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missty
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Is My Conceiving Date Correct?
Posted: 02-08-07 18:47pm
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I am due on may 14,2007. I was told that
I conceived on august 21st/06. My last
period was beginning of august. I had
sex with my ex a day after my period.
Around aug.5/6. Then had sex with my
boyfriend many times in the same month.
I'm really nervous that my conceiving date
may be wrong! Is it possible that I
could have conceived with my ex right
after my period? I have seen online that
it is possible to get pregnant right after
your period. Are they normally accurate
on due&conceiving dates? This is
really confusing&frustrating. Please
understand & don't judge.
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Ingi
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Posted: 02-08-07 19:04pm
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The truth is you'll need to get a
paternity dna test. If you sleep with
multiple partners in a short amount of
time, the odds are it could be either
one.
Statistically, your risk of getting
pregnant just after your period is quite
low. However, that is not to say your ex
isn't the baby's father.
No one can ever tell you the exact date of
conception, even doctors or ultrasound
techs - unless you only had sex one single
time that month you couldn't know the
'exact' date.
Generally, if you know the first date of
your last period and the normal length of
your periods, you would know approximate
dates of ovulation. That is how the
doctors do it.
Good luck.
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Kia
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Posted: 02-08-07 19:21pm
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August 21st is the typical expected
conception date for a due date of may
14th.
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greeneyes33
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Posted: 02-09-07 13:21pm
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Did your doc tell you that you concieved
on aug 21?
My 'typical' conception date wasn't right
because I ovulated 6 days later. And of
course, I didnt know that, my doctor told
me that because he could tell from the
ultrasound dating.
If your doc is telling you that your due
date is may 14 because of ultrasound
dating to see how far along you really
are, then you probably did concieve on
aug21 or around that day. They can
pinpoint down to the day how 'old' your
baby is!
Good luck
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Kia
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Posted: 02-09-07 13:30pm
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| greeneyes33
wrote: | did your doc tell you that
you concieved on aug 21?
My 'typical' conception date wasn't right
because I ovulated 6 days later. And of
course, I didnt know that, my doctor told
me that because he could tell from the
ultrasound dating. |
that is the typical conception not
ovulation date based on her due date given
to her by doctor.
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greeneyes33
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Posted: 02-09-07 13:34pm
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| kia
wrote: | | greeneyes33
wrote: | did your doc tell you that
you concieved on aug 21?
My 'typical' conception date wasn't right
because I ovulated 6 days later. And of
course, I didnt know that, my doctor told
me that because he could tell from the
ultrasound dating. |
that is the typical conception not
ovulation date based on her due date given
to her by doctor. |
oh okay , I read it wrong
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Kia
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missty
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Posted: 02-09-07 16:21pm
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My Dr. Did tell me the conceiving date
(aug21). She had pinpointed it from my
ultrasound + due date. I just hope that
it correct because I would be mortified if
it wasn't my boyfriend's baby. This is
just an awful feeling to go through &
knowing I shouldn't have stupidly been
with my ex! Thank you all for your help
& support.
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Genipher
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Posted: 02-09-07 16:37pm
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Well you have three more months till the
baby is born and then have them do a dna
test to see who the father is. If it's
not your boyfriend's then it's your ex's.
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missty
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Posted: 02-12-07 13:36pm
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I thought about the dna testing. Is it
expensive? (canada) can it be done
discreetly with out my boyfriend not
finding out?
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Posted: 02-12-07 13:39pm
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Concieving dates are not alsways 100%
accurate to the date...They can vary a few
days on either side and you will never
know the exact time. About the test im
not sure ..Im guessing it would cost a bit
since its not covered by health insurance
in any province.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 02-12-07 13:39pm
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Your boyfriend doesn't know you had
another partner?
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Emma2
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Posted: 02-12-07 13:41pm
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Yeah sounds pretty decieving ...He would
have to know to supply his dna..
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 02-12-07 13:44pm
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Uh ya unless you can get a swab of his
spit while he sleeps. And the only way
to get free dna testing here is if it's
court ordered. Costs vary from 600-1200$
cad depending on the type of test.
Worst comes to worst, call maury. 
google dna testing in canada, there's some
great informative sites.
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Emma2
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Posted: 02-12-07 13:46pm
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| lil_blaze2004
wrote: | uh ya unless you can get a
swab of his spit while he sleeps. And
the only way to get free dna testing here
is if it's court ordered. Costs vary
from 600-1200$ cad depending on the type
of test.
Worst comes to worst, call maury.
google dna testing in canada, there's some
great informative
sites. |
muahahahahaha maury !! And jess we can
get free tickets! Wanna go?Lool
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