tinkinpink84
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Colic?
Posted: 01-22-07 06:41am
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So she is still way cranky, she didnt go
to sleep till 3am well she would fall
asleep in the bouncer then as soon as I
get her out she is screaming, I think one
night jason got her to sleep and she didnt
scream that night but for almost a week
now shes been like that at night, except
saturday night, me and hubby went to see a
movie and my friend watched her and she
was quiet and still quiet mostly when we
came home. Im thinkiny maybe colic? At
the drs he said she is fine and healthy
and poopin less was normal, it seems like
she does one good poop a day now . So I
dunno. Maybe gas. Im tempted to like
drive around theneighborhood with her and
see if she sleeps that way. She slept 6
hrs straight when she fell asleep at 3am I
think about 5amish I picked her up out of
the bouncy chair and she fell asleep on
me. It sucks when you are soooooooo tired
and they dont want to sleep and u dont
know what to do, ive been tryin all sorts
of things. Went through colic with joseph
but car rides etc didnt help at all after
2 mths he finally slept normal etc. I
feel like im gonna go crazy I dont know if
I can do months of this.
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Kia
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Re: Colic?
Posted: 01-22-07 07:57am
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| tinkinpink84
wrote: | | i dont know if I can do
months of
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meaning?
* have you tried belly massage?
* have you set up a bedtime routine for
her?
* have you tried bathing her just before
bedtime?
* rocking?
* bouncing?
* try feeding her in a more upright
position?
* try keeping her more upright after
feeding?
* stop feeding mid way to burp her?
* try burping her again a few minutes
after feeding is finished?
* carry her in a front sling or back pack
* wrap her snugly in a blanket (this is
called swaddling)
* keep her moving in a baby swing
* place her near continuous noise or
vibrations from household appliances like
the dishwasher, vacuum cleaner or
washer-dryer
* take her for a car ride or a walk
outside
* give her a dummy to suck on
* give her tummy or back rubs
* take a shower together - the warm water
may be comforting
try colic drops, gripe water or
dimeticone
parental anxiety can be a cause of colic
in baies
avoid these foods for yourself:
cabbage, broccoli, cauliflower, sprouts,
beans, onions, garlic, apricots, melon,
spicy foods, caffeine and alcohol.
By reintroducing foods gradually, you may
be able to identify which food, if any, is
causing the problem.
If there is a family history of milk sugar
(lactose) intolerance, you could try
eliminating cows milk fromyour diet.
Sometimes babies are not able to digest
lactose well - this improves as they get
older.
It's a good idea to continue breastfeeding
because weaning the baby from breast milk
may make the colic worse.
Common causes of crying:
* hunger
* tiredness
* lack of contact - some babies want to be
cuddled all the time
* startling - eg due to a jerky movement
or sudden noise
* undressing - most babies don't like the
feel of air on their skin
* temperature - is the baby too hot or too
cold?
* pain - is there an identifiable source
of pain, eg a nappy rash
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common symptoms of acid reflux:
* pain, irritability, constant or sudden
crying, "colic"
* frequent spitting-up or vomiting
* vomiting or spitting-up more than one
hour after eating
*not outgrowing the spitting-up stage
* refusing food or accepting only a few
bites besides being hungry
* poor sleep habits, frequent waking
* "wet burp" or "wet hiccup" sounds
* bad breath
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tinkinpink84
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Posted: 01-22-07 09:04am
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Ah so confusing, some of it sounds as if
its acid reflux with the way she cries and
spitting up a while after eating , but she
gets hiccups alot too, I hold her all the
time she still cries , put her down still.
We have a swing I brought it back out to
try again, last time I put her in it she
didnt like it to much then joseph wouldnt
stay off the thing. Hopefully he doesnt
notice it out. Jason got her to sleep the
one night rubbing her tummy. I tried it
last night , didnt work. I always burp
her halfway through eating. I dont think
its my diet thats bothering her since even
when weve use formula the few times its
still the same deal. Been there done that
swaddling, what sucks is we dont have like
colic things here, like gripe water well
they might have it at a german drugstore
maybe I dunno. But in florida igot it at
a health food store haha I had to drive an
hr to the place.
Someone told me before like 2 oz of water
ina bottle and dissolve a peppermint in it
and that helps soothe the tummy. Not sure
if anyone has tried that or not.I think
ive tried almost everything but the car
ride at this point and the gripe water and
stuff like that since meds are limited
here even vitamin and herb supplements
they dont have to much to offer on base
either. I might try and keep her awake
the rest of the afternoon or something and
hope she sleeps tonight, shes been quiet
all day sleeping and waking up to eat and
diaper change. She gets a lil quiet in
the bouncy chair wich has alil vibrating
thing on there. But she ends up leaning
sideways and looks uncomfy in it lol.
