Stressed --- Plz Help Som1 Posted: 01-26-07 07:06am
Hi,
i goto see my gf once every 2 mnths. We
have sex regular althoug I never ever
penetrated her, not even with a condom.
We decided not to risk it. Last time I
met her was 31dec. We made love for only
half hour. I did not penetrate or
ejaculate at all. She had her last
period on 24thdec. We are now awaiting
her periods for this month but nothing
yet. She had pains in lower back but
nothing else. She is not nauseating, nor
vomiting nor gained any weight.
Recently she shifted house and had an
argument with her landlord. Her landlord
is and old male who was arguing about not
receiving her notice. She gets easily
stressed out. And the shifting has
caused lots to her.
Can she be pregnant. I will wait till
monday and then suggest a test.
Riht now we are under extreme pressure and
sleep only a few hours.
By the above description do you think she
is pregnant.
Plz help
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fullofstress
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Posted: 01-26-07 09:06am
Plz some1 reply.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 01-26-07 12:42pm
Umm, how do you make love without
penetration? Do you mean you two were
making out? You can't get pregnant from
kissing.
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fullofstress
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Posted: 01-26-07 13:10pm
We hug and kiss naked. I never
ejaculated. Until today she had had
regular periods as I said her last was
around 24-26 dec.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 01-26-07 13:40pm
She's not pregnant. In order for her to
become pregnant, your sperm needs to be
inside of her vagina. That could happen
if you fingered her with sperm on your
hands, if you had sex with her without a
condom (whether you ejaculated or not) or
if you did use a condom but it broke or
came off. There is a helpful sticky
called "read this: information about
pregnancy" that you should probably read.
It has great info on how pregnancy is
caused, as well as what could delay a
period besides pregnancy.
Good luck.
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fullofstress
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Posted: 01-26-07 15:28pm
Thanks a lot. I jus spoke to her clearly
about it. Until now we would avoid it but
I decided that if we avoid it it might be
too late to talk later. So I just asked
her about symptons and she refused. She
said she is not nauseating, vomiting,
dizzi nor her stomach feels weird.
I love her a lot and this would ruin her
career and mine. I hope she gets her
periods as soon as possible. Pray for me.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 01-26-07 17:03pm
fullofstress
wrote:
thanks a lot. I jus spoke
to her clearly about it. Until now we
would avoid it but I decided that if we
avoid it it might be too late to talk
later. So I just asked her about
symptons and she refused. She said she
is not nauseating, vomiting, dizzi nor her
stomach feels weird.
I love her a lot and this would ruin her
career and mine. I hope she gets her
periods as soon as possible. Pray for
me.
is keeping a pregnancy the only option in
your mind? I bet she's not pregnant, as
you guys didnt actualy have vaginal sex,
but this is still a good time for you guys
to discuss your options regarding
pregnancy.
There is adoption and abortion, so just
remember that a pregnancy is not the end
of the world. Even with keeping the baby,
she'd be able to take maternity leave; and
she would be able to go to work until she
was very close to giving birth too. If
you both are employed then you probably
could care for a child.
Just remember your options!
Seriously though, she's almost certainly
not pregnant.
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fullofstress
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Posted: 01-26-07 17:52pm
Thanks eiri,
your advice is very personal and touches
my heart.
We are both students. Both doing our phd.
She is exceptionally brilliant. She
scored a distinction and had full
scholarship for her masters and phd. From
the kinda families we come from, if they
come to know about any such thing then
they would call her back home and nevr
allow her to get back to studies and marry
her somwhere else. That leaves me feeling
guilty coz my stupidity resulted in
devastating her career and life. I would
never forgive myself.
Am going to see her tomorrow, she is not
answering my phone. She is stressed and
in absolute fear right now.
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