Magical Logic
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Posted: 01-22-07 11:36am
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Why give someone advice when she already
has her mind made up
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posted: 01-22-07 11:37am
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I remember when I came on here and was
complaining about .Oni constantly
screaming...
I dared anyone
to medical answer tell me i'm a bad mother
because I didn't think I could handle a
screaming baby.
Who the hell would be able to handle a
screaming, blood curtling screams,
baby?!?!?!?! Not me!!! Hell, I was put
on meds...Like the millions of other
mothers who can't cope with it.
But, I guess, i'm a bad mother too....
sarah
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tinkinpink84
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Posted: 01-22-07 11:39am
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| chase4
wrote: | | i have struggled too but I
would never act like any one my kids were
a chore.Only reason I say something to her
about it is cause she is the only one I
seen act like its such a big
deal. |
well im sorry im the only one that posts
my problems lookin for advice, I dont see
how I made itl ook like my kids were
achore, im sure most parents would like a
break once in a while. Imean I have no
problem with my job as a mom but when you
have a screaming kid and have no idea
whats wrong with them its hard to deal
with especially when its been a week of it
and youve tried soo many diff things and
the childs seen the dr as well. And he
says shes totally fine. I love my kids
and wouldnt trade them for anything in the
world.
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foxy
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Posted: 01-22-07 11:40am
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| chase4
wrote: | | i have struggled too but I
would never act like any one my kids were
a chore.Only reason I say something to her
about it is cause she is the only one I
seen act like its such a big
deal. |
do you realise that when you are depressed
just getting out of bed is a chore.
.Tink, i'm not saying that this is how you
feel, i'm just pointing out that
struggling is one thing but being
depressed .A.N.D struggling is a whole
different ball game.
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Magical Logic
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Posted: 01-22-07 11:40am
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Sarah there is a big difference between
you and diane all her post are mostly
about how her kids are just a bother.
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 01-22-07 11:41am
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| chase4
wrote: | | sarah there is a big
difference between you and diane all her
post are mostly about how her kids are
just a
bother. |
i think you're the only one that gets that
vibe...
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tinkinpink84
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Posted: 01-22-07 11:42am
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| babymajic0506
wrote: | i remember when I came on
here and was complaining about .Oni
constantly screaming...
I dared anyone
to medical answer tell me i'm a bad mother
because I didn't think I could handle a
screaming baby.
Who the hell would be able to handle a
screaming, blood curtling screams,
baby?!?!?!?! Not me!!! Hell, I was put
on meds...Like the millions of other
mothers who can't cope with it.
But, I guess, i'm a bad mother too....
sarah |
my sister had no problems with her babies
but she had sever post partum depression
and was put on paxil and klonopin but of
course her husband was abotu to deploy to
iraq at the same time too. With joseph I
went through that of thinking you cant
handle it, but I hadmy mom there and dad
and brother and my husband was there for
alittle bit of time to help out before I
went insane. And I would have told my dr
friday but I was feeling happy for a while
then so I figured I was over it. And id
rather not be doped up on all kinds of
meds . I am breastfeeding so there are
only certain ones you can take as well.
But preferably id rather take no meds if I
can help it.
Im sure there aer soo many other mothers
that feel like theyre going crazy when you
dont know what to do to help your baby, if
I didnt care abotu my child id be letting
her scream all night long and just going
to bed or something of that nature but
obviously I care or iwouldnt ask for
advice.
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posted: 01-22-07 11:44am
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I don't recall her ever
saying her children were a bother!!!!!!!
I do, recall, her saying that the Dr.S
office and the Dr.S were!!! How dare you
twist someone's words in such a demeaning
manner.
Chase, look, I have nothing against you!
It's just what you're doing right now is
making you look worse than her.
I mean, how mature is it, of you, to continually nag .Tink and her
posts?
Sarah
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 01-22-07 11:46am
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| chase4
wrote: | | melissa_20
wrote: | | chase4
wrote: | | i am not makeing it look
worse. She does a good enough job
herself |
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| chase4
wrote: | | sarah there is a big
difference between you and diane all her
post are mostly about how her kids are
just a
bother. |
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tinkinpink84
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Posted: 01-22-07 11:47am
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Maybe its just soo much fun I dunno. But
eh I really dont care, if my words look
like I think everythings a bother then im
sorry because I didnt mean it that way.
