Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 02-09-04 17:17pm
There has been trouble everytime she comes
on..I am not mad I am just saying..I think
it is because some of the girls dont
really understand her, and we fear her
because of the first time she came on
here. But we need to give her a chance,
this is the internet ppl...I hope that I
have not done anything to offend anyone, I
was just saying to sara that I agreed with
you and kitty...In both ways..I know what
you are saying and what she is
saying..Actually sara I think I was
standing up for what you were saying..But
just wanting kitty to know that I will be
here for her, and ill support her just as
I would anyone else. Afterall I cant say
that I planned or didnt plan my
pregnancy..And my life worked out..No
complaints
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allusivepond
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 452
I Think I May Have Been a Culprit Posted: 02-10-04 04:19am
I think I may have been seen as
"attacking" kitty and I didnt mean it to
be attacking, and I have no interest in
how anyone lives their life or with the
lifestyle they lead, I was simply trying
to point out a different point of view and
yes it may have come out a bit huffy, but
it just seems that u werent listening to
wot we were all saying kitty.
Insurance girl raised a good point while u
may be emotionally ready it is obvious to
the rest of us that u may not be
financially ready and all the teen mothers
out there and those raising their kiddies
on their own no how much of a struggle it
can be.
Anorexic beauty ur right that we should
support her but its hard when u only want
to see one side of the coin. I only want
everyone to have a safe and happy and
healthy pregnancy whether planned or
unplanned. And I just wanted those girls
like kitty who were thinking of having a
child because they felt they were ready,
just to think about it a little more, I
think all the women on this forum are
great and I have no kids of my own (we are
ttc tho) and I have learnt a lot from even
the teen mothers and im 25. I just think
its important to think about the future
including the ups and downs not just the
ups.
From someone who cant wait to have a jelly
bean all of their own
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KariM18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2004 Posts: 1436 Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
Posted: 02-10-04 07:02am
Its a good point.. And yes, this place
is for support. But I cannot ever
support anyone who hasnt even finished
highschool yet to actually plan and
purposely get pregnant. Sorry, its the
childs life im thinking about. And I
know there are a ton of teen moms here, I
will be one soon to be (unplanned), but
most of these happened on mistake and they
are being responsible and dealing with the
consequences and taking care of their
child. I just will not sit there and
be like "o, well goodluck on getting
pregnant" . . At 14,15,16,or 17
years old... And I mean there are some
people on here that did plan it, but most
of them say it was a mistake to plan it at
so young even tho they love their
children. I just cant support anyone
trying to have a baby on purpose when they
still have highschool ahead of them and
arent even considered an adult themselves.
Sometimes people do need these reality
checks. And if this was about kitty, I
am not sorry and dont regret any of it.
She made it clear shes not mature enough
for a baby. I dont think anyone is
mature if they are 'trying'at 16.. She
wrote me a very vulgure and rude email
about it anyhow, (i did respond) though
she keeps hinting in posts that its
'someone else' she has a problem with (me
im quite sure) but dont feel sorry for
her, she went out of her way to leave me
quite a ridiculous letter full of her
'lovely' language* even tho its a place
for support, u cant support something that
u know is completely wrong, or at least I
cant.
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
