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KariM18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2004
Posts: 1436
Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
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Still Freaking Out Inside....
Posted: 02-06-04 16:06pm
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Hi everyone.. Okay as most of u know, I
am 18, and 16.1 weeks pregnant* anyhow I
wrote about this a long time ago but I
need to write about it again. I am like
99.9% sure ryan is the dad (i told him he
is) ... But see, I was with him in oct.
From like the 20th-november 10th..
Anyhow.. Thing is, I had sex with
someone else (a one time thing, a big huge
mistake) on oct. 3rd.. But I had my
period after that, on oct.15th... I told
my doctor this and he said he thinks its
ryans because I am measuring to fit my due
date so far, and because I had a normal
period after chris (the one time guy)
okay, me and chris r still friends but the
big problem is.. (and please please dont
let it offend anyone, please) but he chris
is black.. And my parents are against
bi- racial relationships and are very
ignorant and racist, just against dating
out of my race mostly tho, not just
friends (i am not at all obviously, but I
cant change what they think) I dated chris
before, a long long time ago, but never
slept with him, my parents wouldnt even
let him over. Then one day, on oct.3rd
we made that mistake. Anyhow, even
though its unlikely, im still worried, I
mean if it came out his.. My parents,
and grandparents wouldnt except it.. Im
afraid I would have to give it up for
adoption? I mean I wouldnt want to at
all tho.. I love it already.. I doubt
its his.. But my doc said there is still
a small chance and u never know. But the
baby would have no exceptance besides from
me! Even chris's family is against
bi-racial couples and dating.... What do
u think? Thansk for your help!
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 02-06-04 16:13pm
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-06-04 12:30pm; edited 1 time in total
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JillMarie
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Dec 2003
Posts: 3022
Location: Iowa
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Posted: 02-06-04 16:16pm
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Oh man you are in a bad situation! What
do you think about telling ryan then
keeping it between you two?
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KariM18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2004
Posts: 1436
Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
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Posted: 02-06-04 16:17pm
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O no im not tellin ryan.. Hes a dick..
He dropped me when he found out I wouldnt
get an abortion.. And if I told him
that, then he would tell everyone that im
a promiscuous person and dont know who the
father is. He still says ''its prolly
someone elses''.. And he has no idea
about chris.. Plus, his family all knows
already. I really think its ryans anyhow
so I dont wanna tell him and then have to
go back and re-tell his parents it is his
afterall and keep switching back and
forth. If its chris's it will be the
worst thing that could ever happen. .To
any of us.
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hearenbaby8504
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004
Posts: 197
Location: Cinn. Ohio
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Oh Boy
Posted: 02-06-04 19:52pm
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Kari, when we talked earlier I never
realized this was the problem, I was
thinking how ya ryan is a dick. Now that
I read this I think that everything will
be okay, I mean of course we all know 1
time can get you preggy, but like you said
you had a period and even the Dr. Says
that it is ryans. I really think it will
turn out great.
If it is chris's baby, just
because it would be bi-racial does not
mean you should have to give up your baby,
besides I dont think your heart would let
you after all we know how much you already
love the baby. If your parents love you
then they should get over it and love the
baby just as much as they love you. They
should accept their grandbaby no matter
what. Don't worry bout it 
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honeycoco
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2003
Posts: 375
Location: georgia
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Posted: 02-06-04 21:56pm
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Jen your kids are bi-racial? I didnt
understand your post. Please give me the
story. Its sad your parent are still in
that state of mind, but dont stress over
it. It should be ryans baby.
Chrystal
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Untimely Blessings
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2004
Posts: 383
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Posted: 02-06-04 21:59pm
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Christina is 1/4 black, caler is 1/2 black
and my dad hated it at first, but he got
over it! I don't think your baby is
chris' but if it is, they will get over
it!
Kelly
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KariM18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2004
Posts: 1436
Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
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Posted: 02-07-04 01:38am
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Thanks everyone it means alot and is very
helpful. I try not to stress but I swear
it secretly eats me up inside.. I will
try not to let it tho, I know its not good
for me or the baby* I am going to pray
every night that its ryan's. (even tho
hes a jerk) it would just be easier and
better, bein both me and chris's families
arent accepting. Prayer #billion (lol)
tonite!
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 3099
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Posted: 02-07-04 18:57pm
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Wow! I wud never have thought christina
was 1/4 black because of her features
& her light skin-i bet she tans easily
though.
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 02-09-04 10:14am
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-06-04 12:32pm; edited 1 time in total
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003
Posts: 2729
Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 02-09-04 10:22am
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Kari,
think about this, I have been with larry
for 5 years, but we both cheated on each
other. We were basically just together
because we knew one day we would be
together for good. I moved around a lot
and when I moved down to florida I was
"with" some kid named bobby. Well anyway
later to say about 1 months later larry
got out of jail, and about 4 months after
that I was pregnant. Now think about that
that is 5 months. Plus 9 months of
pregnancy, and I still thought that there
was a possibility that I was pregnant by
the kid in florida, and then I kept
thinking that the baby was gonna be
purple. Things happen in our brain, its
called our self concious. It is eating at
us because we know that we did wrong. Now
even though larry knew about it I still
felt bad. But it turned out that I felt
bad because I knew that it was
wrong...Larry cheated on me during my
pregnancy needless to say, but I can
honestly say he knew that sean was his..
Sean looks just like him. I hope that you
understand what I am trying to say, and I
think that you will be fine. But also I
am sorry that you parents are like that.
My mom was against having the baby (sean
is white thogh) but I had him and she feel
in love with him. Good luck!!
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KariM18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2004
Posts: 1436
Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
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Posted: 02-09-04 19:54pm
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Thank u everyone! Thank you so much
mesmerize! It means alot!
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