Okay, here it goes, I tried having sex
with my boyfriend, i'd never had sex
before (virgin), but the thing is that he
couldn't penetrate me, and it's already
been like the third time , he says that he's
afraid of hurting me, is that true? Does
he have a problem or is it me?
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 02-05-07 03:46am
Maybe both. If you are nervous, you
could be dry or tense, which would make it
more difficult for him to enter.
However, if he is afraid of hurting you,
he might not be trying to enter all that
much or he could be losing his erection
because of that fear. You could try
buying some water-based lubrication at the
store.
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shopgirl11072003
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Feb 2007 Posts: 18
Posted: 02-05-07 20:31pm
llewellyn
wrote:
maybe both. If you are
nervous, you could be dry or tense, which
would make it more difficult for him to
enter. However, if he is afraid of
hurting you, he might not be trying to
enter all that much or he could be losing
his erection because of that fear. You
could try buying some water-based
lubrication at the
store.
are you sure??? Because I found out he
does drugs, is that affecting making him
weak????
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 02-06-07 01:08am
Anything is possible, but I doubt it.
Most drug users can have sex without
difficulty, at least while they are still
fairly young.
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Allie1901
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Aug 2006 Posts: 3
Posted: 02-13-07 17:23pm
Out of curiosity, do you engage in a lot
of foreplay? Are you fine with manual sex
from your partner? If so, this may sound
weird but a friend of mine tried it and
said it helped her a bit, try purchasing a
dildo and using that during foreplay. Let
him do it a little at a time, go slow, and
as you are comfortable with that, let him
try again (if you still want him to).
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shopgirl11072003
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Feb 2007 Posts: 18
Posted: 02-20-07 02:51am
Allie1901
wrote:
Out of curiosity, do you
engage in a lot of foreplay? Are you fine
with manual sex from your partner? If so,
this may sound weird but a friend of mine
tried it and said it helped her a bit, try
purchasing a dildo and using that during
foreplay. Let him do it a little at a
time, go slow, and as you are comfortable
with that, let him try again (if you still
want him to).
Well, the thing is that we use to do a lot
of foreplay, and I think it's better than
the usual way, for I get all dry, and
....well, nothing happens, actually, he
tried 3 more times, but not lately I didnt want to
anymore, but I'll try that. I hope he
still wants to, jeje.
, he says that he's
afraid of hurting me, is that true? Does
he have a problem or is it me?
