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anorexicbeauty
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Joined: 18 Jan 2004
Posts: 229
Location: In the 'Tweens
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Everyone Needs to Read This Please!
Posted: 02-08-04 19:15pm
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Ok, I have been reading through some of
these posts from when I was gone and I
have to say that some of you girls are
becoming very nasty to others! You are
all in the same exact situation! Yes, the
same situation! You have all become
pregnant as a teenager and though some of
you may have “planned” your children, they
have a huge surprise in store for you!
You can never fully “plan” for a baby!
Ever! It is impossible! You can have all
the money in the world, you can have 3
children like myself, but every new baby
comes with a whole new set of
instructions! No child is the same and no
one person is the same, yet the sanario
does stay the same. We are all young, we
are all mothers or soon to be, so that
requires help and positive influence from
everyone. I don’t want to see anyone
attacking anyone anymore, its tiring!
Some of you bicker like my two sons to and
they are 7 and 3 ½! Just keep in mind
when replying to the other girls, that
they are people to, and just because you
are 25 weeks pregnant and they are not
sure if they are pregnant or not, you do
not get the rank of seniority just
because, you’ve been there! Work
together! We are a team!
Danielle
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SweetCheeki17
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jan 2004
Posts: 268
Location: new york
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Wow
Posted: 02-08-04 19:23pm
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Hey,
wow.. Thats a good point.. I did notice
that some girls are rude to others.. But
hey.... We can work as a team.. And give
us some instructions.. Answers.. That we
do need. I think thats all I can say.
Thanks guys.
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Ansleyt2004
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Joined: 15 Dec 2003
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Location: MS
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Posted: 02-09-04 03:00am
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I agree that is a good point and needed to
be pointed out! No offense to anyone
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Mesmerizeu15
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Joined: 11 Aug 2003
Posts: 2729
Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 02-09-04 08:27am
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Am I mean? If so I am sorry I dont try to
be..
Stacie 
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anorexicbeauty
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Joined: 18 Jan 2004
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Location: In the 'Tweens
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Posted: 02-09-04 09:36am
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No, it wasn't directed at one person
stacie! It just needed to be said, I mean
for example everyone was jumping on alison
for wanting a baby, and its not fair!
Some of you planned your babies at 16, and
are doing great, I just think its a tad
hypocritical for you all to tell her not
to when some of you did the exact same.
Thats my only point hun! No names are
needed everyone knows what they said and
thats that! 
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Mesmerizeu15
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Posted: 02-09-04 10:32am
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Alright...And yeah I agree...
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SweetCheeki17
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Joined: 07 Jan 2004
Posts: 268
Location: new york
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Ehhh Good One.
Posted: 02-09-04 12:22pm
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There ya go. I mean you got an excellent
point.. She isnt trying to be mean.. She
just want everyone to be fair.. . Thats
all.
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Mesmerizeu15
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Jaydensmommy
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Joined: 28 Jan 2004
Posts: 1701
Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 02-09-04 12:39pm
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I have to say I personally attacked
allison. Maybe I was wrong, but I was a
few years older when I planned my
pregnancy. And a year or two does make a
big difference in many aspects. Not only
school, but work and such. It just kind
of made me upset because first she said
she isn't planning it, and then shes like
"oh well im late now" like trying to say
"ha" which I really don't care..Its her
life she could be messing up. Thats all
I am trying to say. But as rude as it
may be I am not apologizing becaues I was
trying to help her by realizing some
things.
~sara~
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kitty_55
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Posts: 1473
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Posted: 02-09-04 12:49pm
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How am I going to be messing up my life?
I can still do the things I do when I have
a kid. Not all the things. If I do have
a kid I will never smoke weed again. I am
not planning a pregancey like you. You
plan it and how old r u?
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Jaydensmommy
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Posts: 1701
Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 02-09-04 12:56pm
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I am will be 20 in may..And I am engaged
and in the process of buying our own home.