After she eats again im gonna put her in
the swing and see how that goes.
Hopefully something helps. Just sooo
tired.
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foxy
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Posted: 01-22-07 09:04am
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Wow, .Kia basically covered it all.
You also need to get a nap time routine in
place, and put her down for a nap at the
same time everyday before she gets tired.
If she misses a nap or her nap is
interrupted etc. She will definately be
cranky.
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tinkinpink84
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Posted: 01-22-07 09:10am
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| foxy
wrote: | wow, .Kia basically covered
it all.
You also need to get a nap time routine in
place, and put her down for a nap at the
same time everyday before she gets tired.
If she misses a nap or her nap is
interrupted etc. She will definately be
cranky. |
how do u do that with such a tiny little
one though? I never got into routines
with my son wich sucked because of my
parents work schedules and mine and I was
the one giving them rides to work etc. So
he slept whenever, he had a bedtime by
like um 8 mths old but he still didnt
sleep all night he didnt sleep all night
until 14 mths. Its just when theyre so
little I dunno im not sure how to get the
whole routine going with naps. Weve been
trying to do a bedtime routine but then
hubby kinda gives up and leaves me by
myself to get her to bed. Wich ends up at
3am after eating not eating eating etc
an`d s`creaming . Can u give them at a
month old those little tummys gas drops?
Sometimes I think its gas but then she
lets out huge burps and stuff then 15 min
later she is screaming all over again.
With joseph when he had colic the only
thing that sorta helped was gripe water
after 2 mths of him screaming we finally
found that and it worked lol.
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foxy
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Posted: 01-22-07 09:27am
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| tinkinpink84
wrote: |
how do u do that with such a tiny little
one though? I never got into routines
with my son wich sucked because of my
parents work schedules and mine and I was
the one giving them rides to work etc.
So he slept whenever, he had a bedtime by
like um 8 mths old but he still didnt
sleep all night he didnt sleep all night
until 14 mths. Its just when theyre so
little I dunno im not sure how to get the
whole routine going with naps.
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at her age she should be taking at least
3-4 naps a day, when she is bathed, fed,
and has played for a while just put her
down in her crib, if she needs silence to
sleep ensure there is pure silence (no
loud, sharp noises), close the drapes if
necessary and she should fall asleep
eventually. And ensure that you do this
everyday around the same time. At night
it is normal for her to wake up several
times a night to feed, ensure that when
you feed her you do it in darkness so that
there is nothing to stimulate her....That
way when she is finished she will fall
back to sleep.
| tinkinpink84
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sometimes I think its gas but then she
lets out huge burps and stuff then 15 min
later she is screaming all over again.
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this really sounds like acid reflux to me.
This happens to me alot and it ends up
with me throwing up.
To reduce the gas, when feeding her try
stopping and burping her throughout the
feeding
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tinkinpink84
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Posted: 01-22-07 09:33am
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Thats why im a lil confused cuz sometimes
she spits up like right after eating but
then even like an hr or so after eating
she does sometimes. I havent really heard
much into acid reflux in babies till
recently a few people I know there kids
have had that problem. Is there like a
website with the symptoms of acid reflux
in infants on it?
Sometimes she turns red crying if u just
lay her down. Like all day today shes
been on the couch propped up with the
boppy pillow when shes been sleepign wich
I tried in the bed last night but didnt
happen. Shes been sleepin fine all day
like that and somewhat fine in the bouncy
chair until I moved her . And she falls
asleep fine on me throughout the day.
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lil_blaze2004
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Re: Colic?
Posted: 01-22-07 09:34am
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wrote: | | tinkinpink84
wrote: | | i dont know if I can do
months of
this. |
meaning?
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it's doing it hard being a new mom and
thinking that you have to go through
months of screaming. I've said it a
bunch of times before. And worse.
I hope you never have ppd depression or
anything kia if you ever have a kid.
Di, have you tried cutting dairy out of
your diet or gving her lactose free
formula?
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Magical Logic
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Re: Colic?
Posted: 01-22-07 09:42am
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| tinkinpink84
wrote: | | . I dont know if I can do
months of
this. |
you choose to become a
mother.You knew having a crying baby could
be something you have to deal with. There
are woman out there that cant have kids.
