I remember when a couple of years back
when I was absolutely obsessed with ttc.
I was charting, temp, taking clomid and
bd
all the time.
It was tooooooo much and the fun was
gone.
I remember one night my dh came home from
work and before he even took his jacket
off he said
" honey is there an x on the calendar
because I just can't do it!!"
i told him he was the only married man on
the planet that complained about getting
it too much. :p
we laughed and decided it was getting out
of control and took a break for awhile.
Now that we are trying again, we are
keeping at the fun stage and not work like
it became before.
There is a fine line between sometimes.
Have a great weekend everybody & baby
dust to all!! :d
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shortgeek
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Dec 2006 Posts: 597 Location: DC
Posted: 01-28-07 22:41pm
I agree there is a fine line. I think we
might be pretty close to that line right
now. It's harder to capture the
sponteneity and passion when it's
planned.
I don't think we get too crazy, because we
don't stress about skipping the nights
when we were busy with other things. Of
course, we do try to keep from going too
long during my fertile times.
I read that you're supposed to bd every
other day when ttc even when you're not
fertile. Outside of the fertile times,
we don't plan. We do it when we feel
like it.
