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LuvBeingAMommy23

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Well Ladies Af Has a Mind of It's Own :( Posted: 02-04-07 23:04pm


After a week and a half of af not showing up and 5 bfn hpt's.. Let me remind you that I have never been this late before.. I think af finally arrived and of all days its my 2 year wedding ann. I thought I would have gotten a better gift then af I think I am giving up all hope... I dont think dh and I are going to start trying again til april because we dont want a baby to be due around my sons b-day (12-12) and christmas that would be just nuts...Lol so I was just really hopeing that this was it I really dont know what going on with me I feel so nausous and I have been peeing alot, dizzy and very tired...Do you think its af or could I still be prego? Do you think this could be a missed m/c? What do all you ladies think??? Dh and I have been trying for about 4 mo. But I got prego right away with ds so I am really starting to get down and depressed (i just want to roll up into a corner and cry) but I am trying to keep my head up for my 14mo. Old son thanks for being so supportive baby to all ttc and good luck to all you ladies with a bun in the oven

jaemierin

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Posted: 02-04-07 23:39pm


Ahhh hun, I know it's hard but don't give up all hope just yet!!!! I would say stop with the hpt's (before you go broke!!!!) and go to the doctors and request a blood hcg test. This will give you a definate answer as to whether or not you are pregnant. Af could be delayed depending on other circumstances going on in your life right now and your diet and stress levels, etc...... How have you been otherwise? $ months is not long for ttc, even if you did get pregnant right away with your son. It's happened to alot of my gf's where the second and third, etc.... Took alot longer then the first! Stay strong and keep that chin up. I know you will get your bfp very soon. Keep me posted as to how you are doing!

LuvBeingAMommy23

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Posted: 02-05-07 00:01am


Jaemierin- thanks sweetie! I really appreciate you talking to me and trying to help.. It does I think I am still going to go in for a blood test just to make sure I hope there is still a chance don't worry I will deff. Keep you posted my family doesnt know that we are ttc again so I really dont have anyone to talk to besides dh and I dont wanna get him down cause I know he wants it just as bad as I do.. So I thank you for everything

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Posted: 02-05-07 03:15am


Aww hun I am so sorry that bi*** showed up. Just dont loose hope hun, I know your bfp is just around the corner.

jaemierin

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Posted: 02-05-07 18:45pm

luvbeingamommy23 wrote:

jaemierin-
thanks sweetie! I really appreciate you talking to me and trying to help.. It does Smile

I think I am still going to go in for a blood test just to make sure Smile

I hope there is still a chance Smile

don't worry I will deff. Keep you posted Smile

my family doesnt know that we are ttc again so I really dont have anyone to talk to besides dh and I dont wanna get him down cause I know he wants it just as bad as I do.. So I thank you for everything Smile

you are very welcome and you can post me or pm me anytime you'd like. I know what it feels like trying to find someone to talk to about all of this. Most people you know start to get tired of hearing all the talk about ttc.....I know my gf's did, but it's so hard when everyone around you seems to get pregnant just by walking past thier husbands in the hallway!!!! Lol Wink

let me know how the doc's go and i'll be here for you!!!!!!

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Posted: 02-06-07 09:50am


I'm sorry that the she devil had to show up on your aniversary. I am about to have our 1 year aniversary and I would love to give my hubby a big supprise. I also have a hard time talking to others about our ttc. I sometimes get really depressed if I think about it to much. I don't want other people knowing we are having trouble. I am very thankful I found this site so I can have some girls that are going through the same thing to talk to.

LuvBeingAMommy23

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Posted: 02-06-07 22:28pm


Star- if you ever need to talk I will be here.. You can always private message me well congrats on your up and coming 1st anniversary it is so exciting.. How long have you been trying for? Well I wish you tons of baby dust and good luck with everything.. Cortney

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Posted: 02-07-07 10:31am

luvbeingamommy23 wrote:

star-
if you ever need to talk I will be here.. You can always private message me Smile

well congrats on your up and coming 1st anniversary Smile

it is so exciting.. How long have you been trying for? Well I wish you tons of baby dust and good luck with everything..
Cortney

thank you! We have been actively trying for about 5 months now, but even then, things came up and we were not really able to try our hardest. My best friend keeps saying it will come it will come, but i'm frankly tired of waiting. While I was at the dr, they found a cyst on my breast, so right now I am just trying to focus on getting that taken care of. I go to get a mammogram next tuesday. I am petrified of getting that done because I don't know what to expect

jaemierin

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Posted: 02-07-07 19:08pm


Luvbam - what's going on girl?! Did you get in to see the doctor yet? Did they do a blood hcg? Hope all is going well for you and that af hasn't shown up yet?! Keep me posted! star - I know it's so hard and disheartening each month to see your af arrive or to get a bfn, but hang in there. It will happen (i know everyone says this. Everyone said the same thing to me!!!) maybe month 6 will be your lucky month!!!!! Remember that it takes anywhere from 6 - 12 mths for an average healthy couple to conceive, so your almost there!!!!!!!!! Tons of baby dust to you girl!