So be blessed that you do have kids and
just deal with it!
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tinkinpink84
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Posted: 01-22-07 09:45am
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No but then again I dont really have much
dairy in my diet to begin with , I am
trying to eat more dairy stuff. The
formula ihave when ive supplemented is the
similac with dha and ara but we hardly
supplement unless she seems like she is
starving and thats only been a handful of
times. Cuz I sit here thinkin maybe its
the formula but she is the same way when I
just breastfeed and she has had no formula
that day. But of course it cant hurt to
try right? I tried lookin up stuff on
acid reflux as well . Somethings are odd
like how can u tell if they have heartburn
lol. Sometimes it seems like she jsut
wants to eat but then she sucks for like 5
min and starts bobbing her head like crazy
and starts crying. And this can go on
for alil while. But they say poor weight
gain but she is gaining weight fine, just
the spitting up way after eating is odd.
But he rnose has been congested but its
only at night and not during the day.
And she was at the drs waht 3 days ago he
said shes healthy as can be so I dont know
lol
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foxy
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Posted: 01-22-07 09:49am
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| tinkinpink84
wrote: | thats why im a lil confused
cuz sometimes she spits up like right
after eating but then even like an hr or
so after eating she does sometimes. I
havent really heard much into acid reflux
in babies till recently a few people I
know there kids have had that problem.
Is there like a website with the symptoms
of acid reflux in infants on it?
Sometimes she turns red crying if u just
lay her down. Like all day today shes
been on the couch propped up with the
boppy pillow when shes been sleepign wich
I tried in the bed last night but didnt
happen. Shes been sleepin fine all day
like that and somewhat fine in the bouncy
chair until I moved her . And she falls
asleep fine on me throughout the
day. |
yes, sometimes you will throw up right
after if you are still suffering from the
last attack......Or an hour later if the
symptoms from the last attack has already
disappeared.
.Kia basically said what to look for in
infants with aicd reflux....Look at her
previous posts.
Also if you are suffering from acid reflux
laying down makes it even worse and much
more painful, being propped up makes it a
little less painful.
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lil_blaze2004
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Re: Colic?
Posted: 01-22-07 09:50am
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| chase4
wrote: | | tinkinpink84
wrote: | | . I dont know if I can do
months of
this. |
you choose to become a
mother.You knew having a crying baby could
be something you have to deal with.
There are woman out there that cant have
kids. So be blessed that you do have
kids and just deal with
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jesus christ leave the girl alone. If
you think her saying she doesn't know if
she can handle months of screaming bad
then you don't want to hear what i've said
before. So sorry we're not perfect!
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Magical Logic
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Re: Colic?
Posted: 01-22-07 09:57am
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| lil_blaze2004
wrote: | | chase4
wrote: | | tinkinpink84
wrote: | | . I dont know if I can do
months of
this. |
you choose to become a
mother.You knew having a crying baby could
be something you have to deal with.
There are woman out there that cant have
kids. So be blessed that you do have
kids and just deal with
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jesus christ leave the girl alone. If
you think her saying she doesn't know if
she can handle months of screaming bad
then you don't want to hear what i've said
before. So sorry we're not
perfect! |
never once have I said
anything about being perfect.She just
seems vey unhappy with her kids cause they
are such a bother to take to the dr and
the cying bothers her damn what dont
bother her and thats all I am going to say
..Bye
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foxy
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Re: Colic?
Posted: 01-22-07 09:58am
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| chase4
wrote: | | tinkinpink84
wrote: | | . I dont know if I can do
months of
this. |
you choose to become a
mother.You knew having a crying baby could
be something you have to deal with.
There are woman out there that cant have
kids. So be blessed that you do have
kids and just deal with
it! |
i think that was harsh, as a mother it is
very frustrating when your child is crying
uncontrollably and you can't figure out
what is wrong and nothing you try will
make it better...........Its frustrating
because you feel helpless, combine that
with exhaustion and you are a ball of raw
nerves and you actually feel like you are
going to go crazy with each passing day.
Then you begin to doubt your mothering
instincts and nature because you can't
seem to help your baby and basically
everything goes down hill after that.
Critisizing .Tink every chance you get
will only make her feel much worse. We
need to try and help her right now.
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tinkinpink84
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Posted: 01-22-07 10:00am
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I dont think anyone wants to go through
months of a screaming baby not knowing
whats wrong or nothing is helping etc. I
did it withjoseph and it wasnt fun and I
felt bad because we tried like everything
under the sun to help him out. I was
running out of ideas at the time. Its
even harder when by the time she does get
to sleep now a few hrs later josephs awake
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And everyone knows all babies cry but
colic is likea thousand times worse.
