arcadia
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32wk Appointment & Other Things.
Posted: 01-22-07 14:56pm
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Just got home a little bit ago from my
32wk doctor's visit. Everything is a-ok.
My next visit is in 2 weeks &.I start
seeing all the other doctors from now on.
So .I can be familiar with all of them
just in case my doctor isn't the doctor on
call when .I go into labor! Can't believe
it's already getting so close. Yowza.
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.Did anyone else get ridiculously
depressed at the end of their pregnancy?
I feel so hopeless lately. I'm so excited
for .Gabe to be here, but everything else
just feels so bleak. We don't have a
place of our own to live, .I had to quit
my job early, things with .Chris seem so
weird.. I don't know if it's just because
.I'm pregnant, or if we've just hit a
general rough patch. But .I can tell that
.I'm just driving him nuts &.I'm
trying so hard, but no matter what .I can
do, .I keep making him mad or annoyed. He
didn't want to pay his phone bill because
he said .I'll call him too much or text
him too much. So now .I feel like he
doesn't want to talk to me ever. It's so
hard to get him to cuddle with me or even
kiss me. &.Whenever .I try to
initiate anything sexually, it ends up
just me giving him head &then him
rolling over &going to bed. It's
never been like this before. He snaps at
me for everything, &keeps telling me
how helpless .I am, &how .I have to
man up because we're going to have a baby
&stuff like that. I try to talk to
him about it but all he says is "sorry" or
".I don't know what to say to make you
feel better." .I feel like he's dreading
the fact that he got me pregnant &now
he's going to have to be with me forever.
I feel like he doesn't like me. I know he
loves me. But sometimes .I just feel like
he doesn't want to be with me, even though
when .I told him that today he got really
upset &told me he wants to be with me
more than anything &that if he wanted
to leave, he would've done it already.
&.He's not the only problem. My
sisters are becoming increasingly mean
towards me, too. They always tell me how
they can't wait until .I don't live here
anymore &how much .I bug them
&they always complain about having to
share things with me &how they don't
want to have to live with a baby.
I seriously just feel like everybody .I
know is extremely annoyed with me
&doesn't want to be around me or even
talk to me at all.
It really sucks.
&.I'm sorry for venting.
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tinkinpink84
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Posted: 01-22-07 15:04pm
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Your sister(s) ? Sound mean. I would
hate that, thats how my sister was feeling
at her husbands moms house, maybe chris
is realizin that very soon there will be
ababy there and everything will change.
Near the end of my pregnancy my hubby
acted the same way, even sexually lol it
ended up like that I got sooo tired of
the giving head thing . Its likesooo
much goingon in such alittle time. I
lived at my parents when I had my son , I
couldnt wait to get out on my own. But my
siblings would never say anything like
that asmuch as they kinda hate me or did
hate me. They liked my son more then me
lol. Heofpully they all comea round when
hes actually there .
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 01-22-07 15:08pm
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Never be sorry to vent here, .Krissy.
We're here to listen to you. Any time you
feel sad, you know you can come to us.
Chris might be freaking out since .Gabe
will be here in two short months. It
might be occuring to him that "oh man,
.I'm going to be someone's dad". Or maybe
he's stressing out because he's been
working so much. I'm sure he's not
getting sick of you. He's probably just
stressed out. Both of you are. The
living situation isn't ideal, and he knows
the clock is ticking. He's probably
feeling a little bit helpless right now
and frustrated that things aren't
improving as quickly as he'd like.
I was extremely depressed at the end of my
pregnancy. I had to quit in early .June,
and .Alyvia wasn't born until .August. We
were (and still are) extremely tight
financially, and I felt so bad that I was
responsible for doing that to us. To this
day, I still don't touch our money. I
only spend money if .Aaron gives it to me.
I don't feel right spending money I
didn't help earn, when I know we don't
have much of it anyway.
Your sisters sound like brats to me.
They're probably a little bit jealous, and
they're definitely pretty selfish from
what .I've read about them. Don't let
them bully you, hon. You're going to be
an amazing mother, and I bet you anything
that they'll fall head over heels in love
with their little nephew.
