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Becky

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Posted: 01-25-07 07:14am

I know some mums would think this is great but I don't Crying
or Very sad

lately everyone has been wanting to take the kids for the day....

Neil has them all day on thursdays and sundays which is a great break for me and give them bonding time with daddy and my mum decided she would like them once a week too (tuesday or fridays til 5pm depending on her day off)

now she has basically decided that she wants them tuesdays .A.N.D fridays so I can work Shocked

this means they would be with mum/neil 4 days a week and I would only have them 3 full days and evenings Confused

I can't do it- I would miss them like crazy...

How do I tell my mum that she can't have them without upsetting her? Crying
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Becky

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Posted: 01-25-07 09:47am

Anyone?
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hopefulmjz

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Posted: 01-25-07 09:53am

Could you possibly invite her over for a day and you could both spend time with the kids?
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foxy

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Posted: 01-25-07 09:56am

I don't know what to say actually, I think its good for the kids to be around people other than you. Sure you will miss them but its only during the day.....What are you going to do when its time for them to start school?
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Becky

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Posted: 01-25-07 09:57am

Well I go round her house nearly everyday with the kids anyway so I think she likes to spend sometime by herself with them Confused
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Melissa_20

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Posted: 01-25-07 10:27am

beckster06 wrote:
well I go round her house nearly everyday with the kids anyway so I think she likes to spend sometime by herself with them Confused
like .Kacey said,i don't see anything wrong with her wanting to spend tme with them alone.Tell her only once a week so you haev 4 days.And the days you don't have them,you still have the nights.I think it will be good for you and good for them!
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Becky

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Posted: 01-25-07 10:56am

Thanks girls Smile


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