Nor would I ever. This is a forum for
advice. Most people that want advice
usually have aproblem . So therefore I
dunno . Thats all I can say about that
really thats the point of the forum
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Magical Logic
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Posted: 01-22-07 11:47am
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| babymajic0506
wrote: | i don't recall her ever
saying her children were a bother!!!!!!!
I do, recall, her saying that the Dr.S
office and the Dr.S were!!! How dare you
twist someone's words in such a demeaning
manner.
Chase, look, I have nothing against you!
It's just what you're doing right now is
making you look worse than her.
I mean, how mature is it, of you, to continually nag .Tink and her
posts?
Sarah |
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posted: 01-22-07 11:49am
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Sssooo....You're going to continue acting
like this towards her?
What did she do to you, for you to be
soooo concerned with her life?
Oh, let me guess, you feel baad for
her poor innocent little kids?! No, you
could probably care less about her and her
kids. You're just doing this to stir sh't
up...
Sarah
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Magical Logic
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Posted: 01-22-07 11:49am
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| melissa_20
wrote: | | chase4
wrote: | | melissa_20
wrote: | | chase4
wrote: | | i am not makeing it look
worse. She does a good enough job
herself |
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| chase4
wrote: | | sarah there is a big
difference between you and diane all her
post are mostly about how her kids are
just a
bother. |
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 01-22-07 11:50am
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| chase4
wrote: | | babymajic0506
wrote: | i don't recall her ever
saying her children were a bother!!!!!!!
I do, recall, her saying that the Dr.S
office and the Dr.S were!!! How dare
you twist someone's words in such a
demeaning manner.
Chase, look, I have nothing against you!
It's just what you're doing right now is
making you look worse than her.
I mean, how mature is it, of you, to continually nag .Tink and her
posts?
Sarah |
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again you're the only one who says she's
complaining about her kids. Since no
one else got that vibe do you think that
maybe *you're* the one that needs help?
Maybe you have some underlying issues and
instead of addressing them you display
oppositional defiant behavior patterns (or
whatever the adult equivalent is)?
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tinkinpink84
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Posted: 01-22-07 11:51am
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| chase4
wrote: | | babymajic0506
wrote: | i don't recall her ever
saying her children were a bother!!!!!!!
I do, recall, her saying that the Dr.S
office and the Dr.S were!!! How dare
you twist someone's words in such a
demeaning manner.
Chase, look, I have nothing against you!
It's just what you're doing right now is
making you look worse than her.
I mean, how mature is it, of you, to continually nag .Tink and her
posts?
Sarah |
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u get that from what 3 posts in the same
week about the same prob continuasly
complaining, I asked for advice on the
subject last time she went to the drs said
it was all fine so thats why I was asking
about colic and then kia brough tup acid
reflux as well. Its one thing thats been
going on over a week . Not a million and
one problems
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Magical Logic
Extremely EHEALTHy
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Posted: 01-22-07 11:53am
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| babymajic0506
wrote: | sssooo....You're going to
continue acting like this towards her?
What did she do to you, for you to be
soooo concerned with her life?
Oh, let me guess, you feel baad for
her poor innocent little kids?! No, you
could probably care less about her and her
kids. You're just doing this to stir
sh't up...
Sarah |
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 01-22-07 11:53am
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Umm, wow. Ladies, back to your corners!
i think .Tink has plenty of advice now
about how to deal with her daughter. Good
luck with that and let us know how it
does.
Chase: if you're going to do nothing but
pick on .Tink, just click the back button
on your browser. It's getting so old
watching you attack her. Seriously,
either offer her some advice or just shut
the f*ck up already. 
mods, could we get this locked please?
This is nothing but drama now.
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posted: 01-22-07 11:54am
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Lol...Practice what you preach...Golden
rule of ignorance!
Sarah
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 01-22-07 11:55am
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| ayamiyaki
wrote: | umm, wow. Ladies, back to
your corners!
i think .Tink has plenty of advice now
about how to deal with her daughter.
Good luck with that and let us know how it
does.
Chase: if you're going to do nothing but
pick on .Tink, just click the back button
on your browser. It's getting so old
watching you attack her. Seriously,
either offer her some advice or just shut
the f*ck up already.
mods, could we get this locked please?
This is nothing but drama
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every time tink makes a post, she does the
same thing!
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Magical Logic
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Posted: 01-22-07 11:57am
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Sorry but I just voiceing my opinion. Its
ok for some of you to be blunt on here but
not me. She is either complaining about
her husband or her kids
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