You're going to have some time on your
hands when your 2 weeks is up. You know
we're here for you, love. Any time you
need to talk, we'll be here. Okay?
*big hugs*
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Posted: 01-22-07 15:16pm
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Krissy,you know we will *always* listen to
you! Don't apologize for it!
Laura is right,chris is realizing that he
is going to be father.There is also the
fact that your hormones are raging right
now and your emotions are going nuts!
Chris doesn't know how to make you feel
better and its becasue he can't be
perfect.Hormones are nothing to mess with
and i'm sure he feels bad about the way
things are goig which is why he is acting
this way. About the sex thing,you need to
talk to him about it.Don't give him head
anymore if your initiating it and not
getting anything back. I'm sory you feel
so bad sweetie! ((hugs))
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Posted: 01-22-07 15:27pm
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Totally agree with the other girls kris!
We forget that the guys get freaked too
as we're the ones preggo, we realize much
earlier that we will be parents. I mean
we're the ones that have to change our
lifestyles from the minute we find out
we're preggo. I remember rolling a
spliff while waiting for my pg test cause
I was so sure I wasn't preggo (i had to
take the test to make sure I could have
x--rays at the dentist-werid story) and
when the test came up positive, I put it
aside and thought. Oh ok, now what??
Lol
i got really down near the end too.
Being bored as I went on early mat leave
and just waiting, and being so huge and we
had an early heat wave. It was like 100
in may that yr! I wanted to die.
We are always here to listen to you.
And yay!! Every 2 weeks now. It's
gonna go by so fast!!!
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Posted: 01-22-07 15:33pm
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I'm sorry your going through a rough time
 I just know from
my experience of being pregnant with
.Brayden and being with .Chris sometimes
guys find it really sexy to be pregnant
and to have sex, and others don't. .Chris
and I hardly had sex at all when I got
farther along and started to pop out, he
was scared to hurt the baby and etc (lmao)
so it's not like it's you...It could be a
lot of things. I mean comon..Your huge
and pregnant and you wanna bounce on your
man's weiner.
You can come live with me and .Brayden,
your sisters sound like a bunch of b*tches
that need their asses kicked. 
<3 I loooooveee you.
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arcadia
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Posted: 01-22-07 15:49pm
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| dalicialovesyou
wrote: | i mean comon..Your huge
and pregnant and you wanna bounce on your
man's weiner.
you can come live with me and .Brayden,
your sisters sound like a bunch of b*tches
that need their asses kicked.
<3 I loooooveee
you. |
.Lmao, .D!!!! That made me laugh so hard.
Yes! We'll move in with you &we'll
all be lovers.
I loooove you back <3
&.Also thank you so much .Diane,
.Laura, .Mel, &.Jess. You guys are
the absolute best &.I honestly feel so
much better after reading what you guys
said.
<3 <3 <3
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Posted: 01-22-07 15:50pm
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| arcadia
wrote: | | dalicialovesyou
wrote: | i mean comon..Your huge
and pregnant and you wanna bounce on your
man's weiner.
you can come live with me and .Brayden,
your sisters sound like a bunch of b*tches
that need their asses kicked.
<3 I loooooveee
you. |
.Lmao, .D!!!! That made me laugh so
hard.
Yes! We'll move in with you &we'll
all be lovers.
I loooove you back <3
&.Also thank you so much .Diane,
.Laura, .Mel, &.Jess. You guys are
the absolute best &.I honestly feel so
much better after reading what you guys
said.
<3 <3
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young_mama2be
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Posted: 01-22-07 16:06pm
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Hey hun. Guys are just weird during
pregnancy and mine says is cuz of my
crazaay hormones. But w/e hehe. I know
you don't know me to well but you can pm
me sometime if you want to talk!! <333
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 01-22-07 16:20pm
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Where'd you find that song on your
profile? Me likey!
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tinkinpink84
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Posted: 01-22-07 16:34pm
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Ya omg I drove jason insane alot of the
time, the night before I went into labor I
kind apeed him off quite a bit, although
now we just look back and laugh about it.