LuvBeingAMommy23

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Posted: 02-07-07 19:51pm


Hey ladies just wanna say hey star- I am sorry to hear about that.. I hope all goes well with your appointment.. I will be thinking about you and your in my prayers.. Let me know how everything goes.. Good luck.. Baby dust ( remember it happends when you least expect it jaemierin- hey sweetie! Af showed up sun. But I think I am still going to call the Dr.S I have a weird feeling that I am pregnant or its a missed m/c.. I feel sick tired and dizzy.. And then tonight we took our son to the park and I was bent down looking at him trough the tunnel slide and when I stood up I got a weird pain in my stomach ( kinda felt like a muscle ripped or something ) and then I was climbing through a tunnel ( not the slide..Lol) and I got a weird pain.. So I am not to sure about what is going on do you think I have a chance of being prego still or do you think it could be a missed m/c? Do you know what I could look for and try and figure it out.. I want to call the Dr.S but I guess I am just scared cause I dont know what to expect.. Thanks for thinking of me and keeping in touch.. I will deff. Keep you posted on what I am going to do how are you feeling? Whens your next appt.?

jaemierin

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Posted: 02-07-07 23:05pm


Hey luvbam - well, I am sorry to hear about the af showing up. I'm not sure it would be a m/c. Have you gotten / passed any clots, or any tissue? I would still recommend contacting your doctor if you are not feeling better soon. Not sure why the pains and dizziness though? Hmmmmm....If it continues, go in and tell them what's going on. They may order some blood work and include an hcg level test to see if there is any small amounts of hcg. That may give you your answer. Let me know how you do over the next couple of days ok? I'll be thinking of you! take care my girl!!!!!!!!!1

LuvBeingAMommy23

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Posted: 02-08-07 03:41am


Jaemierin- yeah its weird I have no idea what to think anymore of course I am still hoping there is a chance.. I will deff.. Keep you posted on whats going on.. I think I am going to call the Dr.S tomorrow and talk to a nurse and see what they think.. Then I guess I will go from there.. I just started thinking about this today, but dh and I bd on the night of the 3rd and I started bleeding the 4th do you think it could just be from that? Or maybe it is just af I know I am asking you things you might not know..Lol but you just might its just nice being able to talk to someone about it besides dh.. I want to call and talk to one of my sisters or my mother but they will prob. Think dh and I are crazy for trying again.. My ds is going to be 14 mo. Old.. They know I want another one but they are prob. Going to be negative about it so when I get the bfp then I will tell them but for now its just dh you and the other sweet ladies on the site to talk to:) I want to say thanks again for talking to me keep me posted on how your doing too

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Posted: 02-08-07 10:16am


Thanks jaemierin and luvbam for your kind words. It's very comforting to know that you are keeping me in your prayers as I pray everynight that I can be blessed with a baby soon. My mom has her whole bible study praying for us now, so keep the faith right? I keep trying to remind myself that I know it takes some couples one time to get pregnant, and most of the time it takes months. I was talking to my mom and she said she tried for 1 1/2 years to get pregnant with me. So i'm guessing it's a hereditary thing or something. Here's to making it stick this month... The magic number 6 - here we go. P.S. You girls are so sweet in this forum. Its nice to be able to talk to you guys about all my problems.

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Posted: 02-08-07 23:17pm

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thanks jaemierin and luvbam for your kind words. It's very comforting to know that you are keeping me in your prayers as I pray everynight that I can be blessed with a baby soon. My mom has her whole bible study praying for us now, so keep the faith right?

I keep trying to remind myself that I know it takes some couples one time to get pregnant, and most of the time it takes months. I was talking to my mom and she said she tried for 1 1/2 years to get pregnant with me. So i'm guessing it's a hereditary thing or something.

Here's to making it stick this month... The magic number 6 - here we go.