Joseph used to scream from 11pm to 5am for
2-3 mths straight lukily I hadnt started
back at work yet
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 01-22-07 10:02am
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For the next few days keep a diary of your
baby's routine....Or lack thereof ...Then
make a dr's appointment and discuss all
this with him and see what he tells you to
do....Babies are trial and error....Just
dont' keep playing a guessing game when
you have a doctor at your finger tips.
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Re: Colic?
Posted: 01-22-07 10:05am
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| chase4
wrote: | | tinkinpink84
wrote: | | . I dont know if I can do
months of
this. |
you choose to become a
mother.You knew having a crying baby could
be something you have to deal with.
There are woman out there that cant have
kids. So be blessed that you do have
kids and just deal with
it! |
okay, this is getting extremely old, not
to mention excruciatingly annoying. I
don't know what your problem with tink is
but you seriously need to stop nitpicking
her threads as a way to get in your little
digs. If you have such a problem with
her and you think she's such a bad mother,
then ignore her posts and stop filling up
her threads with your venom. It's
completely unnecessary, not to mention
juvenile.
every mother in the world
has felt that way at some point and saying
that to other adults, doesn't make you a
bad mother. We are all human and we all
get fed up sometimes. No one is perfect,
not even you. And i'm sure that even
you have said that to
someone at some point. 
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Kia
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Posted: 01-22-07 10:05am
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| tinkinpink84
wrote: | | thats why im a lil confused
cuz sometimes she spits up like right
after eating but then even like an hr or
so after eating she does
sometimes. |
that does sound like acid
reflux - maybe speak to nat, she has lots
of info on that.
| lil_blaze2004
wrote: | it's doing it hard being a
new mom and thinking that you have to go
through months of screaming. I've
said it a bunch of times before. And
worse.
I hope you never have ppd depression or
anything kia if you ever have a
kid. |
i've had more than a fair
share of depression thanks, I know full
well what depression is like.
And her posts do not sound depressed, just
endless complaining about how much of a
bother her kids are.
I'll take 'em, send 'em over.
| chase4
wrote: | | you choose to become a
mother.You knew having a crying baby could
be something you have to deal with.
There are woman out there that cant have
kids. So be blessed that you do have
kids and just deal with
it! |
exactly - it is a choice
to be a mother, be lucky you got that
choice, for some that choice is either
taken away or otherwise impaired.
I'd do pretty much anything to have a
screaming baby 24/7
for everyone else, it's not having a go at
diane.
It's just that it seems as if she is
always fed up with her kids or that they
are a bother.
No-one said anything about perfection,
everyone on her has made mistakes at
sometime or another. No-one elses seems
to endlessly complain about the nuances of
parenting.
It's not even like it's a first baby and
she didn't know about sleepless nights and
stuff.
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Nataliachick7
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Posted: 01-22-07 10:07am
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My son has acid reflux, I was told he was
"colicky" until I did my research-you can
pm me.
Some reflux signs:
# constant or sudden crying or colic like
symptoms
# irritability and pain
# poor sleep habits typically with
frequent waking
# arching their necks and back during or
after eating
# spitting-up or vomiting
# wet burp or frequent hiccups
#frequent ear infections or sinus
congestion
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tinkinpink84
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Posted: 01-22-07 10:08am
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| sunflower_pie81
wrote: | | for the next few days keep a
diary of your baby's routine....Or lack
thereof ...Then make a dr's appointment
and discuss all this with him and see what
he tells you to do....Babies are trial and
error....Just dont' keep playing a
guessing game when you have a doctor at
your finger
tips. |
thats what ive been trying to do and I
told him all the stuff etc when I was at
the drs on friday. But he really didnt
say anything other then she seems fine and
healthy . I told him about her eating
habits , how much shes pooped. The crying
, the congestion still at night. Of
course her nose was clear at the drs when
we went. But he gave me saline drops that
I already got at the store anyways .
Hopefully my husband can get off work if I
need to take her to the dr, he has my car
until his can be fixed since his friend
backed into it when it was parked. Shes
been poopin alot more today so eh maybe
shes been somewhat constipated. Since
there have been the few times ive given
her formula when shes been this cranky.
Hopefully something gets figured out lol
I feel so bad when shes like turning red
screaming and I dont know what to do.
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