of std do you have?? I know
that women who have genital herpes which
is a treatable but not curable std can
have a natural child birth as long as they
are not having an outbreak. I am not too
sure on genital warts though. But how I
am taking this is that you have a non
curable but treatable std since you say it
could prevent you from having a vaginal
birth. Because if you had any of the
following such as chlamydia, gonnoreha,
syphillis ect.... Those are curable with
the usage of antibiotics and should not
interfere with your delivery at all. Keep
us posted. Hope we can help. Good luck~
erica. P.S. How far along are you??
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honeycoco
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2003
Posts: 376
Location: georgia
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Posted: 02-05-04 22:39pm
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Did you get the std from your boyfriend?
I wouldnt want to have a baby by someone
who gave me a std. I am asking the same
question everyone else is asking what kind
of std do you have? How old are you? I
would hold off on having a baby until I
know the whole facts about your std
chrystal
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KariM18
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Joined: 13 Jan 2004
Posts: 1436
Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
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Posted: 02-05-04 22:41pm
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How old r u first of all? Im sorry about
the std...Which one?
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SweetCheeki17
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jan 2004
Posts: 268
Location: new york
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Hey
Posted: 02-06-04 08:56am
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If you give a natural birth, the baby can
be curable than humans.. So theres big
differences. Also im very very sorry
about the situation you are in. You still
can have the natural experience and stuff
like that. Some ppl cant, some ppl can.
I hope I helped
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roxy06
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Sep 2003
Posts: 22
Location: Orlando, FL
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Posted: 02-06-04 09:48am
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The std is called condlyoma, its a type of
warts I guess. My mom was the one that
talked to the doctor so I dont know if its
curable, I do know that it can cause caner
eventually though. And yes I did get it
from my boyfriend, he's the only guy i've
been with. Oh and i'm 16
-carley-
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insurancegirl
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Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5295
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Posted: 02-06-04 11:06am
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-06-04 09:34am; edited 1 time in total
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KariM18
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Joined: 13 Jan 2004
Posts: 1436
Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
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Posted: 02-06-04 11:24am
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Ok ur 16 and u said u guys want to have a
baby???? Dont tell me ur trying at
16....... It seems liek we hear this all
too much! Do u understand how hard this
is?! U said u wanna get pregnant...I
mean, if u think this is the guy u are
gonna be with then why dont u wait? I
think alot of girls try because they want
it to keep them together w/ their
boyfriend. U know what, I know alot of
people get preg. At 16 (not trying) and
they can be good moms just liek the moms
here.. But trying to get pregnant at 16?
I just dont consider this havin a stable
mind at all. Also, yes, does ur
boyfriend know? Cuz I mean it was his
responsibility to get checked out to make
sure hes clean before giving a disease to
u! Doesnt sound like too great of a guy
to me right off..
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JillMarie
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Joined: 24 Dec 2003
Posts: 3022
Location: Iowa
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Posted: 02-06-04 12:30pm
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First off-dont have a baby-your too young,
and 2nd I think if you do have a baby you
can probably have it naturally. They have
a lot of medicine and I even had a friend
how has the same thing and she was able to
have her baby natural they just gave her a
certain type of medicine in her iv.
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Sparkles412
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Nov 2003
Posts: 65
Location: NY
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Whoa...hold On!!!!
Posted: 02-06-04 12:44pm
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You are 16 years old, and you want to have
a baby, your kidding right? First of all,
I am really sorry to hear about the std,
that really sucks. Most std's involving
warts are curable, try aldara cream it's
the #1 prescribed topical wart cream used,
and it works!! The only thing is that it
can be painful, so goodluck!!! Second,
did your boyfriend tell you that he had an
std, or did he lie and then you get stuck
dealing with this, because if that's the
case then you don't want to be having a
baby with a dirtbag like that. That is
serious, it's not funny!!! If your
boyfriend knew that he had an std and
didnt tell you, that 's pathetic.
You have your whole life ahead of you.
You need to finish highschool before you
start thinking about having a child, why
rush everything. Do you honestly believe
that you are ready? How are you gonna pay
for this baby? Who's gonna pay the
hospital and doctor bills, who's gonna pay
for the diapers the formula, do you even
know how much diapers and formula costs?
That stuff is very expensive.
I am 20 years old and I am finishing my
last year in a community college, and
starting a 4 year in the fall. I know
that I am not ready to have a baby, and I
don't have the money to pay for one, and I
work my ass off!!!
You have a lot of thinking to do, and yes
you cannot vaginally deliver a baby with
the std, so I hope that you get treated,
and I seriously hope that you aren't
pregnant because you have no idea what you
getting yourself into, you are still a
child!!!!!
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roxy06
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Sep 2003
Posts: 22
Location: Orlando, FL
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Posted: 02-06-04 13:01pm
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No, im not sure if im pregnant yet, I
still have to go get a test. My
boyfriend's 17 and no he didn't know he
had the std and he still doesn't know I
have it becuase he went on vacation with
his family and wont be back for like a
week and a half so there's no way I can
get ahold of him to tell him. I know
everyone says its a lot of work and really
hard to raise a child when your still a
kid yourself, but it wasn't like we were
out trying to get me pregnant, I mean we
talked about one day having a kid but
weren't thinking about having one anytime
soon. I know having sex without and
condom and him cuming inside me is just
asking to get pregnant, but that wasn't
really the plan. But I mean if I am
pregnant, I have a job and he has a job
and I have money saved up.
-carley-
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KariM18
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Joined: 13 Jan 2004
Posts: 1436
Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
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Posted: 02-06-04 13:03pm
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Well I hope u use condoms and birth
control if ur not preg.. Also. U did say
u wanted to have a baby...
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003
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Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 02-06-04 13:04pm
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Even if you have money saved, that will
maybe last you about a month with all the
things you need to get. You need to talk
to your guy as soon as he gets back and
ask him how he got that std. And make
sure you arent pregnant because you are
way too young to be talking about kids.
Im 20 and deciding to wait because I cant
afford it. Its a tough thing to have.
Take a test and find out if you were
pregnant or not. And not using a condom
and letting him cum in you is a plan. And
it was asking to get pregnant. I hope all
goes well
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insurancegirl
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Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5295
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Posted: 02-06-04 13:09pm
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-06-04 09:34am; edited 1 time in total
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dominicksmommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2004
Posts: 279
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Kari
Posted: 02-06-04 15:07pm
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U said if u use condoms and bc ur not
prego thats wrong hunny!!1 I was on bc and
using condoms and I got pregnant and it
only reduces the chances
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KariM18
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Joined: 13 Jan 2004
Posts: 1436
Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
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Posted: 02-06-04 15:10pm
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O hun I know, I got preg. On birth
control too, but im just saying, if u use
them it really reduces the chances so its
better then nothin**
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4930
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 02-06-04 15:50pm
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I agree with kari. Using condoms or birth
control is better than nothing at all.
Even if some do get pregnant off of it,
alot of women are lucky and do not get
pregnant off of them, like me! Lol. Im
not pregnant yet. (knock on wood) and ive
been using condoms and partial birth
control for about a year now
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