P.S. You girls are so sweet in this forum. Its nice to be able to talk to you guys about all my problems.

hey star! Your welcome sweetie Smile

I hope this will be lucky #6 for you too.. Lots of baby dust Smile

you know its crazy cause I got pregnant a month and a half after dh and I got married and I thought it would be soo easy to get pregnant again since it happened so fast the first time.. I was so wrong.. But now that I think about it dh and I were together for 4 1/2 years before we got married and I didnt get pregnant didnt prevent either.. Either that tells me I am going to have a really long time of trying or thats when it was ment to be Smile

just keep your head up and hang in there and it will happen when its ment to Smile

I sure hope this is your month Smile

and remember I am here if you ever need to talk Smile

stay positive Smile

and dont give up faith Smile

**me**

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Posted: 02-09-07 09:35am

luvbeingamommy23 wrote:

*star* wrote:

hey star! Your welcome sweetie Smile

I hope this will be lucky #6 for you too.. Lots of baby dust Smile

just keep your head up and hang in there and it will happen when its ment to Smile

I sure hope this is your month Smile

and remember I am here if you ever need to talk Smile

stay positive Smile

and dont give up faith Smile

**me**

you are so sweet!!!! I got a nice card in the mail from my favorite aunt telling me not to let my head control my thoughts. I kept saying the other day - i'll never have a baby!!! I really know that's probably not true, but I just want a baby so much that it's all I can think of sometimes.
My mom keeps saying that it will happen when it's the right time.

Baby dust to everyone!!!

LuvBeingAMommy23

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Posted: 02-09-07 23:33pm

*star* wrote:

luvbeingamommy23 wrote:

*star* wrote:

hey star! Your welcome sweetie Smile

I hope this will be lucky #6 for you too.. Lots of baby dust Smile

just keep your head up and hang in there and it will happen when its ment to Smile

I sure hope this is your month Smile

and remember I am here if you ever need to talk Smile

stay positive Smile

and dont give up faith Smile

**me**

you are so sweet!!!! I got a nice card in the mail from my favorite aunt telling me not to let my head control my thoughts. I kept saying the other day - i'll never have a baby!!! I really know that's probably not true, but I just want a baby so much that it's all I can think of sometimes.

My mom keeps saying that it will happen when it's the right time.

Baby dust to everyone!!!

hey star!
I have been thinking alot latley about a baby.. I relized after dh and I got married we werent going to try but not prevent. Well I looked to see estimated when I was suppost to o. I dont really think I planned the bd days but I got pregant that first month and I think now since I am thinking about it so much it is making it not happen.. I know its hard not to think about it and not to try real hard but hey you just never know if its ment to happen it will Smile

keep me posted on everything.. Good luck & lots and lots of baby dust Smile

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Posted: 02-10-07 18:17pm


My hubby and I started with the idea that all we had to do was not prevent, too. The problem is that you can't help but think about it. When you get pregnant without preventing, you don't have to think about trying or when you ovulate, etc. But, if you don't get pregnant right away, it is just natural to start trying to increase your chances. Trying just comes with thinking about it alot. So don't beat yourself up about thinking so much about getting pregnant. One suggestion is to try some new things or think of a goal unrelated to getting pregnant to give yourself something else to focus on. I've been taking classes after work, such as cooking classes and skating classes. That said, I can't tell you how relieved I will feel when I get a bfp. I know that it is just the start, but i'm so ready for it.

LuvBeingAMommy23

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Posted: 02-10-07 20:53pm

shortgeek wrote:

my hubby and I started with the idea that all we had to do was not prevent, too. The problem is that you can't help but think about it. When you get pregnant without preventing, you don't have to think about trying or when you ovulate, etc. But, if you don't get pregnant right away, it is just natural to start trying to increase your chances. Trying just comes with thinking about it alot. So don't beat yourself up about thinking so much about getting pregnant.

One suggestion is to try some new things or think of a goal unrelated to getting pregnant to give yourself something else to focus on. I've been taking classes after work, such as cooking classes and skating classes.

That said, I can't tell you how relieved I will feel when I get a bfp. I know that it is just the start, but i'm so ready for it.

hey! I completely understand what your saying Smile

ttc is all that has been on my mind since oct. ( well besides dh and ds..Lol ) but I am going to try and keep my mind off it and just go with the flow.. Kinda like we did before not plan but not prevent... We wanna buy a house so I am going to take my mind off baby making and put it towards buying a house ( finding one and all the mortgage stuff ) that way if it happends it happends and I dont have to go through and be depressed every month af comes.. Well sweetie I wish you the best of luck and lots and lots of baby dust to you Smile