Im sure things will change alot once hes
actually here, they will say alot while
your pregnant but when reality hits it
wont be the same. Its like now hes prob
been used to doing whatever whenever and u
two going out having fun etc but once the
lil ones here your kinda limited ya know.
Even after having akid already and kinda
prepared for it still its a crazy change,
seeing as u get into habits and stuff
before theyre here thenyou have to
readjust everything once theyre here.
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Posted: 01-22-07 16:35pm
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You shouldn't feel guilty for venting.
Many of us have gone through it, or are
currently going through it. Sometimes
knowing your not alone makes things a bit
easier.
I'm sure he is super stressed knowing he's
going to be a daddy, knowing there is a
lot of responsibility with that, and also
it's probably sinking in that it's not
just going to be you and him anymore, but
you him and gabe. Some men have hard
time accepting that. It's probably
frustrating to him that he tries to please
you, make you feel good (happy) and it
doesn't work. Men can say they
understand the moods/emotions, but they
have no idea. And hey, being moody is
your right at this point. It suks, but
it's a fact of life.
Mike and I are not really doing the deed
as of late. (100% my fault). He may be
afraid of hurting you or the baby, but
there may be something else going on with
him? Have you asked?
I wouldn't do a .Hummer under any
circumstance if I was asking for it and
getting nothing.
Good luck to you!!!!
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arcadia
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Posted: 01-22-07 16:51pm
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| ayamiyaki
wrote: | | where'd you find that song
on your profile? Me
likey! |
.Isn't it absolutely beautiful? I can't
stop listening to it.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 01-22-07 18:53pm
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| arcadia
wrote: | | .Isn't it absolutely
beautiful? I can't stop listening to
it. |
mmhmm! I copied you and stuck it on my
page too. Hope you don't mind me jacking
your style! 
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Posted: 01-22-07 19:28pm
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Poor .Kristina . I feel your
pain! We are in the same boat girl! I
feel so depressed too(on and off
throughout this pregnancy).
I agree 100% with the other girls. Chris
is probably feeling anxious &
pressure, just like you! This changes
everything... Not in a bad way, but some
ppl don't adjust to change well either.
I hate change  , but I
love my babies  .
It'll all work out, you just watch!
Here's sending you a big preggo hug
**hugs**
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Posted: 01-22-07 23:44pm
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Hey krissy... Just relax yourself as much
as possible ya'. As for getting a house
of your own is something tat can't be
rush. You are so young, and .Chris too, I
haven't meet anyone on the age of 20,21
can actually own a house all by
themselve.. My best friend also facing
similar problems like yours... But she
told me, she'll take a deep breath and go
check up the baby stuff she had for her
baby, maybe as simple as taking out the
baby outfit, unfold & fold it back..
Tat makes her feel much better, and of cos
her best friend -me- is jus a phone call
away. As for you, u can always come up
here and there's a bunch of love, care and
support the ppl here could give ya.. Good
luck !
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ANGELOS MAMA
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Posted: 01-23-07 03:21am
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Big warm hug.
Awwhh mommy its going to be okay.I been
through that.To me it was more as of a
phase in our relationship.But I dont
know.Somethimes he dosent wanna cuddle
with me still && caca like that.It
makes me sad.But hey,i got my son to look
foward to <3 and your baby boy gabe
will be your pride and joy.Dont sweat it
momma.Your pregnant.Its not easy.Always
know that your hormones are going
crazy.Stay strong mama.
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Posted: 01-23-07 14:45pm
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Hey!!! I know exactly how you feel, I
have been feeling like crap lately as
well. And the whole thing with your b/f
I am going through the same thing except
worse so I know how ya feel. My parents
caught my fiance out eating with a girl
and a bunch of his friends and my dad
called him on it and he said the baby
wasn't his to the girl and then came home
and told me how much he loves me and all
that caca so I don't even know whats going
on with that or what I am going to do. I
don't have the sister problem cause I only
have 1 sister but I live with my mom for
now and my step dad don't want me there.
I have been so tired and my body hurts so
bad I can't wait to have him in march!!!
Anyway I hope things get better for ya!!!
Hang in there
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