this is my first post here... I need some
help very badly. I have a sexual problem
that is killing me each and every day.
I was a normal, healthy man with
spontaneous and powerful erections.
In the summer of 2000 I stumbled upon some
porn sites and my life has
taken a dramatic turn ever since. I
started to watch porn movies in
2000 and while watching it for a long time
I eventually masturbate
(without even going to the restroom, I
masturbate by playing with my
penis without removing my pants). This
became a habit and by the end
of summer 2000 I had seen so many porn
movies and masturbated like
almost 4 or 5 times a day! The habit
continued and the frequency of
masturbation thru porn movies reduced but
nevertheless it was daily
routine now. For the past 6 years I have
been doing the following:
- watch porn movies on the internet
- play with my penis while watching porn
- masturbate after keeping my penis erect
for around 4 to 5 hours
- on most occassion I ejaculate more than
once
it is extremely shameful and disgusting
but this has been my routine
for the past 6 years, 2000 till now! I am
now facing the following
problems:
- very rare spontaneous erection
- no morning erections
- when I pass urine it spilts in two
streams
- can get erect only by playing with my
penis
- very weak erection even if I get one
- penis does not rise while having an
erection (very weak)
- penis won't stay erect continuously even
for 1 minute if I don't use my hands
- masturbating and ejaculating does not
have the pleasure and
sensation I used to have before I became a
victim to this shameful
addiction
- after masturbation feel pain in the
penis shaft
i am also having the following physical
problems:
- pain in the lower tail-end of back
- leg pain and tired feeling of legs
- unable to concentrate
- foggy thinking
please help me. I am dying every day
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HealthySex
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jan 2007 Posts: 414
Posted: 01-29-07 09:12am
Sounds like you need to go to a doctor and
talk about some of your symptoms.
Diabetes, high blood pressure, and other
conditions can cause erection problems.
And since you have other non-sexual
symptoms it's best to get checked out.
If it's all related to your habit then
there are things that can probably be
done. You can be treated for porn
addiction. You can talk to therapists or
sex therapists. If those alone do not
bring back your erections then you could
look into further options. Viagra,
herbals, and/or replenishing what your
body needs (the food and supplements that
provide you with all the necessary
ingredients and precursors to achieve and
maintain erections) could help you achieve
and maintain erections.
I don't know what is causing your problem,
but it sounds like you need to give your
penis a break and talk to a doctor.
You're habit is not disgusting, it's just
excessive to the point of hampering your
life.