I am already half way done with my
college courses for phlebotomy. And my
fiance is making very very good money so I
am lucky enough to be able to be home with
my daughter. Not every can do that..And
its so nice to be able to. I wish all
women could.
~sara~
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 02-09-04 13:36pm
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-06-04 12:37pm; edited 1 time in total
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 02-09-04 13:40pm
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Yeah I think that we are not really
attacking but warning. From the mothers
that have been there done that, its best
to warn the new young girls thats it not
so easy. I would rather save them from
making that mistake than having have to
learn the hard way. If we warn them, at
least they can think about it and know
that its a hard job and maybe some girls
will even wait until they are older and
have a life planned out. Not just being a
teen mother. For that are already teen
moms you cant change that, but you know
now that its a tough thing. And since you
all have the experience, its best to help
the ones that think its a piece of cake.
You know what I mean? Warning them is not
such a bad thing
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Mesmerizeu15
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Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 02-09-04 13:45pm
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Kitty- I dont think that sara was meaning
to come off as she as "attacking you" and
I dont think that you meant it that way
either. I think that it is like the girls
said, you were trying to warn her. Sara
was simpply just trying to "save" you. I
hope you all know what I mean. She and
alot of the girls just worry that some
people dont realize that it isnt all fun
and games. I am not standing on either
side, I am just standing in the middle.
We are all a "family" and we are all just
looking out for each other.. But kitty I
have a question, how old are you for one?
And secondly have you told your mom that
you think you are ready to have a baby? I
mean what if you get pregnant she throws
your out and you are left on the street?
What if the baby daddy denys you? What
if...You can do whatever you want, and you
know I will be here to support you..I am
here for all of you..Good luck ladies!!
Be cool...
Hope what I said you can relate to...
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insurancegirl
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Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 02-09-04 13:51pm
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-06-04 12:38pm; edited 1 time in total
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anorexicbeauty
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2004
Posts: 229
Location: In the 'Tweens
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Posted: 02-09-04 15:16pm
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I understand all of that, I have 3 of my
own and 2 of them I had pretty young, but
telling her that she needs to grow up and
attacking her lifestyle won't change her
mind, she is trying to clean up, because
having a baby means that much to her!
Alison knows how hard having babies are,
and I don’t think she is given enough
credit! I know raising babies are very
hard, but if she wants to have a baby, I
will support her 100%, yes I will let her
know about all the tough stuff. But you
all know as much as me, that the good
always out ways the bad when you go to
sleep at night! That you child is your
gift and you wouldn’t change it for the
world! Alison, my only advice, get
financially set first, get a good
education and the rest is up to your
sanity! Lol
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smith8500
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 02-09-04 15:42pm
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Girls,
i've been gone so I am not sure where all
the negative posts are. The only argueing
I can see is around the sweetchick girl or
whatever. Everyone, calm down. This is
childish and stupid. Lets all get along,
support our friends, or go away if you
can't be nice.
Love ya'll,
chanda
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anorexicbeauty
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2004
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Location: In the 'Tweens
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Posted: 02-09-04 15:44pm
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That was my only point chanda! 
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SweetCheeki17
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posts: 268
Location: new york
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Chanda
Posted: 02-09-04 15:46pm
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What?! Now are you against me..
Chanda? .. Please.. I am soo sick of
this forum. I do not understand why I
have joined this place. No one
understood me in either way. Well health
question this crap.
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey You.
Posted: 02-09-04 15:51pm
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Hey sweetie,
i am not against anyone here. I don'ty
even fully understand what is going on
here. I am going back and trying to read
everything you've written so I can
understand this all. All I can see is
that in every one of your posts there's
been "trouble" surrounding it. I am not
here to make this forum any more trouble.
I've been here for a long time and i'm not
up for immature argueing. If you have a
problem, I have an e-mail address or you
can pm me. This forum is not for our
personal arguements. Thank you,
chanda
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